Have you been longing to find a new love recently? While in the past you may have longed to find a romance, now something feels different. You’ve made changes. You’re not the same person you were, those years ago after your last relationship ended.
The question how do you know when it is time to move on? How do you know the difference between a “rebound” and the real thing – a long-term relationship?
When you’re in doubt, look for the signs. Not signs in the stars, but more like signs that you are indeed making progress and becoming the person you want to be – the person who deserves to find a new relationship and one that’s going to be on your own terms.
Let’s consider seven signs that show you a relationship is going to come your way very soon.
1. You don’t have a great lust for a lot of different people. You want to focus your love on just one deserving person.
You have already accomplished many things you wanted to do in life. And yes, that means when you were single, open-minded, and well…very interested in sex and trying new things! Simply put, if you’ve been there and done that, then you are far more inclined to take a relationship seriously. You’re no longer curious. The stable, the genuine, and the positive things in life appeal to you now. You just want one heart to find yours.
2. You love yourself or have learned to love yourself over time.
Some people are blessed with healthy self-esteem. Others have to learn it over time, after bad experiences. The point is, you should always reach a state of self-acceptance AND self-love. You allow yourself joy. You don’t beat yourself up over past mistakes. You accept your life and change what you don’t like. This is the point where you’re able to pursue a healthy relationship, since you now understand what you can bring to the table, and what you desire from a partner.
3. You’ve waited long enough after the rebound period.
The rebound period is pretty brutal. You will meet compatible people and yet not “see” the potential in them. This time is all about your ex. All about your regrets, your coming of age, your mistakes. That’s why people usually tell you, you know, don’t do anything rash. Don’t expect to fall in love so soon after your last relationship ends. In fact, most people that fall into the “rebound zone” never actually become your boyfriend. They’re just guys you dated. Right time and place, but the emotional connection was never there.
4. You take your time meeting someone you like and don’t create drama.
When you do get over the rebound period, you are focused on finding the right one. You take your time. You don’t “create drama” as the expression goes, because you’re not self-sabotaging your own happiness. You’re more interested in learning about your date and trying to determine real compatibility. There’s no need to rush into a relationship. You have a lot to invest and want to do it right!
5. You are happy in life.
When you’re happy in life you don’t spend a lot of time answering dark, existential questions. You don’t find reasons to be unhappy. You don’t second-guess the things you cherish most. Happiness is about finding a place in life, AND in your mind. A place where you find comfort and safety. Usually, when you ask questions – especially questions that have no answer except to unnerve you, you’re not at that happy place. There’s more growth, more learning that’s needed.
Happiness is the best predictor of a healthy relationship.
6. You’ve worked on your own issues and grown from those efforts.
When you are truly ready for change, you make changes happen. You change your life, your daily routines, and long-term goals. You change and negative aspects about yourself that you don’t like. You become the person you’ve always wanted to be, rather than just dreaming about it. Rather than just keeping the same habits that are making you unhappy.
When you make changes, you transform your life. You grow in mind and look at things from a new perspective. That means you’re ready for a new chapter in life. You’ve prepared for this. You’re anticipating this and have created a lifestyle that encourages this new relationship. Change is good.
7. You don’t hate your ex anymore.
One indicator of your maturity and growth is how you feel about your ex. Are you happy for them when good news happen? Have you let go of the resentment? Are you willing to speak to him as a platonic friend, if he wants to talk to you? But at the same time, have you lost that addiction to him and can you truly say you no longer feel the same attraction? That’s progress. You realize the doomed relationship was about you, not him.
8. You don’t need someone else – you just want to share with him.
You are happy alone and working on your own goals in life. Independence is a good quality and indicates that you’ve made tremendous progress in improving yourself. You don’t need a man. You have already created a successful life. You just want to give to and share with another person. You are attracted to an independent parent likewise and together the two of you are strong enough as individuals to co-exist peacefully.
As you can see, the “signs” are all evidence of your progress as an individual. When you make goals for yourself, and start living the lifestyle you want, the rest of the scenario happens naturally. By your energy, you call things to you that you want. If you give off hospitable energy, then what you desire is attracted to you.
If you are making the positive changes you need to make, and just as importantly, you know what you want and are working towards that goal, the rest will follow soon enough. Get inspired and go find the relationship of your dreams.
The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life
There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…
It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…
But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…
It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…
And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…
Have you figured out what it is yet?
Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…
And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…
Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…
Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…
A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…
And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…
Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…
If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…
I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…
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I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…
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I show you what this 5 word phrase is…
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If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…
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