Dating & Relationship Advice

It’s time to talk about one of the greatest threats to your life. An underestimated threat and one that very few people ever see coming. That is: self-defeating behavior. The definition of self-defeating behavior is to act out against your own plan of success. You might even do certain things subconsciously. You have thoughts of

Remember when your parents used to say, “You don’t know what real love is yet. It’s just a crush.” Perhaps all you could think of at the time was, “But this feels like real love!” Of course it did. When we’re young, we only understand love according to how it feels. We don’t have a

It’s not so uncommon…to not understand what love is. One of my friends recently told me that she was worried, mainly because she had no idea what real love felt like. She was dating a few guys but didn’t feel the strong emotion she thought she would have. She was worried that she might never

Are you like me? Do you sometimes think back to old relationships, or even old crushes, and wonder if the right one got away? In other words, did you make a mistake? Did you really lose the best thing that ever happened to you because you made mistakes or felt scared? Let me put your

Someone asked me a challenging question the other day. She said, “I’ve been in love more times than I can count. But I’ve never been able to make a relationship last.” She then proceeded to tell me her story. Indeed, she approached romance very openly, honestly, and passionately. But in every past relationship, it seemed

The term “sociopath” is scary, right? It’s the word you hear quite often on TV dramas, or thriller movies, or some book where there’s a psychopath chasing an innocent person. Of course, all these stereotypes are ridiculously exaggerated. A sociopath is simply a person who has ASPD, or Anti-Social Personality Disorder. Contrary to popular opinion,

You are not alone if you’ve ever thought to yourself, “That guy liked me?! I had no idea!” A lot of guys really think women are lying when they say this. Maybe at one time I wondered myself if that was true. The younger me always said, “Oh she knew, she knew how I felt.

Warning: Don’t ever get into a toxic relationship! Well duh! Isn’t that kind of like saying, “Don’t ever step into a river of lava!” I don’t think anyone plans to get themselves locked into a toxic relationship. It’s just something that sneaks up on people. Over time, the relationship that, at one time, felt so

You know there’s been a lot of talk about “toxic masculinity” these days, most of which is misunderstood. It actually refers to the harmful aspects of masculinity, namely the toxic behavior that leads to men harming women or indeed, harming themselves. For example, the toxic masculinity that normalizes bullying and violence. There shouldn’t be anything