Just because he wants to sleep with you doesn’t mean he’s a one-night stand guy. It’s up to you to resist sex with him and get him to open up about what he really wants.
Can you really tell if a man wants to sleep with you by looking into his eyes? Some people say it’s true…that a woman can always sense a man’s romantic interest or feel his “vibes.” Is this true?
Well anecdotally speaking, I met quite a few women who told me that they NEVER knew when a guy liked them even if he was sending subtle hints. Maybe that was the problem…the signs were way too subtle.
See, I think there’s a misunderstanding when it comes to men and sex. I do think most women are AWARE that men have dirty minds, that’s not a big shock. So yes, maybe the average man will look down someone’s cleavage, or fantasize about some person he knows, or generally say to a friend, “Hey you’re looking hot tonight!”
No big deal, right?
But that general awareness of sexuality does NOT necessarily mean that the guy wants to have a sexual relationship with every woman he meets. Certainly not ALL of his friends and acquaintances! Don’t men have some standards?
Of course they do! Even everyone’s favorite perv Glenn Quagmire from Family Guy has SOME standards…well maybe that’s pushing it. Let’s say, Glenn has what you might call some turn-offs. Every guy has turn-offs, every guy has deal breakers for dating relationships.
It may take a while to find those limits, but at some point every man does has the ability to say, “This isn’t worth it…” and they’ll walk away from sex.
Now, we wouldn’t be entirely truthful if we said that most men are looking to fall in love, have sex with their true love, and rush off to the chapel for a romantic getaway. Of course not, men want sexual experience. They want sexual flings, even with women they don’t love, because sex is fun and it boosts their ego.
What Are Signs That a Guy Wants to Sleep With You
Now the question is, how can you tell if your “good friend” is JUST a guy (and occasionally has sexual thoughts about you) or is a guy who actually wants to have sex with you…but doesn’t know how to tell you?
It’s actually not that hard to tell the difference between friends and suitors and you don’t even need to have a booty call radar! All you need to do is consider these five signs. These signs are clear indicators that a guy likes you and wants a night of making love.
1. He’s too eager to please you in other ways.
Since his ultimate goal is to make love with you, he wants to please you in every other way that doesn’t involve sex. That means he puts in way too much effort to help you out. He laughs at all your jokes. He invests money in you. He texts you randomly. He looks forward to long conversations with you and asks about your feelings.
You can always tell the difference between a BFF guy, a surrogate big brother, a gay friend, or a guy that’s not attracted to you, but is still there for you…
Because for them, the friendly interaction is what’s enjoyable. For the thirsty guy, it’s all about waiting for the sex.
2. The guy doesn’t talk about other women.
The last thing he wants to do is indicate interest in someone else because that’s a signal that you should friend-zone him immediately. To a man who’s not that into you physically, but still likes you as a friend, the opposite is true. He can’t wait to tell you all about his dates, his crushes and his fantasies involving other women. Since he doesn’t really want you, he doesn’t care about shooting down any vibes and tells you about other women. But a man who wants sex is only thinking of you.
3. Out of nowhere he mentions how good looking you are or makes another inappropriate comment.
This is peculiar behavior but it happens all the time with shy guys or with guys who are scared to just come out and say what they feel. Why do they spend the whole time avoiding sexual tension only to say something weirdly sexual, thereby creating awkward energy in the relationship?
Probably because shy guys know they are coming across as sexually ambiguous and
want to make a last minute effort to show you how they feel. Instead of a kiss or an honest statement…they just say something charming. You know, something about how hot you are, how good you’d look in lingerie, or how if you want to ever make out, he’ll be there for you.
Simply put, guys who seem cool and then suddenly act really weird are definitely crushing on you. While it may feel awkward, it’s a good sign that the guy wants you.
4. Dude is checking you out!
Men who sexualize you can’t help but stare in just the ways that you’d think a horny guy would. While sometimes they stare at your face, or gaze into your eyes, he will just as often glance at your boobs or your butt. And not just once by accident, but frequently. As much as he tries to keep his lust inside, he can’t help but let the demon out! The thought of sleeping with you turns him on. He wants you and every moment that he sneaks a peak of your assets, he dies a little inside.
