Category Archives: Understanding Men

How to Write a Love Letter That Will Make Him Cry

A while back someone asked me, “Is it acceptable for a woman to cry just to get a man to love her back?” Well of course, a person’s first reaction might be, “Of course not. It’s a manipulative tactic and not very honorable.” But I take more of a scientist’s approach in this case and…

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How to Send a “I Love You” Text Messages

We talk a lot on this blog about prematurely declaring your love! Some women have even written me and asked, “Is it really a bad idea to tell a guy I love him? What if he thinks I’m playing hard to get? What if he wants to hear me say it first? Do I always…

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10 Funny Names to Call Your Boyfriend

At some point, using a loved one’s name becomes gratuitous. When you first meet him, you’re fascinating to learn his name. When you date, you use his name often for effect. When you fall in love you use it occasionally, but usually only for emphasis or on a special occasion. Then, of course, when you…

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4 Signs Your Husband Doesn’t Love You Anymore

“I don’t love you anymore.” Devastating words and yet they’re not actually very common. In many cases, a partner will avoid saying those words, even if he thinks it and even if he’s ready to leave. Why? First of all, because he knows saying these words will provoke you. He probably wants to avoid arguing,…

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6 Signs He’s Feeling Disconnected From You

Have you noticed that your partner or boyfriend has been unusually cold lately? Maybe he’s not speaking as much or seems resentful of something. The energy between you two has changed for the worse and it’s very upsetting. What you’re experiencing is beyond a lack of passion. Such drastic “withholding” behavior indicates something else is…

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Why the Passion Is Disappearing (Or Gone) In Your Relationship

What does passion mean to you? To some, passion refers to sex and lust. To others, passion simply means strong and sincere emotion, as in something a person can barely control. Their enthusiasm and spirit for the subject, or for another person, is so strong that it’s not just an “interest”, but a passion. So…

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How to Tell You’re the Only One for Him

How do you know if a guy is falling for you? It is a bit of a trick question because on one hand, guys are usually friendly and sometimes flirty, even though they’re not serious about a relationship. On the other hand, some guys are really only interested in sex and as soon as that…

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6 Signs He’s Losing the Love He Once Had For You

It’s your worst fear come true: he’s falling out of love with you! It’s a devastating experience and the one thing you both promised would never happen. But here you are…and it’s very evident that something has changed. There’s a lack of passion, a lack of sex and intimacy, and worst of all, an emotional…

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Why an Emotionally Unavailable Man Keeps Coming Back

I’ve read a lot of articles in recent years highlighting the behaviors of narcissists and sociopaths in relationships. Most of them read the same: man romances girl, girl falls for him, man decides he doesn’t want the relationship after all, man hurts girl, girl gets over it, man comes back…and so on. Hopefully, at some…

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How To Keep Him Interested In You Forever

“I once had a thousand desires. But in my one desire to know you, all else melted away.” – Rumi Rita, a massage therapist from San Diego, was fresh from a breakup when she met Henry. Her ex walked out on her without warning after five whole years of being together. So, she was keen…

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