Don’t you wish you were a mind reader and could know the secrets thoughts of men during lovemaking?
Well here’s a hint. In the words of Peter Griffin from Family Guy, “Oh yeah seeex!”
That’s pretty much it. You know, guys are usually excited to have sex. The very idea of sex makes a guy joyful and happy in all the right places. Sex at night can actually make a pretty crummy afternoon a “good day.” Sex in the morning is great and can make the rest of the day feel like a vacation. Sex is good, right?
But here’s the thing.
Once sex gets going and interaction begins, THAT’S usually when problems start. Miscommunications and even major misunderstandings can cause serious conflict. Even worse, they can cause hurt feelings and resentment in the relationship. That can destroy a couple’s sex life.
The best thing to do is, as a high-value and successful woman, is to “read a man’s mind” and become aware of what he thinks during sex. Sure, it’s all fun and games at first. But as it goes on, it’s important that you both keep a positive and sexy attitude. Let’s discuss some of the nuances and subtle things that men think during sex – and how to give him what he wants.
1. He wants you to want it!
The most important thing a man wants from you during sex is for YOU to enjoy it. Remember that a lot of a man’s ego is determined by how well he can please his partner. If you’re too nervous to actually enjoy the experience (because you’re worried about what he thinks) then neither of you will enjoy it. The most important thing is for you to share his desire, his horniness, his fantasies and own that moment!
2. He wants you to be uninhibited – loud and proud.
Along the same lines, the best thing you can be during sex is NOT a perfect lover or a porn fantasy…but rather, it’s being YOU! You, being as loud and uninhibited as you’d like to be. That’s what your guy wants.
That doesn’t mean faking it for his enjoyment. That just means you’re enjoying yourself and you’re not going to worry about being too loud or embarrassing yourself from wild lovemaking. You’re going to enjoy this moment with him and throw caution to the wind. I guarantee you, most men will love this. They want you to be louder, wilder, and even a little over the top, if that’s what you feel like doing. Have fun with it. He’ll worship you for it!
3. He wants it rough AND he wants it gentle.
There’s a misconception that men always want it rough and sexy, and not gentle and romantic. Completely untrue! Most men want both, just like women do. They want sexy and kinky. But there is also a time for emotional bonding. Gentle lovemaking. Emotional and even spiritual bonding. Don’t laugh at a guy for wanting these new experiences! He may surprise you one day by showing his emotional depth.
4. He wants you to “own” your own orgasm.
Let’s talk about orgasm. It’s relatively easy for a man to orgasm. It’s a more complex experience for a woman. That’s why most men are secretly hoping:
A. You know how to orgasm on your own.
B. You can show him what to do to bring your orgasm along.
C. You’re proactive about wanting to orgasm.
In other words, you’re not just doing this all for him. And you’re not just lying there, expecting him to do what he must. You’re in charge of your orgasm and nothing turns him on more than to see you getting yourself off with his help.
No wonder a lot of men like “experienced” women in bed. Because they always own their orgasm. They enjoy it, they show him what to do, they please themselves…and guys just happen to love that.
5. He wants you to communicate what you want from him.
Men are not very good mind readers, and even outside the bedroom you know that by now. During sex, a guy is even less of a mind reader! There’s no sense in being “romantic” and staying quiet, hoping a guy gets a hint, figures it out, or does the right thing.
That’s not just immature, it’s downright destructive to intimacy and trust. You must communicate during sex. Tell him what you want from him. Ask him if he likes something you’re doing. There should be nothing implied but a lot of direct communication, request, and consent
6. He wants experimentation, even if it’s over the top.
Most guys do want experimentation, but it’s usually far less crazy and risky than you’re thinking. Men enjoy being curious, being challenged, and having their fantasies explored. The question is, are you meeting him halfway? Are you indulging his fantasies and encouraging him to tell you his most taboo thoughts? This is how you keep things kinky. By honestly communicating and helping him to feel free to be passionate and wild and think out loud without judgment.
7. He wants you to think he’s sexy and tell him that.
It’s customary for men to focus on the beauty of a woman. But make no mistake about it: most guys are self-conscious. They want to be complimented, assured, and even “exploited” for their bodies. It makes a man feel good to be desired, not just for his personality and traits – but for his physical form!
8. He wants more!
This is the least surprising entry – he just wants more sex! No need to complicate matters. Most guys aren’t into weird orgy parties. They just want more sex – more sex with you, more talk, more action, and more, more, more! Always plan to have more sex and make sure you both enjoy it so that it stays fun and exciting for decades to come.
In conclusion, always remember that the best sex is communicative. It’s okay to be mysterious and erotic, at least in roleplaying. But when it comes to satisfying each other, assuming and guessing, don’t get you anywhere. It doesn’t get him anywhere. It just complicates what should be a fun, positive and enriching experience. When you don’t communicate you make mistakes, you get embarrassed, and you might even hurt each other physically or emotionally. Make it a point to communicate before sex, during sex, and after too.
You can still be sexy and cheeky while clearly communicating what you want in bed and how he can help take you there.
The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life
There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…
It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…
But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…
It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…
And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…
Have you figured out what it is yet?
Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…
And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…
Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…
Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…
A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…
And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…
Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…
If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…
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