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What to Text a Guy to Make Him Smile

What to Text a Guy to Make Him Smile

If you’re thinking to yourself “How can I make him smile?” with my texts then you have the right idea. You should never use texting gratuitously or as a “Hey how are you” introduction. Think of a text message as a campaign you manage to get a positive emotional response from him. If you can get a smile or even a laugh then you’re doing great and he is starting to associate you with good feelings—no negativity.

The question is, what do you say to a guy to make him smile…especially if you’re all out of ideas? (And unfortunately, “I think you’re cute” doesn’t work!)

Not to worry…we have eight different ideas on what to say to a guy to make him smile—with a few example texts that can’t lose!

 

1. Let’s do something naughty—tee hee!

What better way to make a man smile (and think sexy thoughts) than suggesting you do something…naughty, you know, like sneaking away from work to go get coffee or play hooky and go watch a movie instead of that big meeting. No need to make this sexual…just suggesting that the two of you do something bad but fun will fill his head with ideas.

Example: “Let’s sneak away for pizza this afternoon!” or “Let’s just call in sick tomorrow and go to the beach.”

 

2. You visited me in my dreams, lover…

Every guy wants to hear this one and it’s an oldie but goody. You don’t actually have to say it was a hot dream—just the idea that your subconscious was thinking about him in ANY way will be a huge ego boost. Men want women to think about them and the more confusing the dream the better. That way, they can analyze it and talk things over. Dreams are involuntary so it really tells him how your feelings for him are slowly changing.

Example: “I had a weird dream about you last night. You and I were at the fair and then you leaned closer and whispered…[random]. What do you think that means?”

 

3. I can’t stop thinking about you…even though I’m trying.

This is the message you’re conveying with those texts that seemingly contradict one another. And this is precisely what guys want. They want to think that their magnetism is attracting you…but that you’re resisting. In other words, you’re not chasing them but are running away, to let them do the chasing. You sense that there’s a problem with a relationship so you’re resisting…the only problem is, he’s much too charming and handsome to ignore.

For example: “I smile like an idiot when I start talking to you!” or “You made me laugh so hard I embarrassed myself at work. I really need to cool it now.”

 

4. I like you…you cheer me up even on bad days.

Men love the idea of being your sunshine in the world. They are naturally providers and fix-it experts. So if you give them credit for cheering you up on a bad work day (or family day) they will get excited about it. For an even better reward, tell them about something specific that they did which cheered you up—this shows appreciation for the little things.

For example: “Thanks for cheering me up on a rainy day!” or “You always know how to make me laugh (or think), even when I’m totally out of it!”

 

5. Confusion is good…confusion means you’re falling under his spell!

When you both start to feel something more than just casual attraction, that’s when you should tell him how you feel. But don’t say anything about love…instead, tell him that you don’t know what it is you feel, but that you feel it strongly. You’re attracted to him and are not quite sure what to do about that. You basically give him control to escalate the situation, telling him how powerful his words are in the relationship.

Now it’s a different kind of smile…the smile he gets when he knows he’s winning you over.

For example: “I feel something really strong for you…but in a way I can’t explain.” Or “Sometimes you make me crazy, you brat!”

 

6. Something’s happening tonight!

Always a teaser and it works because it’s vague. He likes the mystery and the setup. Is tonight the night you finally kiss or is it a surprise gift? He likes the anticipation of this special date and will show up all smiles.

For example: “I have a feeling that tonight is going to be really special.” Or “You’ll never believe what’s going to happen!”

 

7. After a new milestone…confirm his masculinity.

After your intimacy level increases, (either through sex, or a kiss, or just a heartfelt conversation), give him some credit. Not just for pleasing you, but for being an attractive men who could please anybody. Men love to have their ego flattered…especially for something they do.

For example: “Good morning, handsome.” Or “You were such an amazing kisser.” Or “You looked really good in those jeans.”

 

8. Send him a happy little treat.

What better way to magnetically draw him back to you than by issuing a fun kind of treat, buttering up his ego? Complimenting his skills, his charm, or his good looks by way of promising him something – If you keep doing this, I will have to do this! – is a great way to get him laughing and craving more.

For example: “If you kiss me like that again, I won’t be responsible for what I do.” Or “If you’re that amazing in bed again, you just might spoil me!”

Cute and sexy text messages are all about giving him the gift of an emotional experience. Keep it positive. Flatter him in subtle ways. Let him learn that when you text him, only good and exciting things follow. You’re the opposite of boring, the opposite of drama. You’re a fun date in person and online!

 

Text him this to trigger his desire to chase you…

Did you know that you can trigger a man’s hormones through your text messages?

It’s true. How you communicate with a man can actually release different hormones in his body.

One of the most important ones is testosterone because that’s what makes him CHASE you, pursue you, and invest in you so that he gets “hooked” and desires something more with you.

