Author Archives: Matthew Coast

How to Create a Committed, Lasting Relationship

If you’re looking for a committed, lasting relationship, there are a few things you need to do… 1. Find and Meet a Quality Man Most people tend to want to skip this one. As much as you think that the completely broken and unavailable men you keep falling for would just be soooo great if…

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Why Do I Have to Change? Why Can’t Men Learn to Be Better Boyfriends? Why is it MY Responsibility?

A huge complaint/question I constantly get from women is… “Why do I have to change? Why can’t men be the ones who change?” That’s very good question. I can understand how frustrating it must be to think that you need to change yourself and men are just supposed to stay the same. Before I was…

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When Should You Let a Man Kiss You?

This seems to be a common concern for most women I talk to… “When should I let a man kiss me?” Here’s the short answer: Whenever he goes for the kiss. The response I get to this tends to be… “But I won’t kiss him if it’s too soon. I don’t kiss on the first…

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Should I Go Dutch and Split the Check? When Should a Man Pay for the Date?

This seems to be a general topic of confusion around daters far and wide… “Should I let a man pay for the date?” Here’s my short answer: It depends. Why? Because this topic isn’t completely black or white. Most women’s dating coaches who I know will insist that the man pays for the date, every…

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How Do I Get Him to Love Me? How Do I Make Him Commit? How Do I Get Him to…

Most questions that I get from our community start like this: “How do I get him to…” Or: “How do I make him…” Then just fill in the blank with something like… “Love me, call me, commit to me, be better to me, meet up with me, come back to me, ask me out, want…

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Do Strong, Successful Women Intimidate Men?

Another common complaint that I get from women is that they think they intimidate men. Could this be true? Do strong, successful women intimidate men? Does a man somehow feel threatened by a woman who has made her own place in this world? Well, maybe… Let’s look at something very important first… When I first…

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Are Men Liars and Cheaters?

The two most common frustrations I get from women are these: “Men are liars!” And… “Men are cheaters!” Sometimes, I get both… “Men are liars and cheaters!” Is this true? Wood is hard. Water is wet. Men are liars and cheaters? Well, maybe… But maybe not… When I was growing up, I decided that I…

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The Biggest Mistake Women Make that Stops Men from Pursuing Them

The Biggest Mistake Women Make that Stops Men from Pursuing Them

Have you ever felt like things were going great with a guy and then, all of a sudden, he stopped calling and pursuing you? Many times, when a woman falls in love with a man, she feels like she needs to show him that she’s interested, as much as possible, for the fear of losing him…

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What if he says he just wants to be casual but acts like he wants a relationship?

A question from someone in our community is… “I’m in a “friend with benefits” type of relationship with a guy… but he acts like he wants something more. How do I know what he wants?” This is a great question… Back in 2006, I was a men’s dating coach. I ran a forum that was…

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why men pull away

Why Men Pull Away and What Makes Them Fall in Love

If you are frustrated by a man who is ignoring your calls or is taking you for granted… If you’re sick of taking second place in your relationship and feeling underloved, even lonely… If you want him to cherish and adore you the way you deserve to be cherished and adored… Then you need to…

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