Don’t work harder to keep your man happy in a long-distance relationship. Work smarter!
That’s what a lot of people don’t understand about long-distance dating. The more we worry, feel jealous, or allow ourselves to become insecure, the more we’re actually sabotaging our own happiness.
Are you in a long distance relationship right now and trying to figure out ways to keep him interested? Maybe you feel jealous or paranoid about what he’s doing and not telling you. Or you may be afraid of him getting bored or at least feeling impatient.
For some people, physical intimacy is very important. They can’t have a relationship without physical intimacy.
But if you and your boyfriend have been doing very well so far and you’re both still committed to waiting until you can be together at a more convenient time, then have confidence! You can make it to the very end. You’re not going to get bored of each other, or be tempted by anyone else. You’re going to keep the love and attraction between you alive.
How? By working smarter! Don’t try clinging to him. Try attracting him to you, because you know that works. Here are 9 examples of teasing behavior that will make him crave you, even from a long distance – and yes, even more than other women.
1. Send photos…but send bits and pieces of your life too.
Every guy loves a photo now and then. But if you really want to keep him interested, share bits and pieces of your life. Send him photos from work, or hobbies, or other things he might see if he were living with you right now. This is a new form of intimacy he will love.
2. Send him a practical or creative gift.
Guys love gifts! But don’t send him anything too cutesy. Instead, appeal to his creative side or his practical side. This gift is your way of saying, “I know you and I love you.” It doesn’t have to be expensive, just a way to show you’re thinking about him – and actually putting thought into your gift.
3. Plan for activities you can do together online.
It is a little boring if you get together weekly and just sort of chat, like it’s just any old Tuesday afternoon. Why not surprise him by having an activity planned? Doing something fun, like a game, or an interesting conversation, or some other couple’s activity, is a great way to make a memorable night. He will begin to look forward to these dates as something more than just chatting. He may even start coming up with his own ideas.
4. Don’t just text – write letters (or emails).
While short text messages are crucial, do try to reward him with a full letter or email at some point, whenever you can afford the time. If a man wants to bond with you, he needs more than just texts. A long phone call works very well. But men are also partial to letters! We really feel the writing, when we get a personalized love letter, don’t we? Don’t think that your letters will be ignored or shoved aside. A man in love with you will cherish the message and feel loved that you took the time to write it.
5. Get a makeover and send him lots of photos.
If you really want to make him mad with passion, don’t just send the same old sexy selfies. Get a makeover and a haircut and then send him pictures of your new look! Now he wants you twice as hard – first because he loves you. Double, because you’ve shown him a brand new look and are presenting yourself in a different light. Rest assured, he will move up his next visit as he will be very eager to see your new look in person.
6. Be interested in his life and listen closely.
It’s true – men are still gaga about women that take an interest in their lives. Just remember that men are dying to confide, to talk, and to share their wisdom about the world. A woman who knows how to draw a man out, and get him talking from the heart, will always be an enchanter! That fawning attention is what caresses a man’s ego!
7. Give him specific compliments and visuals.
Another great way to tease a guy and keep him interested is to give him compliments. Compliments should always be specific. Talk about his body, or his resonating mind, or his talent. Talk about a quality of his and then be specific about how it affects you. The physical and sensual response that it causes in you, and to other women. In fact, one great way to keep teasing him is to drop the pretense of a compliment and just start sending him great visual texts. For example, talk about how his dimply smile is distracting you from work, or how he’s working out so hard he’s off to join the UFC. You can tease him with visual texts that remind him, not only that he’s attractive, but that you’re thinking about him throughout the day.
8. Let him know how much you miss him.
You can afford to be sentimental, at least a few times here and there. You don’t want to be overly sentimental to the point where you’re doing most of the talking. That’s why it’s a good idea to let him know you miss him in a variety of ways. Not just in emotional reassurances, but with visuals like pictures, audio, like phone calls, and even tickling him with other senses like taste – like buying him cologne or a batch of cookies.
If you’ve already been physically intimate before, then try to meet his needs – even if you’re separated by a long distance. Try to customize the cyber experience to what he likes, what he wants from you. Fulfill his fantasies and then let him do the same.
Most importantly, don’t forget the foreplay. You can send him hot texts in preparation of your cyber lovemaking later on. Feed him sexy visuals or statements, making him anticipate how hot it will be, the next time you meet in person. Addict him to your sensual side. Play with his desire for you in the most ways.
Being sexy and enjoying physical intimacy in a long-distance relationship is definitely one way to say that you miss each other.
9. Learn to walk the line between available and busy.
Finally, learn careful balance between giving him everything he wants (including all of your time) and playing too hard to get. Guys don’t want either extreme. They don’t want you to drop your entire life just to take care of him. But at the same time, ignoring his texts or dismissing the importance of his call is also a bad idea.
You have to “learn” each other and figure out a way to make your schedules sync-up in a way that’s practical for the both of you, and that lets you live your independent lives.
Someday, you will be together and it’s going to feel be great when you finally ride off into the sunset. But you won’t get together because (A) you ignore him all the time, or (B) you worship him 24-7.
No, you’ll end up together because your love for each other was consistent and from the heart! Be patient and learn each other’s routines. You’ll get there and you’ll be glad you waited for true love.
The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life
There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…
It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…
But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…
It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…
And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…
Have you figured out what it is yet?
Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…
And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…
Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…
Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…
A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…
And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…
Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…
If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…
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