How To Look More Attractive

There are probably hundreds of magazines out there devoted to teaching women how to appear more attractive. Cosmetics is a billion dollar industry. And to some men, “beauty” does seem like a genuinely confusing subject…especially since many men actually think their partner looks “beautiful and perfect just the way she looks every morning!”

And while that’s a sweet thing to say, the truth is of course, a woman doesn’t JUST dress up for a man. She also dresses up for other women, for other men, and for the rest of the world. Looking good and projecting success, confidence and high-esteem is part of her motivation, part of her way of dealing with other people. When you look good, people respect you. They smile more. They react well socially. They want you involved in their lives.

And of course the opposite is true too. When you dress down, or look like you don’t care, people respond with lackluster energy. Men may take you for granted, or may resist commitment. The whole world just tolerates you, rather than giving you all sorts of positive and bubbly energy. And really, it has little to do with the “looks” you were naturally born with.

It’s not even about cosmetics per se, or the latest and name-brand fashion. All that stuff is tentative, constantly changing with the culture. (Yeah I hear astronaut glasses are in now thanks to Lady Gaga) What’s really important is that you’re taking care of yourself. You’re making an effort to please others. But most of all, you FEEL GOOD YOURSELF. Because your self-perception is the only thing holding you back. And your own feelings, and your self-love and acceptance, is what determines your own level of happiness.

By all means, make an effort to look more attractive—because it WILL change your life and give you a boost of positive momentum. Here are six tips on natural beauty and attraction that are more important than reading about fads and fashion faux. These are about looking your soulful best to increase attraction wherever you go and whomever you interact with.

1. Work out on a regular basis – at least three times per week, or more, and for a daily duration of at least 20 minutes.

This means bouts of intensive exercise that will get your heart pumping and body sweating, in addition to warm up and warn down exercise that is easier on the body. Walking, jogging, and various indoor aerobic exercises are best because this helps you shed excess pounds, rejuvenate your skin, boost your endorphins, and naturally fight depression. You also reduce the risk of heart disease, sleep better, feel more energetic, sharpen your memory, and improve self-confidence.

2. Improve your posture.

Good posture is essential to self-esteem and projecting confidence when you speak to others. Stand up straight, feel taller, and hold yourself with grace. You may feel silly doing it if it’s a new feeling, but you will notice a change the more you do it. You are showing the world that you are not threatened, not self-conscious, and not “unworthy” of love. Yoga exercises actually devote a great deal of time to strengthening posture and balance.

Always walk and stand with pride—don’t reveal yourself to be weak, doubtful or shy, even if that is your natural inclination. The better you keep your chin high and chest out, the less insecurity you project. It’s doubly important to maintain your confidence around people who are attractive, or who you’re threatened by, or even the ones you don’t like. The very second you decide to be intimidated by someone and let go of that self confidence, that’s when you lose your elegant posture and start to slump.

3. Practice good grooming and follow basic fashion trends so you can “standout” while still fitting in.

Good grooming, of course, involves taking PRIDE in who you are. Showering regularly, grooming yourself and following basic fashion trends that are in for this decade and this moment in the cultural zeitgeist. Hey, maybe in the 1980s I would have given you different fashion advice. But the point in, you always dress a little conservatively so you can leave more to the imagination. At the same time, you do want to dress in clothing that makes you look amazing…clothes that accentuate your assets and turn heads from men everywhere you walk. When you’re attractive to others, including other men, the more your main man will desire you with a healthy sense of jealousy that keeps him vying for your attention.

4. Wear a fragrance that you personally like.

The interesting thing is that fragrances never really smell exactly the same to everybody—especially since fragrances combine with your body chemistry to give it a unique sense. This is why, on one hand you want to choose a fragrance known for its sweet smells and complementary scent; but on the other hand, you also want a scent that you have personally smelled and approved of, after the fragrance and body chemistry coalesce. Fresh breath is also important for feeling attractive and giving a pleasant whiff to everyone you meet.

5. Diet reasonably well—eat more vegetables, fruits and nuts. They do wonders for your body, as well as your lifespan.

Eating healthy is not just a fitness fad—it improves skin quality, hair quality, brain function, resists disease and even gives you a natural “sex booster”. Practically everyone who starts dieting and keeps a “non-gimmicky” diet reports that they feel more energized, happier and more full of life when they eat better and follow through with their lifestyle changes.

6. Have strong eye contact…but always with the air of mystery and friendliness.

Eye contact is one of the best aphrodisiacs known to man and the only sure way to communicate a message to any other mammal. You want to be friendly, and smile, to avoid creeping people out. However, you temper that smile and enthusiasm with a sexy detachment. You don’t NEED men to like you. You simply respond to the attention they give you. You don’t feel the need to reveal everything about yourself the moment a man asks a question. He has to earn your whole story. He has to earn your undivided attention. You love to keep people guessing because this is what evokes the biggest response from them.

This attitude projects the air of mystery and guys find it irresistible! Ever heard that expression “Like attracts like?” It’s true, at least in this context. When you dress nicely, live healthy and put on a positive frame of mind you appear very attractive to others. You exude self-confidence and remind the world that you’re special…successful. Determined to find only the highest standards, which you deserve. Indeed, a beautiful woman!

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