Kissing

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Why Do Guys Push Against You When Kissing

You may have noticed a few times that some guys sort of “push into you” or even against you when they go for a kiss. It seems like a confusing gesture, since part of him is pushing you away, but part of him is bringing you closer. What does this mean, especially if this is your first kiss together?

Let’s consider a few possibilities and then consider the most likely scenario. Then we’ll finish with a final thought on how to evaluate a man’s kiss and what it means for the overall future of the relationship.

Scenario #1: He’s trying to be sexy or dominant or something.

Yeah guys do this sometimes, especially if he’s kind of new to dating, or just thinks you want a dominant partner who is ultra confident and very intense in the bedroom. It’s not entirely accurate though. Most women are not looking for Christian Grey. You want sexy. You want confident. But there’s no need to go over the top and be pushy, grabby, or bratty. All that acting, while fun in roleplaying, should be discussed first and not just assumed.

But that’s probably not why he’s doing it. Let’s consider some other options.

Scenario #2: He’s ambivalent about the kiss.

He loves you, he hates you! Or maybe he’s already taken but still wants you! Or maybe he’s afraid of you, afraid of his own passion around you, but still so irascibly drawn to you! The kiss represents the battle going on in his head.

Yeah, sure that’s all possible too. But again, not likely. Let’s consider two other scenarios.

Scenario #3: He wants to be near you and instinctively moves closer.

This one’s a plausible theory, and it’s possibly true that instinctively we want to be near to the person we like. Even in flirting, sometimes we unconsciously move closer to our date, or a crush, whenever they make eye contact.

So if you’re kissing together and the feeling is intense, he might want more tension, and more intimacy. His subconscious mind says, “bring her closer!”

So it’s not so much that he’s pushing against you, but more like he’s coming closer and trying to stay nearer to you in mid-kiss. It’s a positive gesture.

But then here’s another scenario…

Scenario #4: He is trying to uh, accelerate the romance into something much freakier.

In essence, yeah, he’s very aroused and by pushing against you he’s giving you the hint that he thinks you should go into the bedroom. (Or wherever…hopefully not the restaurant bathroom)

But if you’re kissing romantically and passionately, he might just be “pushing in” because he’s letting you know he’s available for the night. He wants you now, or soon, and is waiting to see what you do in return. Maybe he’s even hoping for a little bit of sexual contact, at least a graze or a sliver.

Will you signal to him that it’s time to go back? Or will you back away and send him into panic?

Possibe. But let’s consider one more…

Scenario #5: He just likes the way it feels.

Sometimes men do stuff like pushing against you because it feels good. He wants to be more hands on. He wants his body closer to you, maybe even to feel his body pushing against yours. It might be a sexual thing…OR it might just be a romantic and sweet thing.

You won’t really know until the next step – what he does after the kiss. Is he going to keep sending you obvious hints that he wants more? Or…is he going to want to gaze into your eyes, smile, kiss you again, and be happy with the moment you just shared?

This is the most likely scenario, in my opinion. Guys sometimes forget themselves in the heat of the moment. He might be pushing into you because he’s excited, or maybe even over-stimulated and he’s having a hard time controlling himself. That’s a pretty good sign!

He’s not being pushy but he’s really happy to be here and taking the next step.

What comes next is up to the both of you. Is this the right moment? Has he fallen for you yet, and will he come back to you again?

How to Read His Kiss

Here’s the takeaway. Don’t take one gesture so seriously, like pushing against you during a kiss. Instead, compare this gesture to a few others he uses. For example, does he keep holding onto your waist after the kiss? Does he use his fingers to gently roll a lock of hair from your face? Does he gaze into your eyes and smile?

It’s relatively easy to sense what guys are thinking and feeling after a kiss. Negative reactions are distancing. They instantly create awkward and defensive energy. Attraction feels magnetic. He doesn’t want to let go. He doesn’t want this moment to end.

From there, you can always ask how he liked it. If he’s quick to say it was great, or if he laughs or smiles, or blushes, you can bet that the first kiss was a success. He was pushing against you because he was very into the moment. He was carried away with feeling and attraction and just couldn’t help but express himself.

Assuming he doesn’t do anything too pushy, like touching your breasts or trying to undress you, you can assume he’s taking things slow. That’s a good start. A man shouldn’t push you into sex, as if telling you now is the right time.