Want to trigger this in your man?

Click here to learn more

Talk soon,

Matthew Coast

P.S. You can actually trigger a “cocktail of emotions” inside a man that makes him feel like he can’t get you out of his mind and even feel addicted to you, if you text him a certain way.

Click here to learn more

62 thoughts on “What to Text a Guy to Make Him Smile”

      1. I can understand. You never really know who’s behind the screen! Don’t post too many specifics about your location,etc. And if they ever ask for money or gift cards for an ’emergency’, GHOST them immediately! Otherwise, just follow your instincts. Best of luck

    1. Melissa smith "Hall"

      I met my true love on face book almost 4 years ago now. I lived in Texas and he in North Carolina . as one year passed and another we done the normal FB stuff like post once in while etc. We exchanged phone # at some point and at first talked every great once in while etc etc. That friend request wI’ll be 4 years old this June. And , our wedding is that same day. I now live in Carolina and have since Feb 18 2019. True love, magic, fairy tales and fate are very real. SOUL MATES ARE A REAL THING. I got very lucky to be one of the very small percentage of human that found the person I was born to love and the other half of my soul. DONT BE SHY! YOU COULD MISS OUT BIG.

    2. I’ve been talking to a guy for 11 weeks first online then phoning and texting we are meeting in 10 days I can’t wait we have said we love each other x

      1. Matthew can you please help me to get my ex back. It has been two years. Is it to late. I have sent a text and he will not reply. It say it was sent but he won’t open it. Please help me. I can’t afford your program. I read everything you send me. I listen what you say. I wish I could text him to get him back. Please help me.

  1. lam in love with a Guy and he seems to be interested in me but he doesn’t say anything. what should I do coz I love him so much

  2. Kayleigh saunders

    My fiancee of 5 years broke up with me when I was on holiday on my mums birthday the problem is I am still madly in love with him and I’m pretty sure he is still I love with me although he is denying it so what should I do

      1. Hi Mathew, I’ very been reading your articles. I am in a situation. I fell deeply for a guy who showed me a lot of attention in the 1st couple of months we dated. Then things fell cold. He still invites me to events and to meet his friends but there is something there that just does not feel right. Help!!

  3. This guy says he’s interested in me but is in army doesn’t text for hours then texts is he stringing next along ?

  4. Im falling for a guy who’s married, we talk everyday or text. I tried to walk away after he told me he was married but there is something about him, he makes me happy and keeps me laughing.

    1. Then you have no respect 4 yourself and it probably isn’t going anywhere he will or should choose his wife or he should tell her cause she shouldn’t have to be with you 2

    2. STAY AWAY FROM MARRIED MEN!! WHY WOULD YOU EVEN CONSIDER IT?? HE IS TAKEN, NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS TO YOU. TELL HIM TO EITHER WORK ON HIS MARRIAGE OR GET A DIVORCE, THEN CONTACT YOU. HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IN HIS WIFE’S SHOES?? IF HE DOES IT TO HER, HE’LL DO IT TO YOU.. GUARANTEED!

      *** DO NOT BE A HOMEWRECKER!! ***

      1. She is not the homewrecker, he is. Put the blame where it belongs. He’s the one that has looked elsewhere and acted on it.

        1. Agree! Women easily say what if that was your husband well…it is always someone’s husband that’s why it’s termed cheating. So quick to blame the woman. These men stop at nothing to lie. We are born to nurture that’s what we do. These men exploit their wives and continue to stay with them. Gross

    3. I’m not going talk about your lack of respect. I’m going to point out he has no respect of himself and no respect for either of you two ladies. However, if you knew from the start, I would suggest you work on yourself because this is not a healthy choice or mind-set.

    4. Walk away, he will do the same to you. Once your old news to him, he will trade you in. My mother always told her daughters never date a married man, bc you are only there to make his marriage better.

  5. I being having a guy texting me for weeks now. He being texting me all week just gone and he has started to send morning texts, when I asked him before if he had feeling for me, he says no just like chatting, but I feel this is a lot more than chatting and being friends, so I’m just telling him his is the best friend that I ever had. I really like him, I think he knows this but I’m trying to play it totally cool. What do I do now. Please help, I was going to ask him to maybe meet for a drink or a meal, but I’m scared if I do then he will not what this, and just say being there done that like he said before, when you talking about being with someone.
    But another odd thing is he messaged me on Sunday just gone, and was taking about sole mates, someone being there though all the kids challenges and someone who would always have a laugh with. I just spilt up from a long team person who I was with for 18 years, I was married to him and split with him in Nov last year, this guy knows everything about all, and still is around, that’s got to mean something right. I asked him when I was at work to cheer me up and right away he sent me a joke. Thanks Vicky

    1. If he says he doesn’t have feelings for you, he probably don’t. He’s probably just bored and your someone to waste time with talking. Unless you really know for sure?

