Capricorn is a complicated lover because of his tendency to be equanimous and carefree – a nicer word for what some people describe as cold-hearted! But that’s just the thing – Capricorn is not unfeeling, just sometimes uncommunicative. He’s only guilty of caring too much so he shields himself from others, especially when it comes to emotions.
Capricorn is not only distant expressively, but also when it comes to his way of seeing the world. Capricorn men can be cynical and somewhat detached from others. He’s not always sociable and is more goal-oriented in work and other personal projects.
But is dating Capricorn impossible? Of course not…if you want to fall in love with him, you just have to spend some time “peeling the layers” so to speak, of his protective walls. Once you find his heart, you will be delighted with just how funny, passionate and almost unrestrained he can be, when it comes to love and romance.
The main problem is, as you guessed it, this non-communicator sometimes makes romance difficult. What’s he thinking? Does he really like you? Does he secretly like you and is he holding back? Or is he just being nice when he gives you those compliments and pensive smiles?
Not to worry. Capricorn’s motivations are easy to read if you pay attention to what he’s saying and how he’s saying it. And yes, obviously, if you know how to build attraction in a man (rather than just flirting with him) you can captivate his mind as well as his heart. Don’t just work hard to make him like you…make him obsess over you!
How to Make a Capricorn Man Obsessed with You
Once you pique his curiosity and then follow through, you can turn Capricorn into your most loyal followers – and you’ll become the woman of his dreams. Here are six ways to get started.
1. For starters, don’t get freaked out by his poker face.
Capricorns are notoriously difficult to communicate with and NOT just because they’re quiet and reserved. In fact, Capricorn can be loud, rebellious and emotive in negative ways, if he feels threatened for any reason. This is why some label him as cruel or nonchalant.
Picture the bad boy biker and he’s rough on the edges but soft and caring underneath that brooding.
Understanding this is the first step – don’t react too negatively when he tries to chase you away or becomes defensively nonchalant about the relationship. He’s protecting himself – protecting his heart!
Knowing how Capricorn pushes you away is part of the strategy. Show him you’re strong and unphased by his defensive behavior. Give him his independence and don’t hold grudges. He will soon learn that you are trustworthy
2. Absence makes Capricorn’s heart grow fonder.
This doesn’t always work on men, but with Capricorn it works. He will be hot in the beginning then cool off. If this happens, don’t press harder. Don’t confront him or come at him too aggressively, looking for closure. Now is the time to hold back and let him miss you. Let him work out how he’s feeling and what conflicting emotions he has over you.
He already knows you’re available and rest assured, when he’s ready he will contact you again. But the less often you “check in” on him the better. He must realize that your time is valuable and that YOU are valuable. That’s why he’s going to miss you, remembering the connection you had, while also remembering that you are a high-value woman.
3. Be a good listener – be his BEST listener.
You might think Capricorn Guy is motivated by selfishness but that’s usually not the case. He’s simply testing you and seeing whether or not you can be trusted. This explains why some women run away and other push too hard. The answer is to actually exercise restraint. Be available, but be there for HIM when he needs someone to talk to. When he opens his heart to you (which is a huge investment he puts in the relationship), gently encourage him to keep talking. Ask him questions and draw him out in conversation.
You may not win him over the first couple of times you have a heart to heart, but over time he will learn that you are his BEST friend and that you consistently understand him in ways other women can’t.
4. Let him take the lead, especially when it comes to emotion.
Unlike shyer signs, Capricorn is not really motivated by avoidant behavior. Capricorn is not afraid of interacting with people – he’s just naturally defensive. This behavior sometimes brings out the worst in Capricorn’s date. She becomes emotional, needy and hysterical and that is NOT what the bad boy is looking for.
He is more attracted to women who are STRONG, confident and restrained when it comes to emotion. This adds to your mysterious persona. But more importantly, it shows that you’re mature, in control and not easily intimidated.
Capricorn wants to make the first move and guide the relationship at a pace he’s comfortable with. Even heavy flirting too soon in the relationship can be a turn off. Like I said, he is a natural leader when it comes to showing feelings at the proper time.
5. Remind him that he’s a special one-in-a-million man!
There’s nothing Capricorn loves more than your support – believing in him! Capricorn’s are very often career-motivated. He wants to feel special in life and the one he depends on the most is his woman, his lover, his “soul and his heart’s inspiration” to steal a song lyric. Not only does he want his ego stroke, but he also wants to think that he’s the ONLY MAN who deserves you, the only man who can make you happy and vice versa.
Support him in his mission, career and personal goals. Pay close attention to what he says and see if you pick up on any notes, as if he wants to talk about something. Ask him questions about what he does and why’s important. Lastly, ask him for advice, especially areas in which he has special expertise.
It’s true…Capricorn is a complicated man! But hey, like that other song goes, “No one understands him but his woman.” The good news is that once you do earn Capricorn’s full trust, and prove yourself trustworthy, he will be a strong provider, a loyal partner and a hard worker – fully devoted to making you feel like a queen.
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Hi. Am deafblind young woman. My zodiac are Rabbit (Chinese) and Aquarius (Western). Am attract and like an hearing CODA Capricorn Monkey man. He is 7 years older than I. Our connection, bond and attraction are very stronger than before. Hurt by him in past. He wants me back for friendship etc. for second chance. Am not certain sure if I want him back in my personal and private life or let him go for good.
Needs your helps for advice and consult. Thanks.
Question is – Can I trust an Capricorn Monkey man again? Can I able to give him another second chance for friendship, companionship, business relationship and intimate sexual relationship in separate times for second time for 2020? Thanks.
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I’m a Virgo in love with a capricorn man. When we are together he is ver loving and affection shows me he cares and has feelings for me at first we would message all the time now it feels like he does it out of obligation. He says he is more into another woman which he has not even met physically. We see each other once or twice a week and he tells me I am his forever and says things like let’s move in together and then after my response will say I’m just playing. He has said he wanted to have a baby with me then took it back. We still messaged daily and he tells me a lot about his life and even asked my advise on his gift for his mom on Mother’s Day. But he keeps saying we cannot be together cause he wants to try and be with this other woman. I’m very confused as he tells me all the time how much he cares about me and how perfect and wonderful I am. I would like to keep trying as I feel there is something there and he is pushing me away in fear. And advice?