It’s up to you to decide if this is the right time and he will wait for your consent. Why? Because a decent man knows that love and sex is much better when a woman is into it, excited about it, and ready to move forward in the relationship.

Try not to worry so much about what he’s thinking but pay closer attention to what his body is feeling. That way, you will always know what he’s really saying with his kissing pattern.

 

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

Click here to watch the video now <<

My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…

I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…

When you click the link this link right here <<

I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…

And how to attract the man you want…

Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…

No matter how painful things have been in your past…

You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…

Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…

If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…

If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…

And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…

Click this link to watch my video right now <<

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How to Know if He Enjoyed the Kiss

You know the look. When you kiss for the first time and it feels magical. Gradually, you let go of the embrace and hold each other close. And he gazes at you….thinking something.

But what is he thinking? Is he smiling because he enjoyed it? Or is he fake smiling? Is he giving you a pity smile or a patronizing, “Aww, that was cute” kind of smile?” Or is it an even more off-the-wall thought?

How do you know what a man is thinking, especially after something so intimate? Usually, a man says “That was great!” after a wonderful kiss. So how do you know what he’s really thinking if he doesn’t immediately say something?

Relax. You can actually figure out if he enjoyed himself just by studying his gestures, body language, and facial expressions right after the first kiss. Let’s consider a few positive signs that he enjoyed the kiss and is ready for even more connection.

1. He is speechless!

The best sign of a guy enjoying the kiss is when he’s smiling and yet looks completely surprised or speechless. He’s not embarrassed, he’s not disappointed. But he’s just sort of shocked. He’s probably not shocked that you two kissed. Just amazed at how good it was. He doesn’t want to disappoint you with the followup and he’s not an experienced player. That means he’s just wowed by the moment and that’s a great sign.

2. He seemed a little nervous before the kiss and calmer now.

If the guy seemed nervous before and is calmer now after the kiss, that means he was very genuine about wanting to get it right. It doesn’t always means he’s a newbie to kissing. It just means this one was special and he wanted to make sure you remembered it.

3. Eye contact is even more intense afterward.

Easy way to tell if he didn’t like it? Eyes are distracted. He looks away. He looks regretful, maybe darts his eyes around like he’s ashamed of what happened. But on the opposite end, we have Intense Eye Contact! He’s not only looking at you, he’s locked into position, feeling the magnetism you’ve created. That’s a great sign, because you know he wants more and wants to try it again.

4. He stays still, perhaps holding you a little tighter than before.

If he keeps his hands on you and grips your waist a little tighter, that means he’s very interested in keeping the feeling going. He wants more, but at the same time, he doesn’t want to demand anything. It’s up to you…but you can tell by his energy and smile, he’s up for more if you are.

5. He seems a little heated, in temperature or visible sweat.

If his body increases in temperature, it’s probably not the heating system in the house! He gets flushed, temperature rises, things are getting heated, it’s a good sign.

6. He tells you so!

Guys aren’t always so mysterious. Sometimes he will just come out and say that was great! He might resist being too emotional, because he doesn’t want to scare you away. But if he seems exuberant, relieved, and thrilled that the kiss went so well, that’s a good sign that he’s pleased and hopes you feel the same way.

7. He laughs nervously.

A man laughing nervously is a good thing. A harsh and guttural laugh, well, not such a good thing. But usually guys will mirror your shy energy and give you a little giggle to match your own.

True, a confident guy is also a relief. After he kisses you he might lower his voice, look into your eyes and assure you it was a very good kiss. But that’s almost too smooth. The good news is if the guy seems a little nervous or laughing, he is just nuts about you.

8. He’s very flexible and can follow your style of kissing.

If and when you decide to kiss again, you will notice that he is flexible to the way you approach the second kiss. If you’re hot and passionate he follows that note. If you’re shy and timid, he doesn’t push too hard. He wants you to enjoy the kiss and so he takes things slowly, making sure this is what you want, and this is the way you imagined it.

9. He’s always excited to go another round…or save it for another day.

You know you’ve met someone special when he’s completely available to keep kissing for a while (even without needing sex yet) OR he’s also cool with calling it a night. This is actually a test you can use to determine if the guy really likes you and is willing to wait, or if he’s so desperate for sex he’s not even thinking about how you feel about him.

