Your Score Is...

Low Pull Away

His Pull Away score is less than 19 on the quiz.

What Does This Mean?

You are a modern major general, always strategizing, and in this case, maybe anticipating an end game when there is no need for one. 

Maybe you’ve lived your entire life always planning one step ahead, or even anticipating the worst case scenario. If you’ve ever been in a dysfunctional relationship or watched your parents make these same mistakes, it’s easy to understand why.

But you have to look at the signs, and not let your imagination get carried away. True, it hurts to be rejected without warning, especially when it’s a man you trust. But you also have to give him the benefit of the doubt. Don’t assume the worst just because you notice something is going on. 

If you scored 19 points or less, then you know by now that his actions speak louder than these off-days. He confides in you about what’s bothering him. He is stressed because of circumstances but always reminds you that you are his future.

It might be in your nature to fear his independent streak, but try to remember that a man’s independence is oftentimes his most attractive feature. You liked him when you first met him, the way he was, and you trusted him enough to start a friendship. It’s time to keep trusting him. 

Little things matter, like the fact that he doesn’t harp on negative things. The fact that he wants to take his time in the relationship is poignant. He knows a good thing can’t be rushed. When he wants his independence, it’s not to meet other women or go on any juvenile adventures. He probably just has his own hobbies, his rituals, that help him to calm down and feel replenished. 

If he keeps busy and continues to be the smart and amazing guy he’s always been, then just remind yourself that he’s a great catch and you TRUST HIM because of those same qualities. Give yourself permission to be happy, rather than doubting what are good signs. 

When He Pulls Away, Do THIS

If you’re tired of men pulling away from you and you want to know how to make him want to come back and never leave again…

Here’s the secret…

In order for a man to come running back to you, he needs to feel two things…

The first one is REGRET for pulling away in the first place.

If you attack or punish him for pulling away, you’ll only make him want to pull away further.

Instead, you want him to feel like coming back to you is more pleasurable than being away.

The second thing you want him to feel is like HE MISSES YOU.

He can’t miss you if you smother him with calls and messages.

Apologizing, trying to see if he’s mad at you, seeing if he’s okay…

This only makes him feel like he needs more space.

There’s a 4 word text message that will make him feel both of these things when you send it to him.

If you’d like to hear what the text message is, click the link below right now to watch a video I put together about it…

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Talk soon,

Matthew Coast

P.S. If you want a relationship where a man loves you, sees you, and cherishes you, then you need to watch this video…

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