  6. Hi my name is Vicky. I spilt up from my ex parter back in Nov last year, since then at the start of new year this guy started talking, and we have not stopped at all, we have being messaging a lot more, we both knew each other before, and he has started to message me in the morning, and sending me jokes. I really like him, and I have asked him 3 times if he has feelings for me, he started by saying being there done that, he has a lot of trust issues, same as me, but Sunday just gone he I asked him about what do yuh think is happiness and he texted me back and said, having a laugh with your sole mate, getting though all life challenging, and we both have kids and I was shocked in a very good and happy way to get this sort of message, but where is all this going I’m asking myself, I’m playing the whole friends thing, and it seems to be working. So I have told him your the best friend ever, and I told him how amazing I think he is. Do I carry on like this. This morning he sent me a morning message. And I was going to ask him if he would like to meet o for a drink or a meal, but I’m scared if I do I might make him run away and not what to talk to me. Thank you Vicky

  7. What’s the best way to respond via text o dateing sights when being pressured ffg or a personal phone number or email with ssd’s o much scamming and fake profiles and when is it safe to communicate or how. Had someone before me for that info then they said they couldn’t communicate because had a accident and voice therapist etc.

    1. good question, it seems that on these dating apps, men give out their mobile early on and want the same from us.

    1. Don’t fall for them until he says how he feels, ne’er jump in the pool before he does, mimic his actions.
      YouTube “Mathew Coast and Helena Hart”

  8. I dated a giy for 3 years, he just ditched me for a reason best known to him. to me all isay is he might have fallen out of love. The issue I have is he was my ideal kind of man and since that time have never met any man man that treats me right. they good for a while and they start making excuses.

  9. I have been in a relationship for over 10 years we see each other every other weekend, he works every other weekend i always come to his place which is 45 minutes away from me driving distance… when i meet him he told me he had a son, later on there was another son, from a different relationship, last year he find out that he has a 45 year old daughter and 3 grandsons, since that day she has been asking him for money, he feel guilty and he even bought her a suv so out outings kind of ended, he is ok we are in our early 60 so our relationship is not physically anymore. he can be very short with me but I notice whenever he is around other people is very talkative and sociable, he even goes as far as touching females when talking touching them in the arms or hands and when he drinks he hugs and kisses females on the chick constantly. I feel very resentful that he does not want to commit, when im there I clean his place spotless, by my own food , because if i dare to take even a bottle of water he would say something smart and it has become more so since he has to help his daughter financially help please. What to do?

    1. If you want a part time relationship go for him but if you good relationship my dear quit before being hearted

    2. It sounds like you are doing all the work in that relationship. He would begrudge you even a glass of water? YOu have to go to his place to see him? It sounds very one-sided to me. Run.

    3. Janet L Leigh

      Leave him behind you are worth more I spent 27 years with a narcissist. Been single 2 and half years
      Finally met someone who is so different. Trust me you deserve better!

    4. There are so many red flags here Lucy, something is definitely not right. He’s treating you terribly and you should be with someone who is taking you out, showing you off, giving you butterflies. This guy is doing nothing but throwing off alarm bells and showing you that you should run a mile. Don’t let this man disrespect you because you are just disrespecting yourself. Know your worth and go find a real man and love your life. I won’t go near another male until I have no doubts, no red flags. Time is short x

  10. What is it that you want from the relationship? What do you feel HE wants. Seems that he is happy just having a part time convenient relationship. Perhaps its time to stop being so available to him and for Petes sake stop cleaning his place. Make other plans for one of those “on” weekends with a friend or family member. Show him that you are not readily available to him. Maybe he is getting too used to the relationship as it is or is getting bored with it and doesnt know how to tell you.

  11. Mika, what are you thinking? That is a lose lose situation. You are not even close to thinking right. It’s wrong to maybe ruin a family and a marriage Not a smart move at all. Who wants to be #2 or 3 or 4. Cheaters are just cheaters

  12. LUCY….
    I was struck by being 60 & no physical relationship (amongst the other negative ways this man treats you)
    First I am 60 and my sex drive and life are crazy insatiable as are my men! I would never clean his place. I would never tolerate being disrespected in public or private either by not communicating with me at a party or my man overtly touching other woman.
    Run…run run! You can find a guy for you that wants you communicates with you and touches you!
    Move on… he is a user!

    1. Hi, I been with my partner for 3 years we are getting married in November. He seem to think I’m to emotional over little thing.
      Now he seem to think i have issue with everything as I ask not to have kids sleep in our bed. The kids are 10 and older.