A good man who respects you AND wants you, is strong enough to call it a night, but always eager to please when you decide it’s time.

10. You get the follow up right away!

Finally, if the guy is eager to talk to you or text you the next day (probably the morning) you know he really enjoyed himself, and hopes you felt the same.

Conclusion

Hindsight is 20/20 and usually, guys regret accidental kisses or one night stands if the relationship itself is bad idea. For example, someone taken, a mismatch in age or lifestyle, if their partner is inappropriate as serious date material.

But the good news is that you can measure how he felt about the kiss by his actions in the now. Is he still reaching out to you in the days following? Is he even warmer and friendlier after the kiss?

If he’s feeling awkward and quiet (which sometimes happens), is he still glowing when he looks at you – as if you’re the only thing he’s focused on and he’s slowly falling in love? Does he still find excuses to make contact? If he wants to give you loving attention, your kiss has sealed the deal!

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

Click here to watch the video now <<

My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…

I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…

When you click the link this link right here <<

I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…

And how to attract the man you want…

Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…

No matter how painful things have been in your past…

You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…

Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…

If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…

If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…

And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…

Click this link to watch my video right now <<

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What Does It Mean When a Guy Looks At You While Kissing

You know the visual…the prelude to a kiss. Butterflies in your stomach. Your eyes lock and the attraction is sizzling. Then your eyes start to close for the amazing first kiss…

But just as your eyes start to close, you notice he’s still staring at you.

You close your eyes and kiss…and it feels great! But out of curiosity, you open your eyes again. He’s still looking at you while you’re kissing.

It’s not really weird or disturbing, but just a little odd when you see it happen. Our instinct is to close our eyes when the kiss is really good. But he’s intentionally keeping his eyes open.

What does it mean? Let’s consider a few theories about the “open eye kiss.”

1. He is trying to be romantic/sexy/cool and wants to impress you.

There is something endearing about a man who isn’t afraid to look you in the eyes and connect so closely. Maybe he is planning to alternate between a closed eye kiss and an eye gazing kiss. Maybe he’s having fun and just wants to try both ways. Maybe he read that eye-gazing is a popular thing, who knows. The point is, he is just trying to be cute and it’s not a huge deal.

2. He is checking to see “how he’s doing.”

Well, it’s not quite as cool when a guy is feeling insecure and checks to see how you like the kiss. But this scenario happens too. It might be a sign that he’s self-conscious about his technique, his body, breath, or some other personal aspect of himself. He may be trying to gauge if you’re enjoying it. And frankly, it’s sweet that he’s taking the kiss so seriously!

3. He wants to connect with you on a deeper level.

In this scenario, he’s not just eye-gazing for pleasure but really trying to experience a deeper bond between the two of you. He may already feel connected to you, but with a gazing kiss, he might be trying to connect with you emotionally, to fully take in the experience. Or in like manner…

4. He may be trying to create a vivid memory.

Whether it’s for him, or for you, or both of you, he thinks that opening his eyes and immersing himself with all his senses will make this a memory for the ages. That’s a pretty cool sign, since that means he wants to remember this kiss and this moment for the rest of his life. He may be burning the lovely image of you into his mind, taking the time to be there with you in this unique experience. Or he may be hoping that you see him the same way, as someone devoted to you and who wants this to last beyond just a passionate affair.

5. He is playing you(!)

This is a controversial theory, to say the least. But some women claim that guys who stare at them during a kiss might be players, or narcissists, or just dudes being creepy. The thought is that he is so “rehearsed” he doesn’t really feel the romance anymore – just the sex. He may even be completely removed from the emotional experience, or even dead inside.

He enjoys the kiss, the conquest perhaps, but doesn’t feel love the same way you do.

Well, this sounds feasible but the problem is there is no sure way to know if a guy is a player just by the way he kisses and stares. You have to take more factors into account like how he treats you, how many ex-girlfriends he’s had (and his reputation), and any other disturbing behaviors he might be exhibiting.

If he’s “clean” in every other way, it’s very possible you’re reading too much into his harmless eye gaze. It’s certainly not a dead-giveaway that he’s a psychopath. It just means he doesn’t want to close his eyes at this particular moment, for his own personal reasons.

6. He is paranoid you’re going to steal his wallet…or something else!

Who knows? Maybe your boyfriend is keeping his eye on you because he doesn’t entirely trust you. Maybe he’s heard rumors about how well you pickpocket or cut off locks of his hair for witchcraft purposes. Only kidding…I don’t think any guy is this paranoid! But if he really is that paranoid, uh yeah, you should probably think twice about dating him.

7. He’s not attracted to you and is second-guessing the relationship.

This is a somewhat unlikely but still possible scenario. If the guy feels forced into the relationship and is not all that excited to be kissing you, he might stare emotionlessly, wondering if he’s making a mistake.

But once again, it depends on what ELSE he’s doing. Is he kissing hesitantly? Is he breaking the embrace before you’re done? Does he seem annoyed or fearful or even offended? These are the behaviors that matter. The eye gaze alone doesn’t mean he’s having second thought. It simply means he wants to look at you, and that’s not necessarily a bad thing.

Does the Open Eyed Kiss Matter?

The point is, don’t fret about the guy enjoying the kiss in his own unique way. Men don’t all kiss the same and sometimes they want to try something different. What you should pay more attention to is his enthusiasm, his energy level, and his desire to make the kiss good for you.

What really matters is that he wants to keep the kiss going, not the strict technique. So if you determine that his “stare” is harmless, just reward him with another great kiss and close your own eyes. If you enjoy closing your eyes during a kiss, then do what feels right.

Maybe he will try it your way next and close his eyes. Maybe he just likes to experiment and discover his favorite way to kiss you. There’s nothing wrong with trying something new. Encourage his passion and welcome the embrace, once you sense his good vibes coming your way.

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

Click here to watch the video now <<

My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…

I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…

When you click the link this link right here <<

I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…

And how to attract the man you want…

Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…

No matter how painful things have been in your past…

You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…

Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…

If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…

If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…

And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…

Click this link to watch my video right now <<

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Signs the Kiss Meant Something to Him

It’s true – sometimes waiting a couple of days can change our feelings and perceptions about a person. What we feel in the moment, like after a first kiss or long makeout session, can seem a little distant later on.

If we have time to think stuff over we may realize that passion was interfering with our logical mindset.

That’s why it’s important to take note of what a man does in the days following that first kiss. He may show positive signs right after the kiss, but what about in the days following?

The best way to determine that the kiss was special to him is to look for the signs that he still remembers the experience vividly, and wants to see you again.

Signs the Kiss Meant Something to Him

Let’s consider some strong signs that the kiss was special and he is falling for you.

1. It felt slower than usual.

Fast and rough kisses are kind of hot, sure…but also suspicious for a first date. If he’s really in love with you, why rush things to a climactic finish? Why wouldn’t he savor the moment by slowing things down and just being there with you, in this epic memory?

In contrast, when a man slows down the kiss and you can tell he is smitten with you, it’s a wonderful feeling. He never wants this memory to end. He wants to remember you, this moment, this capsule in time.

Slow kisses are the best!

2. No alcohol or drugs!

Let’s be honest and admit that kisses resulting from alcohol or any other legal or illegal drugs are not THAT big of a deal. When your inhibitions are lowered, you take more chances. You might even do something uncharacteristic. So yeah, it’s more like a dare to kiss after a few drinks.

So if the kiss happens naturally, whether spontaneously or planned, you already get some bonus points for that. And yes, the guy is into you, if he took a real chance, if he worked up the courage to give you a moment of sincere emotion and passion. That’s truly something special that the two of you experienced.

3. You both got quiet after the kiss, and maybe a little giddy.

Don’t assume that getting quiet or feeling awkward with your partner is a bad thing. Usually, we don’t come up with snappy things to say or create cinematic banter worthy of a Rob Reiner film. The truth is real life is sometimes awkward.

But what matters is that you’re experiencing this rush of emotion and red blushing together! That’s what makes it fun, interesting, sexy, and romantic!

There is such a thing as “good quiet” and “bad quiet.” Bad quiet is marked by mismatched energy. He’s quiet and very low-key energy. You can tell by his facial expressions and posturing. Your high energy level falls, the more you realize he’s unhappy.

But good quiet means you match each other. You’re both giddy, self-conscious, feeling awkward, and most of all, very interested in kissing again!

4. He feels more connected with you – and protective of you!

When a guy is starting to fall for you after a kiss, he will become more attracted to you and much more giving. He will give more of his time, attention, and resources (even if this is just his knowledge or humor, not necessarily money) to show he’s serious about you.

He feels closer to you and wants a deeper connection. The kiss was the start of something amazing and the romance is just beginning. During this time he also becomes more protective of you, in essence, reminding everyone that the two of you are dating. He is proud to call you his partner and is certainly not shy about singing it to the world.

5. You actually don’t want to brag about it to anyone.

Funny thing about drunk kisses, while we’re on that subject. When a kiss means nothing to you, or when it was an accident, you usually tell your closest friends or relatives about it. You might even talk about it publicly, or on an appropriate forum, like Ask Reddit, but with the names hidden.

Point is, we learn from our mistakes, and it’s not a big deal to admit you kissed someone and that nothing became of it. (Or even a fling) It’s trivial, it’s just something interesting to share.

But…

When you kiss someone you like, it’s actually more of a scandalous secret. You’re afraid of announcing it too soon. You’re afraid to come on too strong and scare him away, or maybe you don’t want to invest emotionally in something that could be iffy.

Worse yet, it actually hurts you to think that this kiss was nothing…that this amazing kiss was an accident and there’s no real chemistry with this guy.

Why? Because that means the kiss really did mean something! You sensed something special and he probably did too. The kiss was unexpected and amazing. The chemistry is actually so powerful that it changes the entire energy of the friendship. You treat each other differently and interact differently – this time with attraction and passion in the air.

When the kiss is special you really do feel it and it becomes your biggest secret – the one you want to protect until you know for sure.

6. He is eager to go out again.

Finally, let’s give credit to the guy who’s willing to be honest and speak his heart. If he is quick to tell you that the kiss was special, or that he really enjoyed your date, that’s a telling sign. Even if he’s too shy or cautious to say it outright, you can gauge how much he enjoyed it by how enthusiastic he is about the next date.

A man that wants to see you again, and who wants your attention after the first kiss, is definitely still feeling attraction.

In closing, don’t get too psyched out by the idea of a perfect kiss. There are always ways to improve your kissing technique, which I’ve blogged about before. But don’t assume that if your kiss is imperfect or you make a giggling mistake that it’s the end of a relationship.

A man who likes you is more interested in connecting with you and getting to know you than he is in experiencing perfection. Cherish the moment of discovery, not the fantasy.

What does your kiss say to a man?

Can I tell you a secret that most people don’t know?

And the people who do know, don’t usually think much about it…

Here it is…

Kissing is a language.

And it communicates at a very primal level.

It can tell a man’s mind to reach, hunger, and crave for more of your touch…

Or it can turn him off and dull his passion and excitement for you.

The question is…

What does your kiss say?

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Talk soon,

Matthew Coast

P.S. If you want to learn how to capture a man’s heart with your kiss…

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If a Guy Kisses You Before He Leaves, What Does It Mean?

It’s easy to tell what a boyfriend or husband is thinking right after that goodbye kiss. He cherishes you, he loves you, he wants to remind you of your special bond. Or, maybe he enjoys being a husband and showing loving reassurances throughout the day.

So what in the world does it mean when a guy you like kisses you but there’s no relationship to speak of? Or if you are dating and a guy kisses you unexpectedly after a goodbye, what does that mean? Does that mean he wants to see you again? Or was it, perhaps, the “kiss of death”, as in “You’re more of a buddy than a girlfriend!”

The answer is, it depends on the type of kiss that it was and the timing of that particular event or date. Let’s consider some common scenarios involving guys and their confusing intentions after an unexpected kiss.

1. He kisses you goodbye on the lips…in front of others.

This is a bold move indeed! Kissing you on the lips is intriguing but doing it in front of other people is upping the ante. If he hardly know him then it might be a creepy thing to do!

But if you’ve flirted for a while and have both talked about dating, it may be him finally giving you a grand and romantic gesture.

2. He kisses you quickly after a first date.

Guys sometimes feel funny about a first date kiss. If he senses mutual attraction and wants to be romantic and confident, he may go for a kiss. If he’s a little more hesitant then he may want to feel you out and make sure you want him to kiss you, before just assuming.

