Over the last 12 years, I’ve researched just about everything you can think of when it comes to love, attraction and sex.
No too long ago, I had a very interesting idea…
I took my research to a whole new level by interviewing some prostitutes about their experiences with men… and what I discovered is shocking.
If most women hear of their own (or even someone else’s) husband, boyfriend or lover being caught going to a brothel, they’d be devastated.
They’d jump to the conclusion that all he cares about is sex or the reason he ‘strayed’ was because he was no longer physically attracted to his partner.
The thing is, most men who visit prostitutes are not solely there to have a sexual experience…
You’d be surprised by how many men want to talk and build some sort of connection with the woman first. You’d also be very surprised as to what the men share about themselves, their life and their relationships.
In my research, I even met men who were dating or ended up in relationships with these women… sometimes leaving the “normal” woman that they were seeing before meeting the prostitute!
Sure, of course there are guys that are there to purely “get off” with no chatting necessary.
Some have strange and kinky requirements. But the majority of the men who visit sex workers are actually seeking some level of intimacy beyond the physical – they’re seeking an emotional connection.
They’re longing to share their concerns and fears. They want to get their worries off of their chest.
Most men bottle so much up inside that they tend to use this sexual platform as a way to express themselves, both emotionally and physically in a way they feel they can’t with their partner.
Here’s the important point…
The reason they do this is that prostitutes don’t judge a man or use what he says against him to hurt or control him.
So, what does this mean?
You might not know this but men are dying for a safe place to bare their soul and openly share what’s going on in their lives. Most of all they want to feel loved, cherished and valued by a woman… for who they are without being judged, shamed, or looked down upon.
Obviously, I’m not saying that it’s okay for a man to get a sex worker when he’s in a committed relationship.
What I am saying is that most men seek a much deeper level of emotional and sexual intimacy, they want to feel as though they’re winning with you and that they’re your hero.
And if he doesn’t find it with you, he’s likely to look elsewhere.
Fortunately, even if you have deep emotions standing in your way of creating this deep level of intimacy with a man… or even if you simple don’t know how to relate to men in a way that makes them feel safe around you, there is something you can do about it…
The key is to learn how to communicate and respond to your man in a way that makes him want to share himself with you and feel like you’re exactly the type of woman he’s been looking for his entire life.
Most of us aren’t taught skills that keep attraction and passion alive in a relationship.
If you want him to take notice of you, open up to you, desire you and make love to you in all the right ways then check out this video:
P.S. – The video also explains the one big thing that makes you irresistible to men. Once you really “get”this, it’s going to improve your love life in ways you never could have predicted.
Trust me on this…check this out right away: