You are dating Lord Beau and you’re quickly learning that with “royals” it’s always his pleasure first, your needs second. Or third, or fourth. He takes advantage of you because he can. His family insists that he can and worst of all, you kinda’ let him do it.
If you scored 30+ points then you’ve noticed some very troubling signs lately, most of which seem to be indicating that he doesn’t seem all that interested in what you’re feeling. Oh, he may LISTEN to you. He may put in time that suggests he is “in” this relationship.
But it always seems that when you need him the most, he disappears. Or has other plans. He rarely talks about himself, he never really discusses love or how he feels about you.
He usually focuses on sex, funny stuff, whatever seems fun for the moment. Case in point, he will often cancel plans with you in order to do something else - something that seems more fun to him.
He takes you for granted, since he can count on sex, or your attention, or your doting over him. He never has to work for your attention. It’s free and given constantly. In fact, whenever someone else calls him or texts him, you are always on the losing end of the conversation.
He doesn’t want to think or talk about the future because he knows he can keep stringing you along with talk about the PRESENT. He knows that giving you the bare minimum will keep you satisfied.
He has no problem keeping other girlfriends (even if he claims he’s not sleeping with them) and other bro friends who he always goes to first - even before you.
Public displays of affection, particularly in front of family or friends is forbidden - that would mean acknowledging the reality of this relationship. And in his mind, it’s just a fling.
He may be pulling away because he probably never had the intention of commitment. He did know how to charm you and he was good at conversation.
But his actions were always LESS than his promises and his innuendos. Sure, he was a cool guy and a friend. But that’s not what you’re looking for. And it’s time to be honest with yourself and with him.