Have you ever wondered about a friend, “Does he like me?” Or have you ever gotten vibes or stares from him that left you confused? You’re not alone!
Many of us can sense “something”, a feeling, a moment, etc., but are never quite sure if that’s attraction. Is it lust? Is it romance or serious interest?
Who knows? Unless someone tells you they’re attracted to you and says “Hey Let’s Go Out!”, you never really know. Right?
Wrong! There are signs of attraction everywhere. We all leave unconscious signals behind, whether we know it or not.
That’s why your friends sometimes catch on that you like somebody before you even know it (or admit it to yourself). Friends SEE these signals that we think slip under the radar.
What might help is to study some of the most obvious signals, gestures and other body language associated with attraction. When someone feels attraction, their whole body chemistry changes. They act differently. They don’t speak naturally. They seem to hit the “on” switch as if they’re entertaining the other person they like. Let’s consider some examples of mutual attraction between two people. Have you noticed any of these telling signs?
- They are completely focused on each other, oblivious to the rest of the room.
When two people like each other, they pay close attention to what the other is doing and saying. They notice new things (like new clothes or a haircut), they are very involved in the conversation, and giving lots of details, meaning the conversation seems to go on and on and on. So any instance in which two people are communicating intensely and seem to ignore other people in the room is a very good sign.
- They remember things about each other.
Most people really don’t remember small details about past conversations. But if one or both of them do remember and pick up on old conversations, or even better recall very obscure details about what the other person wore or conversations they had, that’s a big tell.
- They come much closer to each other and find reasons to touch each other.
Even if the couple-to-be doesn’t realize it, they do gravitate towards each other and eventually will surpass that “personal space.” This could mean sitting next to each other, standing very close to each other, or even walking close by a person. We can’t help it…we pursue what we like, even subconsciously.
Physical touch is also very telling. People who don’t like each other never touch. People who HIDE the fact that they like someone may also avoid touching that person. But when two people are very touchy-feely that either means they are already intimately involved together or that sex is very much on their mind.
Even someone allowing themselves to be touched is significant. We tense up when someone we don’t like tries to touch us. But if you let a person touch you, that says a lot about your level of attraction to them. If you touch them back, well then that’s some fireworks.
- There are longer periods of eye contact.
Eye contact with other people is, of course, a prerequisite to life. Actually, not looking someone in the eye could indicate problems with intimacy or anxiety. So eye contact on its own, not a huge deal.
But the real issue is how long does the eye contact go on? When you really like someone you can’t help but stare at them. It’s almost like an addiction. You want to take them in, analyze them, and observe them! You might watch that person when they’re not looking or stare at them for moments on end as they talk about something.
If someone likes you he will stare at you – sometimes just to see how you react to him, or sometimes he will quickly look away and then look back again. He will oftentimes check you out from behind, especially during moments when you’re not paying attention. How long someone stares after the initial eye contact makes all the difference.
- They know way too much about each other!
Now just because you know too much about another person doesn’t necessarily mean there’s a romance blossoming. I mean, you know a lot about your sister, your brother, your parents, your BFF…
But how much do you know about your “casual friends?”
The more you know, especially very personal stuff about their private life, the more likely there is an attraction there that goes beyond casual friendship. We don’t tend to talk about our personal lives with people we don’t know or don’t like. We remain silent, stoic, not interested in sharing. But if two people do share lots of personal stuff, that’s the sign of a strong attraction. Maybe nothing’s happening at the moment but someone (or both of them) does want something to happen! There’s a genuine sense of familiarity, bonding, maybe even eroticism, about getting to know someone intimately – even if it’s just an emotional affair for the time being.
- There is palpable sexual tension.
The air in the room changes when two people like each other. They seem nervous in each other’s presence. They might move in a jittery sort of way or seem very uncomfortable with casual conversation. They are thinking about each other and yet trying not to show it. Guess how that comes across?
Even the way they talk to each other is affected. Not necessarily a nervous or a breaking voice, but a very emotive and fast-paced way of talking. They are intentionally altering their voice because of sexual tension. Other people (like your friends) are especially attuned to picking up on this tension. So if there’s any doubt, ask someone else if they notice signs.
- They tease each other shamelessly!
Finally, let’s talk about teasing. This is very telling body language, especially if both partners do it back and forth to each other. When two people get along they tease each other constantly with jokes, inside jokes, little ribs, and other playful shenanigans. They don’t take offense to each other’s teasing because they like it.
In fact, if you DON’T notice any teasing then there’s a good chance the crush is only one-sided. One person is enthusiastic and playful and the other person is just…cold.
The next time a guy is in the room with you, or the next time you see your friends exhibiting the same behavior, ask yourself “Based on their body language, is there mutual attraction here?” Now you know the clues.
The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life
There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…
It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…
But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…
It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…
And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…
Have you figured out what it is yet?
Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…
And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…
Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…
Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…
A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…
And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…
Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…
If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…
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