Have you ever been in one of those awkward phases in a friendship when you kind of like each other, but don’t want to admit there’s a strong sexual attraction?  He’s stuck just being your friend…and you don’t want to be the first one to come out and say what you’re both thinking.  (Some men are intimidated by women who speak their minds, go figure?)

Here’s an idea.  Rather than pressuring him to say it, and rather than risking embarrassment, why not play a game?  A flirty game, a game that lets you ask questions or create scenarios that challenge his mind.  At the same time, the game also allows you both to get comfortable with the idea of dating and attraction.

Games happen to be great icebreakers.  They “force” you to say what you’re shy to admit in regular conversation.  You can also play games via email, over the phone or through a texting app like Messenger, WhatsApp or your own phone.

You can always use the excuse that you’re bored or have been wanting to play a new game and it usually works.  People enjoy distractions and games are a pleasant distraction.  You get to talk about yourself and share your sense of humor, no pressure, just fun.  Who wouldn’t enjoy that?

So let’s list some of the best flirty games.  Try one at a time or try them one after the other.

  1. 20 Questions

This game lets you choose a character or a well-known person and then have the other player try to guess who or what you are by asking 20 yes or no questions.  This is a fun game to play if you want to take flirting slow and just enjoy each other’s company.  Remember you can make it very challenging and choose a thing, animal or a place.

  1. Truth or Dare

Truth or Dare is a great game specifically for flirting.  You can ask for an uncomfortable truth, something the other person doesn’t want to admit, and then offer the option of doing a ridiculous dare that’s even more embarrassing.  Great way to secretly blush and confess some scandalous secrets.

  1. Never Have I Ever

Another truth-based game, this time one involves saying things you’ve supposedly “never done before.”  But every time you or the other player has actually done the deed in question, then a point is deducted.  Sometimes this can be played among more than one player or as a drinking game – one shot for every point you lose.

  1. Would You Rather

This is a great game and actually a pretty good personality test that reveals your crush’s character.  Invent hypothetical scenarios, as outrageous as you want to see how your crush rationalizes moral choices.  Questions are supposed to be uncomfortable but creative.  It might cause a debate or two…but that’s part of the fun.  Just be sure to make sure both options are difficult and require lots of thinking.

  1. Two Truths and a Lie

This game works for someone you just met, since you’re still learning each other.  Invent one lie and then say it like you believe it.  Then add two more truths.  Based on what the other person knows about you, as well as studying your words and timing, they can try to guess which of your statements was false.

  1. Kiss, Marry, Kill

If you’re too shy to discuss kissing or marrying each other, then talk about in general terms with this game.  You simply choose three options (three people, three guys, or girls) and then tell your friend to choose one to kiss (or have sex with), one to marry (meaning the best long-term relationship), and one to kill (meaning you can’t deal with them at all).  The answers might surprise you!

  1. Guess the Lyrics

This is a game to play if you and your crush are very much into music.  Think of romance or sexual songs and type a few lyrics.  See if your partner guesses the song.  (And of course, all the romantic imagery only helps increase attraction)

  1. I Spy

If you’re too bored or tired to come up with creative questions for 20 questions, simply identify an object or person in your room.  The other person has to guess what you’re currently looking at, based on your clues and on yes or no questions, if needed.  For an extra flirty feel, choose something sexy or deeply personal – something that involves telling a story from your past.

  1. Abbreviations

This game has a lot of potential to be naughty but fun.  Think of funny or shocking sentences to say and then abbreviate them one letter for each word.  Have your friend guess what they are.  Of course the challenge is to choose statements that can’t be easily figured out.  So make it challenging and enjoy some laughs as he tries to guess bizarre phrases.

  1. Fill in the Blanks

After you’ve known each other a while have some fun with suggestive phrases.  Start by asking a question about yourself or your friend and then leave one word or phrase out.  The guy fills in the blank and can go with sexy or funny.

  1. The Newly Wed Game

Here’s a fun one.  If you’re already dating, or thinking of dating, steal some classic questions from the Newly Wed Game and try to guess what your friend is going to say about you.  The fun comes from trying to figure your crush out without offending him.  This has the potential to be a lot of fun, especially since it’s not a big deal if he doesn’t know your birthday!  (Unlike the real Newly Wed Game)

Eventually, he’s going to get the hint and realize, “Hey it’s a lot of fun to talk to her!”  From there, you build attraction and compatibility, learning about each other, and talking about deep subjects.

Remember what dating is – the gradual sharing and bonding between two people in a relationship.  You learn to love each other, based on your interactions, rather than instant love.  That’s the kind of love that lasts!

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