Now yes, it is possible that if you get a cold fish sort of kiss, or shall we say, a brotherly kiss, (you know the split-second lip graze) that he’s feeling nervous or just not that into you. Try to play this by ear…does he seem nervous but still excited to be near you? Is he avoiding eye contact because he’s shy? Or is he perfectly suave and confident AND just not feeling the kiss?

Sometimes this happens. If he feels a brother-sister vibe going on with you, then he won’t feel attracted and the kiss will be quick and platonic.

3. He kisses you on the cheek.

Cheek kisses are hard to interpret because it depends on the occasion. Some men are old-fashioned and might be following protocol or etiquette with a cheek kiss, especially if it’s a formal event.

But if he kisses you on the cheek after a casual gathering, a lunch date, or even a Netflix night, it’s generally a positive sign. It means he likes you, is fond of you as a friend, and respects you deeply. That’s all well and good…it shows you’re almost like family to him.

However, a cheek kiss is not necessarily a passionate kiss. Some people consider it either a “non-event” entirely (he didn’t actually kiss you for real) or perhaps a somewhat cowardly way for a guy to make a move on you. If he’s afraid of being rejected he might go for a cheek kiss.

Or maybe he’s seeing what you’ll do after the cheek kiss, and then follow up next time with a more romantic kiss.

Either way, don’t send him any negative signals. Encourage him to be affectionate as a friend…but wait until he makes the “big move” before assuring him you feel the same way.

4. He kisses you on the forehead.

Like cheek kisses, forehead kisses fall short of a romantic kiss. Some feel as if a forehead kiss is charming, old-fashioned, or maybe even a hipster thing to do. It’s the opposite of a lip kiss, which means you are emotionally connected to this person. It’s not just about sex or romance, but it’s about lifelong friendship, maybe even a connection of souls.

Again, this doesn’t necessarily mean he’s into you romantically. He may kiss you on the forehead because he feels sympathy for your loss, or your struggle, or may want to show how much he loves you…as a father, brother, or buddy.

See the problem? You’re really waiting for a lips kiss to follow up on the safer forehead kiss. But don’t underestimate the trust here. He really does trust you and like you, if you get a forehead kiss.

5. He kisses you on the hand.

For a formal event, hand kissing may be appropriate. However, in informal settings it’s a little unusual. It’s also becoming the rarity as of late, given social distancing trends.

Hand or wrist kissing could feel overly familiar, or too cheeky. He’s intentionally being coy, flirty, and a little daring. He may even look you in the eye as he kisses your hand, enjoying the sexual tension.

If you like the feeling, run with it. If he caught you off guard and you didn’t like the way it felt, then it’s possible he’s moving a little too fast for you.

6. He kisses you on the neck.

Another daring move! This is usually done by a boyfriend, or someone who’s already intimate and well acquainted with you. This is a rather brazen move if no trust has been established…although it’s also possible that he just mis-timed his lip kiss and accidentally landed his lips on your neck. Honest mistake!

Showing affection can be a complicated thing. What is once considered a landmark moment of romance and passion can deteriorate into formality after a few years. That’s why it’s important to always remember the passion, the spontaneity, and most of all, the emotional connection behind these acts of love.

The emotion behind these physical acts is what matters, whether before dating, while dating, or even after years of marriage. Ask yourself if you are, in fact, wearing some of your heart on your sleeve. Don’t hold back if you meet someone special. It’s time to embrace the emotional connection.

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

Click here to watch the video now <<

My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…

I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…

When you click the link this link right here <<

I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…

And how to attract the man you want…

Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…

No matter how painful things have been in your past…

You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…

Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…

If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…

If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…

And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…

Click this link to watch my video right now <<

Men have a LOVE LAW - do you know what it is

How to Tell if a Guy Likes Kissing You

When you kiss someone for the first time, you like to assume the other person is enjoying it as much as you are. If you’re attracted to him, and he’s attracted to you, the first kiss should be the culmination of your romance!

Or at least that’s what romantic movies have always taught us. But in reality, sometimes kisses go wrong and then it’s up to us to find how to improve kissing technique.

But before you “correct it”, you have to know how your partner feels about the kiss. Is there something specific that you do that he doesn’t like? Or would he prefer a different approach to kissing? What if he thinks the kiss is perfect and he wants you to keep doing the same thing?