5. He brags a little bit whenever he talks to you.
Lastly, beware of a man who “chases you”, even if it’s just in conversation. A man who wants to bed you will not simply remain idle. He will “woo you” even in subtle ways. Is he bragging about his career, hobby or other aspects of his life?
Men with a strictly platonic interest have no reason to “strut” like this. But a man who wants to bed you will want to tempt you with something. Deep down they know company is not enough. He thinks he has to be “special” to win a night with you and so he’s doing a little dance in hopes of turning you on.
Keep in mind, just because a man wants sex with you doesn’t necessarily mean he just wants you for a one night stand. True, men are easily tempted by sex. But their desire for you COULD be the start of a beautiful relationship. It just depends on how compatible you are and how hard they’re willing to chase you.
Sex appeal is how you get his attention. But if you’re thinking smart and strategizing, you can open his mind and his heart and eventually find your true love! If you are interested in dating and want a long-term relationship, you can encourage him to chase you.
Body Language Signs He Wants to Sleep With You
In addition to the verbal and behavioral cues mentioned above, a man’s body language can also provide valuable insights into his desires and intentions. There are some physical signs he wants to have sex with you. Paying attention to the following body language signs can help you determine if he wants to sleep with you:
1. Leaning in and maintaining proximity.
When a man is physically attracted to someone, he often subconsciously leans in closer and maintains close proximity to them. If you notice that he consistently positions himself closer to you than necessary or leans in when engaged in conversation, it may indicate that he desires physical closeness. This is a clear sign that he wants to create a more intimate connection with you and wants sex.
2. Eye contact and dilated pupils.
Eye contact can be a powerful indicator of attraction and desire for you. If he maintains strong eye contact and his pupils dilate when looking at you, it suggests heightened interest and arousal. Dilated pupils are a physiological response to stimulation, including sexual attraction. Pay attention to how he gazes at you, as prolonged and intense eye contact can be a strong indication of his desire to sleep with you.
3. Touching and physical contact.
Physical touch is a strong indicator of sexual interest. If he finds excuses to touch you lightly or initiates casual physical contact, such as brushing your arm or touching your back, it may indicate his desire to bridge the physical gap between you. He will break the touch barrier to indicate how much he wants you. Pay attention to the frequency and duration of these touches, as well as his reaction when you reciprocate or initiate physical contact yourself.
4. Open and expansive body language.
When a man is attracted to someone, he tends to adopt open and expansive body language to appear more approachable and confident. He may stand or sit with his chest out, shoulders back, and arms uncrossed to show he is interested. This posture signifies his openness and readiness to engage in a more intimate manner. On the other hand, closed-off or defensive body language, such as crossed arms or crossed legs, suggests a lack of interest or discomfort.
5. Subtle mirroring of your body language.
People often subconsciously mirror the body language of those they are attracted to or interested in. If you notice that he subtly mirrors your gestures, postures, or facial expressions, it indicates a desire for emotional and physical connection. This mirroring behavior demonstrates a subconscious attempt to establish rapport and closeness with you. Pay attention to these subtle synchronizations, as they can reveal his underlying desire for sex.
It’s important to remember that body language signs should be interpreted in conjunction with verbal and behavioral cues. While body language can provide valuable insights, it’s essential to consider the overall context of the interaction and the individual’s personality and communication style.
Final Thoughts on Signs a Guy Wants to Sleep With You and Have Sex
Understanding the various signs, both verbal and non-verbal, that a man wants to sleep with you can help you navigate your relationships and make informed decisions about your own desires and boundaries. Prioritize your own wants. Keep in mind that communication and consent are key when it comes to engaging in any sexual activity. Trust your instincts and prioritize your own comfort and well-being in any romantic or sexual situation.
The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life
There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…
It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…
But this only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…
It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…
And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…
Have you figured out what it is yet?
Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…
And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…
Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…
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If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…
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