      Example he has his own business and he took a call on his personal phone about business when he was spending time with me. I question why talk business on your person phone when you have a business call…

  13. Help, I have been corresponding for over a year with a man younger than myself. We have exchanged pictures, even instant selfies. We have talked on the phone about once a week. He professes his love for me and wants to visit me. I m not sure. I do have feelings for him but am being cautious. Yes I have researched his name and found nothing negative. And I’m not sure my family will approve. I am a grandmother, widowed many years. I not sure I understand why he wants me. No I have no money or assets, so it isn’t money. Am I being too suspicious. Help.

    1. Go meet him. Plenty of men like older women. Meet in a safe place. You don’t need anyone’s approval. Find out his intentions when you meet up. Good luck!

  14. Grace ramnarine

    Hi I meet this guy on line dating and I text him to but said I live to fair to only 20mins to New York so only one to be friends so we did but when out with other woman I do care about him I told that but did not say anything I now he one for me please tell me what to do have in my life thanks

  15. Been in a relationship for 14 years. Lived together for 12. He had 3 children I had one from a previous marriage. 6/21, out of the blue he said we needed a break, but says we needed to find ourselves. I did not agree to break. I told h there needed to be rules in break, no seeing other people. He didn’t day anything until few weeks later. Then he said we should see other people if I chose not to that was my problem. Bit he calls or text me every day, how we will be together, just need space. He works on the road I drove 4 hours to surprise him. He wasn’t there after telling me he was working on Saturday. He did let me spend night in his hotel room.
    But, he refused for me to come on 8/21 for his birthday. Why the surprise visit after birthday. I find a birthday card.
    “Your my Person” I would do anything and everything for you. 5150 4u! Love D!
    I called him at his friends house where he said he was he said it was his friends wife have him card. I said try again. This is a personal message goes deep. Sean finally admitted he did meet someone they have slept together. Now he blames me said he on road, I am mother he has needs. But he was driving the distance every weekend for several months, when I want to make drive he didn’t want me driving distance.
    Should I work on this relationship or walk away

    1. I feel very sad for your situation. It sounds like this man is ready to leave the relationship. I suggest you go no contact with him for at least 30 days and begin the healing process. I wish you the best.

  16. I left my fiancée after 11 1/2 yrs because hes always sexting other women and i found out that he has cheated on me im still very much in love with him and im having a hard time getting over him. We still talk everyday should i try working things out?

    1. Run for your life……ghost him, save your sanity. He will cheat and cheat again and again……You deserve someone whom you can trust ! He’s not that someone. Hope you find the courage to leave. Keeping fingers crossed for you !

  17. Hi
    Im Jo – Met this guy on a dating APP back end of January. He was totally full on – texted and rang constantly – we met up and then met again and got intimate (I know) – then had another date – we went to a heritage park and walked and then he cooked me a meal at his – got intimate again – he came over to mine – I cooked – we went to the pub – he stayed over. Then it was my birthday and was due to see him the day after – but he called and said he couldnt do this as his daughter was suffering mental health issues. I was gutted. I left it couple days then messaged him to day he was right that he needs to focus on his daughter. Then I told him what I really thought of him.
    I saw him once after that – at his again. He then had a bit of a mini depression for couple days and yet we have been texting since. He told me that he needs a week – to sort his head and to see if his daughter is doing ok. Recently his texts have been less affectionate – rarely kiss. I messaged him yesterday and he responded saying he was busy at work chat later. I foolishly put ‘ouch’ as a response – he then text me to say he was working to pay bills etc. I responded saying – I hear you – its exactly what I like in a guy and a thumbs up. I have not heard from him since yesterday afternoon. I am worried I have ruined things and dont know what to do. I havent sent anything back to him as yet. Matt can you help me please.
    Jo, England

  18. I have ment this guy from Facebook and he was texting me and calling me a lot but I have noticed that he he is not talking to me much anymore like he use to but he doesn’t ask me for money but he sends me money for the Bitcoin and after I get it done for him he doesn’t talk to me much I even try to talk to him about some things that I am going through and he will change the conversation with me I feel like he is just using me can anyone please help me

  19. I dated a guy who is the complete opposite of me. I work in healthcare and he’s in the business world even graduating from a top Ivy League college. We lived together for three mts and although our connection was strong he lived a fast work hard play hard life which didn’t go along with my structured family lifestyle. He’s 42 never settled down only dated woman that are considered to be 10s that live in a materialistic world. We have been broken up for 3 years now yet talk almost daily deep intimate conversations. We have only physically seen each other three times in those years. He says when he is financially stable we could try again. This to him means making millions. My question is I’m so confused on why he still talks to me so deeply without wanting a relationship now. I know he is using me for something but I’m not sure exactly what it could be. Can a man use a woman just to stimulate them emotionally? What kinda of satisfaction does he get just from our conversations only? We are not physically intimate, I don’t give him money, I just want to know what he’s using me for.

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