21 Questions to Ask a Guy That Make Him Fall In Love

By now, you may have engaged in flirty conversation with your guy crush, as well as a few deep conversations about life.

Great…the only problem is that he doesn’t seem to be falling in love with you yet. He may want to escalate the relationship to the bedroom, but what about emotional connection? Has he bonded with you and shared something about himself?

If the answer is no, then maybe the problem is you haven’t challenged him in the RIGHT WAY, that is, in a way that makes him feel good about himself AND that associates you with his good moods. Let’s consider 21 questions that will make your guy crush fall head over heels in love!

1. What was the happiest time in your entire life?

This question forces him to recall a time in their past life when he had something special—something he misses now. But what you are actually doing is helping him discover a forgotten need.

2. What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever done? OR What’s the weirdest thing you believe?

By default, we tend to agree with the majority and have a normal façade that we use to interact with those around us. However, it’s very possible your guy crush is hiding something “weird” about his life perspective or past. In another words, men are just dying to confess their “weird thing” because it frees them from the shackles of society. Some also believe that unique qualities or thinking patterns may even be closely connected to how he feels about love. This is why it’s good to pique his brain and find what is truly out of the ordinary about him. It is his unique contribution to the world, his survival instincts that help him prosper. Learn to appreciate this and find the combination to his heart.

3. What is your favorite childhood memory?

This is an easy way to get a tight-lipped guy to open up, even if he’s reluctant to talk about everything else. Something about the past, especially early childhood, really puts a man at ease.

4. What do you like about your job? What process do you like most about your hobby?

If you really want to analyze what’s on your crush’s mind, then ask him about their passion in life. Whether it’s a job, a volunteer assignment, or a hobby, something about this activity stimulates their need to contribute to society—to create and do!

5. What personality, in history or today, would you like to have as a dinner guest?

Who does this guy look up to as a heroic figure?

6. When did you last sing to yourself or someone you know?

A wonderfully intimate and yet light-humored question! It takes a certain level of vulnerability for a man to sing.

7. What are you most grateful for?

Focus on the positive rather than the negative. Reminding him to be grateful is a sentiment he would respect—especially since his parents probably told him the same thing.

8. If you could learn one specific answer about the future, what would you want to know?

Get him thinking existentially but focus on the future instead of regrets of the past. You can also get a glimpse into his worries about growing older, with this question.

9. What is your dream? Something you always wanted to do.

Every guy has a dream, even if it’s simple, or even if it lies latent a few years. Getting your crush to think about it will reinvigorate his ambition

10. What are your greatest life accomplishments so far?

Let him think back to the past with a good feeling, recalling his favorite memories. Associate yourself with this nostalgia.

11. What is friendship? OR Who is your best friend and why?

Make him think about someone he loves and learn what qualities he treasures most in a friend. This also shows you what personal characteristics he values in others.

12. If you were to leave earth and never got the chance to say your final says, who would you most regret not telling? What would you say?

Great line. A little darker than usual, but you can always make it fun by avoiding the topic of death. This gives insight into his heart and the way he feels about people close to him. It also reminds him that you want to help him reach all of his goals.

13. In the event of a house fire, after saving your family, friends and pets, what one item do you go for and why?

Learning the story behind a cherished item is always fascinating. Objects are more about feelings and memories than anything else.

14. Ask for his advice on a problem.

Share a personal problem and ask him for advice—as in how he would handle it. This shows you value his expert opinion, a sign of respect!

15. What’s the nicest compliment you’ve ever received? OR What compliment would you like to receive the most?

Find out his vanities and insecurities with this pair of seemingly innocent questions.

16. What is your favorite type of food?

Great way of getting a peek at his day to day boyfriend personality.

17. Who was your first kiss? Explain!

Guys love kissing and telling…let them relive their innocence with you. Now he associates you with freedom and unfiltered dialog.

18. How do you deal with people that rub you the wrong way?

While this is a negative question, because he “solves” the problem he actually enjoys answering it.

19. What would your superpower be?

Find out a metaphor for how he sees himself and his ability to contribute good deeds towards other people in a world of supervillains.

20. Tell me about your parents.

Most women just don’t care about the personal stuff which is exactly why you should start this dialog. You don’t just like him—you admire where he comes from and what stories his parents have to tell.

21. How would you describe me to your friends?

Great line since it not only reveals his true opinion of you, but also puts the idea into his head that you will soon meet his friends. You’re serious dating material!

These questions will not only intrigue him…they may even help him fall in love!

The Secret Words That Make His Heart Yours

Today I want to give you some words that you can tell your man that will make him want to give you the relationship you’ve always dreamed he’d have with you…

These words form something I call a “Love Frame” that make a man feel like it’s his mission in life to treat you like a queen.

If you’re struggling to get your man to “step up” and give you the romance you’ve always wanted, you need to watch this video right now…

Click here to watch the video <<

These words will work on him even if…

…your man is pulling away from you or ignoring you completely…

…you think you got intimate with him too soon…

…or you feel like your situation is hopeless…

Because once you understand it…

You’ll be able to trigger a flood of emotion throughout his body that melts away all resistance…

Making him see you as the perfect woman for him…

A woman that he wants to pursue, fight for, and be with from now until the end of time…

Click here to learn the words that make him yours <<

Talk soon,

Matthew Coast

P.S. Try out these seemingly innocent yet strangely powerful words on the man in your life and seem how quickly things change with him…

Making him feel more love for you, more of a connection to you, and more of a desire to please you than he’s ever felt for anyone before in his life.

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