Your ex looks so happy. He seems like he’s moving on. But every so often he does something that makes you wonder how he really feels about you. Is it possible he still feels something for you or is that part of his heart gone forever?
It’s ironic that so many people worry about getting their ex back, or losing their ex for good, when statistically speaking, the odds are actually in their favor. The odds might even be in your favor.
But let’s not entertain false hope. You want to know if there’s a serious chance that he still loves you, and wants to be with you, or if it’s too late. Let’s be realistic. What matters is the signs he’s giving you, some conscious, and perhaps some unconsciously, just whenever he sees you. Let’s consider 10 different signs that show his feelings.
1. They still find reasons to chat you up.
If your ex is constantly thinking up reasons why he needs to talk to you, or thoughts he wants to share with you, or basically any “excuse” just to talk to you, he’s obviously still in love with you. He might be in denial. Maybe he’s too proud to admit he made a mistake. But over time, he will swallow his pride and want you to come back. The question is, will you be ready to take him back? What will the new relationship be like?
2. He is not “over you” – he’s actually extremely hot and then cold.
Guys who are over an ex are usually not emotional. They might still think about some of the old memories. But men are emotional about the women they love. If he’s still thinking about you then he will be hot one minute and cold the next. Whether he’s doing this on purpose, or if he’s just going a little nuts trying to forget you, it doesn’t matter. This is his way of convincing himself that he’s over you…which he’s clearly not.
3. He frequently initiates contact when he’s drunk or very emotional.
Not only is he unable to control himself, but he also unable to talk to you like a normal human being. No wonder then, he has to get drunk to tell you his real feelings. Even if he’s not a drinker, you will find that he has to think up an excuse on why he’s acting weird and confessing to you all these things.
4. He always wants to talk about the past – and memories you had together.
For a man who’s over you, he sure likes to bring up the past quite a bit. Not just the bad stuff…in fact, he’s very nostalgic for the way things were. He brings up old memories, old conversations you had, and shares stuff on Facebook that involved your former life together. If your ex is doing this, he’s not just thinking about old memories…he misses the way you made him feel.
5. He isn’t always trying to make you jealous – he’s more interested in changing.
If he brags about dating someone else, that is kind of a sign of jealousy and might also be a sign that he still loves you. But a lot of guys go through that phase. It’s even more telling if he’s interested in talking to you about life changes he’s making. That’s the right kind of grabbing. He wants to show you that he’s serious about becoming a better person and a better match for you.
6. He’s not really interested in dating.
Whereas most guys go through a phase of dating other women (and still might have feelings for you just the sign) a sure sign that he’s madly in love with you is if he resists dating other women. He knows that he can’t recreate the feelings he had with you, so he doesn’t even try. He’s waiting for you. He might be waiting until you initiate contact. Or, he might be trying to rebuild and improve himself before he reaches out to you. Either way, a very good sign.
7. He still wants to be your hero.
If, after all that’s happened, he still goes out of his way to do something for you or help you, it’s very likely he has strong romantic feelings. Remember, a man usually only goes out of his way to please a woman if he wants to earn her affection.
Once that trust is gone, he goes back to default. He’s respectful, but is no longer fighting for you. If he still does you the biggest favor in the world, with no questions asked, part of his heart still belongs to you.
8. He still keeps tabs on you and talks to your family.
He doesn’t just say hello. He still treats your family as his family. Better yet, he still asks about you. He still wants to know what you’re doing, if you’re dating anyone, and if you’re happy (or maybe missing him?). If he still considers himself part of your life he makes every effort to stay associated with your family and friends.
9. His new dating patterns are…familiar.
Sometimes guys will date a woman who is exactly like their ex, and yeah, it’s pretty weird. It just goes to show that a lot of guys fool themselves into thinking, “there’s a lot more fish in the sea”, but doesn’t realize you are the only “catch” he’s made. Others won’t be the same. They won’t treat him well. They won’t do all the things he loves and misses. More importantly, they don’t KNOW him like you know him.
But if he’s going out into the dating world again, and taking “two steps back” by finding a woman who looks or acts like you, there’s a very good reason!
10. He says he misses you, loves you, or regrets his mistakes.
Well, that’s a given. If he actually works his way up to say he misses you or loves you – or even if he simply admits that he made a mistake, that’s a huge milestone in the post relationship stage. He wants you back…but maybe he’s not sure how to fix things.
That’s when it’s time to date all over again, this time hopefully setting ground rules that are more practical and favorable to you.
Remember, statistically about fifty percent of all couples do get back together at some point, even if they break up for a while. What determines if they do? Believe it or not, it’s actually the determination that YOU have, and he has, to try and make it work one more time.
Change is what starts the process of forgiveness and rebuilds trust. Rather than obsess over what has been lost, focus your full attention on self-improvement and becoming the person you want to be. That will be what brings back his attraction and his desire to win you back.
The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life
There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…
It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…
But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…
It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…
And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…
Have you figured out what it is yet?
Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…
And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…
Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…
Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…
A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…
And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…
Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…
If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…
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