Every waking moment of your day is spent daydreaming of the moment you two will lock lips. I didn’t have to say a name, but his face popped into your head, didn’t it? And now, you are probably trying your very best to fight a smile.
I get it–when you meet that person, very little makes your heart flutter as much as the thought of kissing them does. And sure, your heart flutters from the lust and the excitement the thought brings, but it also flutters out of fear and anxiousness. What are the best ways to kiss a guy? How do you move your lips? Where do you put your hands?
Kissing is a natural thing, but when it comes to kissing the right person, everything can feel uncertain. Whether you want to know how to get a guy to want to kiss you or learn how to passionately kiss a guy for the first time, you are not alone.
That is what I am here for! Today, we’ll focus on a topic many women come to me for help with–how in the world do you show a guy that you want to kiss him?
Flirt With Him
You know the butterflies you get in your stomach whenever someone flirts with you? Well, it’s time to give that feeling to him. One of the most effective ways to let your man know you want to be kissed is to flirt with him. I am not saying throw flirty remarks and pick-up lines his way, although those can work.
The key here is subtlety. Make eye contact, smile at him, and banter playfully. By flirting, you are sending the message that you are interested in him, and sometimes that’s all a guy needs to know he has the green light to take things to the next level.
This goes hand-in-hand with flirting. I’m talking about the light brush against his arm, the gentle touch of your hand against his, lightly grabbing his shoulder mid-laugh, and sitting close enough to him that your knees touch.
Do you see what I’m getting at? Finding ways to engage physically builds tension between you and sends hints that you don’t mind being so close to him.
Keep your body language open. Now, what do I mean by this? It’s easiest to understand this by talking about the opposite–if someone kept their arms folded and their body partly turned away from you, chances are, you wouldn’t feel comfortable approaching them.
Let your body language communicate for you. Lean in, face him, keep your arms uncrossed, and tilt your head to the side when he talks. Show him that you are present and engaged with what he has to say. Shift your gaze to his lips every so often so he’ll get a subconscious hint as to what you’re thinking about!
A man will always be more attracted to a woman who is confident and unapologetically herself. Don’t try to change who you are to get him to kiss you or like you.
Remaining your genuine and authentic self will make the entire dating experience more fun, and besides, you want him to fall for you as you are–nothing less and nothing more.