No need to overanalyze it. Let’s just consider the most common signs that show your soon-to-be-boyfriend enjoys the kiss. Most guys can’t fake enthusiasm or pleasure. If you notice any of these positive signs, that means he likes kissing you and it’s time to give him more of what he wants.

1. He slows things down.

The first sign of a good kiss is the man’s willingness…no, more like, his inability to rush through the kiss. He is so focused on the kiss, he slows things down. He takes his time. Hours seem to pass because that’s how much he’s enjoying it. He doesn’t need sex right now. Kissing you is all that matters for now, at this moment. He’s in no rush because he knows the first kiss with you is a once-in-a-lifetime moment to cherish.

2. He can’t keep his hands off of you.

Not only do his hands roam during the kiss, but you’ll notice he’s also very touchy-feely before and after the kiss happens. Touching is the most obvious sign that he’s attracted to you and really into the kiss. All touching counts too, whether it’s touching your elbow or arm, hands, face, or clothing.

3. Eye contact is electrifying!

Eye contact grows more intense as the passion increases. What starts as cautious, back and forth glancing soon becomes addicting, powerful and an almost hypnotic gaze. You can’t look away even if you feel nervous, because you’re both feeling that energy, that yearning for intimacy, that begs for more.

4. Flirting is constant – almost effortless.

Before and after the kiss, flirting becomes almost effortless and reckless to a fault. You’re so into each other you lose your inhibitions. You tease each other, challenge each other, poke buttons sometimes, and test each other. Whereas in early flirting, you have to be careful and try to be witty…

When you’re both turned on, flirting comes more natural to you. You feel it, you come up with zingers and quotes faster. You’re both living in the moment. Which brings us to the next point…

5. He is very vocal.

Before and after the kiss, guys usually start chattering away. He might be nervous at first, but after the first kiss, (and if he’s still turned on) he will make small talk with you. He might also giggle, whisper, and compliment you on your kissing technique.

In fact, after the first kiss, he usually stops joking and starts becoming more suave, romantic, and debonair. His voice may lower in pitch but he enjoys talking to you in this more intimate way and his loquacious nature just makes the follow-up kiss even better.

6. He mirrors your posture and energy.

If he is mirroring your energy level and the way you hold yourself, he is “in sync” with you. That’s a good sign, because the first sign of sexual incompatibility is mismatched energy. He doesn’t seem to follow your train of thought. One of you has much less energy and enthusiasm. One or both of you just don’t seem to have a strong attraction that you should.

But when you are a good match and you have that magical first kiss, you become even more in sync. He starts to breathe at your pace, moves at your speed, matches your body language, and even speak in a similar voice. This mirroring effect helps you to bond closer together.

7. He starts paying attention to your perfume.

He talks about your perfume, your scent, and can’t help but take a subtle whiff when you’re close together. Now that’s he mentally and physically stimulated, his senses are heightened and he notices more things about you. This is a vivid memory he will remember for the ages…and he’s very likely to let you know, by telling you what he feels.

8. He seems really turned on.

Er, following the same thought, it’s not uncommon for a woman to feel or see how turned on her partner is after a good kiss. You might notice his “bulge” down below, or perhaps just see the look on his face. His pupils might dilate, or he may tilt his head and give you a more sweet or sexy look.

9. He can’t wait until your next date.

Finally, don’t underestimate the obvious. If he wants to follow up on this kiss and go out again, or maybe even kiss again, the first kiss was a success! If you’ve already told him you have to go, then he might be excited to arrange another date. Presumably, another date and an opportunity to kiss to your heart’s content!

In the end, it’s all about his interest level following the kiss. Obviously, you can tell if he’s disappointed, intimidated, or offended. He will back away and want to avoid any further intimacy. But if he’s quiet, calm, and yet still gazing at you, it’s almost always a good sign.

He may be recovering from the intensity of the kiss, maybe even surprised at how good it was. If he’s eager to see you again, or start kissing again when the time is right, that’s a good sign.

The goal is to keep piquing his interest so that he comes back for more!

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

Click here to watch the video now <<

My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…

I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…

When you click the link this link right here <<

I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…

And how to attract the man you want…

Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…

No matter how painful things have been in your past…

You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…

Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…

If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…

If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…

And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…

Click this link to watch my video right now <<

How To Make Him Fall For You

How to Tell He Loves You by His Kiss

Like that old song goes, “If you want to know, if he loves you so, It’s in his kiss
That’s where it is, oh yeah, It’s in his kiss.”

