How to Make a Leo Man Miss You

Leo is often described as the King of all the Zodiac signs, because of his strong personality, confident nature and of course, his desire to be the center of attention! No wonder Leos tend to be popular, having lots of friends, and occasionally rubs people the wrong way because of his tendency to be overconfident.

But think of it this way. If you want to get Leo’s attention, you have to earn it. Leo knows how popular he is and so only respects you and MISSES you, if you do something special to be remembered for. Leo is not easily guilted or manipulated. We can safely say he wants a strong partner, not a pushover, or someone who’s just going to agree with him all the time.

This however begs the question, if Leo only responds to “strong” behavior, how can you possibly make him miss you by being absent? Isn’t avoiding Leo the worst thing you can do, since he’s so impressed by obvious displays of romance?

Before you try to attract a Leo, and keep him missing you and thinking about you, let’s first consider the “Leo strategy”. You have to understand his character before you decide to communicate your affections for him. Here are five ways how to make “Leo the Lion” miss you that aren’t so obvious.

1. You always emit positive energy.

Just think for a moment about the competition. Other women want Leo and will also be trying to get his attention. However, negative attention is still attention – and they will try to court Leo by evoking his emotions at all cost. This is why you should focus on staying positive and emanating positive energy whenever you encounter him.

Whether he’s an ex or a crush, the idea is the same. He will grow attracted to you based on the strong positive energy you project. Positive energy comes from getting the things you want, finding what truly makes you happy and then connecting with other people. When you’re happy inside you don’t have to fake happiness or fake success.

That’s why, when you exude confidence and positivity around Leo, he notices. And he will immediately notice that you’re different from the others around him, even women he might be already by chasing.

One of the best ways to do this is to simply analyze your conversation, your flirting style and the conversations you have. Are they overly negative or critical of others? Are you manipulating him to feel something? Or is your energy more natural? You’re not trying to impress him, or prove anything. You simply enjoy his company. That brings us to the next point…

2. You want Leo to be Leo. You want him to “roar”, because that’s who Leo is.

If you’re looking for sneaky tactics on how to manipulate Leo – don’t bother! Leo is not the type to fall for that stuff. Not only that, but Leo instantly resents anyone who tries to manipulate him, tame him, or make him feel something that doesn’t come natural. You might even say you don’t “seduce” Leo – rather you become part of his life. You let him be as free as he wants to be. You make the choice to play with him and go along for the ride.

Whereas many women are threatened by Leo’s self-absorbed nature, you realize that it’s all part of the attraction – why you like him in the first place. You don’t want to hinder him or change him. While it’s true that most men resent controlling women, some can live with it…some will tolerate it. But Leo is definitely far on the scale of “Nope.”

3. Let him chase you a lot, but chase him a little.

Leo has lots of friends and he will lose interest in you quickly if your time spent together is negative or dare we say, more focused on you than him. Don’t get Leo wrong – he will take an interest in you. But as you talk about yourself, it’s important to let Leo also feel valued and appreciated for his special qualities.

Leo is impressed not only with superficial beauty and confidence, but also kindness, sincerity and being sensitive to his needs and wants. Leo is also moody, going hot and cold frequently (NOT because he’s playing with you but because that’s his nature), and so you need to temper your interest in him with patience to let him figure out what he wants.

Just remember this: most guys are overjoyed to meet a mysterious, sexy woman and will spend a lot of time charming you and chasing you. But much of the “loving Leo” strategy is to GIVE – to show him that you’re interested in meeting his true self. To be a little more interested in him than the average girl, since you realize he has that special charisma. You find him fascinating and you’re willing to move at his own pace.

4. Focus on building an emotional connection with him – that’s what he will miss the most.

For Leo, sex, flirting and friendship is easy. So if you really want him you must go the extra distance and create that emotional connection that he craves. He will not have that intense connection with just everyone he meets. Most women will like him for his charm, but they won’t completely understand him.

That’s where you come in. You become the attractive, confident friend who can get him to confide in you, who’s never offended or shocked by anything, and who can feel what Leo is feeling. Some of this is simply conversing and spending more time with Leo in general. But a lot of it is actually LEARNING Leo, and figuring out what really motivates him. How can you figure out these needs and be the most important person in his life, who knows all aspects about his life?

The more Leo realizes that you’re the perfect match for him, and yet sees you as an independent woman who’s a little too “out of his league”, that’s when he will miss you. That’s when he’ll realize it’s time for the lion to hunt you down!

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Matthew Coast

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