Taurus is well known as the most “stubborn” astrological sign. In fact, his symbol is one of a bull. A bull is a strong, fierce and determined animal, the likes of which man can barely handle once it gets running.
You might wonder then, does that mean a Taurus man is a “bull” in the bedroom? Bull is actually modern lingo for a dominant lover, a man who knows what he wants and know what he wants you to do. Sexy, indeed!
But it’s important to remember that Taurus is a little more complicated than just raw aggression and sexual desire. Taurus is a lover and as you might have read before, he’s a stubborn lover, once he falls in love. He finds reasons to be loyal. And once you decide that you want him, that you want to commit to him (and you go the distance to be with him) he is a very faithful life time partner.
Who is Your Taurus Inside?
Mister Taurus is not just a loving “bull”, however. As a man, you will find him to be generally happy, loyal and emotionally stable in most aspects of his life. His practicality actually keeps him centered and successful in life, since he tends to think realistically about the future. While Taurus is comforted by stability and has a reputation for being a gentleman, he also has a seductive and romantic side to his personality.
The reverse side of Taurus’ bullish personality is that he can become resentful when you change the daily or weekly routine. Taurus is not only a practical thinker but a steady thinker. This is where he gets the reputation of being stubborn and wanting his way or the highway, so to speak.
In terms of romance and sex, well…a stubborn man is not always going to be the ideal lover. Let’s talk about what turns Taurus on and off.
The Taurus Lover
Taurus Men are passionate and this actually means more often than not, he gets horny and will let you know when the bull is ready to play. However, these episodes of high sexual desire come at predictable times. He is not the spontaneous lover that other astrological signs clearly are. He marches to his own tune and that tune is one of steady, planned evenings of fun.
He is also not the kinkster type, even though he puts on quite a show. Taurus men are typically straightforward about sex. They do the usual thing but they do it well. It’s all part of their steady routine and that CAN make for a very good sex life…
Unless of course, you want variety and don’t find routine sex appealing. Now you’re starting to sense the challenge of dating Taurus!
Will You Be Unsatisfied with Taurus?
The short answer is not necessarily. Taurus is NOT close-minded about sexual experimentation. He’s not rigid like Virgo or other signs. But he does need time to think things over and plan for more variety.
If you want to seduce him into doing something kinky, give thought to planning and to making him feel comfortable in the moment before surprising him. He’s a sensual lover so appealing to his five senses will be more effective than just seducing his mind with a kinky idea. He needs time to visualize new things and will take things slow, as he does with everything in his life.
Comfort means everything…making sure you’re feeling comfortable and making sure he’s comfortable in the routine.
How to Treat Taurus When You Want More Sex
If Taurus has slowed down lately, remember to approach him strategically. Don’t challenge the bull and don’t fight with a force that’s beyond reason. Allow Taurus his independence. But appeal to his emotions and senses.
When it’s time to poke him into taking action, you DO want to engage him emotionally. And yes, appealing to his jealousy will work. But remember to keep all associations POSITIVE. Stimulate his senses and evoke good emotions from him. Get his heart involved. When it comes to jealousy, don’t waste time flirting with other guys since Taurus is a very jealous lover. But high jealousy means he will appreciate you when you give him undivided attention and tell him that you want more of his attention.
The Taurus Taboo
What does a Taurus man crave? Lots of sex and lots of physical connection. Now he will get a little intense when it comes to controlling you in bed, but ideally, that’s a good thing. Encourage him to be dominant and enjoy his unique style.
Remember, however, he is an emotional lover and so it’s not just rough sex and distant goodbyes with him. He wants to have positive emotions before and after sex. So forget angry sex or mind games after sex. That’s not his desire at all.
Is it safe to assume Taurus always wants control? Believe it or not, Taurus is not opposed to the idea of you dominating him. But like all things, preparation is needed. He wants to prepare for the change mentally and create a comfortable atmosphere to enjoy the new idea.
Finally, always remember that Taurus is a “bull” when it comes to sexual stamina. Don’t think that just because he has control issues that he’s a “bore” in bed. Far from it! Taurus is very horny under the right circumstances and some Taurus men literally want to make love for hours on end.
Now don’t get scared at the idea of three-hour staying power! More like, Taurus is all about the romance, the foreplay, the sex, and then the afterglow. He wants all of his senses tickled and wants you to enjoy yourself too.
He is a willing and ready lover and one of the more dependable signs when it comes to libido. You just have to play by his rules and sort of “lead by the horn” when it comes to bedroom fantasies. When you do that, you’re going to find great fulfillment in your relationship.
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Understanding Your Taurus Man
A Taurus man is steady, sensual, and patient. Once you understand how he really thinks, building something real with him gets much easier. If you want to know what to say to make him want something serious with you, I put together a short video that walks you through it.