What timeless bit of wisdom that lyric was. Because when it comes to reading men – supposedly such a mysterious and difficult creature to learn – body language and action sometimes speaks louder than words. Men choose their words carefully. But we usually can’t manipulate the way they kiss. Men just kiss. We enjoy it!

Here’s the thing…his kiss is going to match what that man is feeling or thinking inside. In that moment, the way he kisses you is a reflection of his feelings for you.

How to Tell He Loves You by His Kiss

Now you might be wondering, as you think over every kiss you’ve ever had in your life, what IS a man thinking and how does his kiss change according to positive and negative vibes he’s feeling? Let’s consider eleven types of kisses and what they each say about his mindset.

1. The Peck
A fast, closed-lip kiss is formal. If he uses this frequently, he’s either making a show of it (perhaps in public) or he is very much into tradition and appearances. It’s not a soulful kiss at all but feels forced. Why is he forcing it? It’s concerning if this is the way he kisses you when you’re alone.

2. The Cheeky Kiss
Kissing you on the cheek is another somewhat formal kiss, though it can also indicate he’s affectionate – and doesn’t just want to kiss for sex. He might like showing his feelings with a quick cheek kiss. On the other hand, if this is all he ever wants, you’re definitely in the friend-zone.

3. The Hand Kiss
This used to be a very formal gesture, common and respectable in Jane Austen times. In modern times, however, it’s more of a show off move for a man who wants to be a dashing prince. It’s a sweet and innocent gesture…and yet if he makes intense eye contact with you during that kiss it can be very romantic.

4. The Porn Kiss
If he fast-forwards the slow kiss and goes straight for the tongue and rolls his face all over yours – almost as if he hates kissing – then it’s all about sex. This kind of kiss indicates a total lack of intimacy. He wants sex but he doesn’t like the idea of intimacy, bonding or engaging emotionally. Beware!

5. The Slow Kiss
This is the best kiss, and the one that’s most likely associated with love and genuine affection. When a man is in love, or at least very close to it, he takes his time. He wants to remember this moment. He wants this moment to last, just the two of you together. He loves slow kisses, caresses, a smooth tilting of the head as you continue this soulful embrace. He loves the feeling of your lips pressing together, the moisture, the heat, the heart-throbbing excitement of a first kiss!

He loves it so much (because he loves YOU so much) he wants to make it last. He wants to be a good kisser and take his time.

This is a definite way to tell how he loves you with his kiss… it kisses you with love!

6. The Virgin Kiss
Kind of like the Slow Kiss, except he forgets to use his hands. He might also do clumsy things like use too much tongue, kiss too dry, or get too slobbery. The thought is there that he wants a slow kiss….he’s just not that experienced.

7. The Upper and Lower Lip Kiss
This kiss starts as a slow kiss but eventually sucks on the upper or lower lip. He may even kiss your chin, cheeks or jaw. It feels lusty and intense. It follows an intense slow kiss but is usually right before a French kiss.

8. The French Kiss
French-kisses are the natural end of a respectable slow kiss. As passion builds, you want more, he wants more. You desire more intimacy, more exploration. No wonder then when your tongues caress each other you feel a magnificent tingle. French-kisses make excellent foreplay for sex. They’re also very romantic and can push your red hot romance over the edge.

This means it’s actually somewhat difficult to tell how a guy feels from a French-kiss. Is he in love with you or in lust with you? If it’s the latter, assume he’ll want more French-kissing and less slow kissing. Or he’ll fast-forward through the slow kissing and go for the tongue.

9. Forehead Kisses
Forehead kisses are all about soul and emotional connection. They’re usually not platonic but are all about passion. It suggests trusts, connection and safety. Love! You can feel it, especially since he must hold you close in his hands to push his lips to your forehead. He wants to protect you and take care of you. Good sign!

10. The Neck Kiss
Much like the French kiss, this one is associated with passion and lust, the preceding steps to neck, petting and foreplay. Women have very sensitive necks and some guys will rush a woman into sex, going for a short kiss, French kiss, and neck-kiss combo. The neck kiss should be the beginning of foreplay, but the END of the kissing stage. If it’s your first time together, your boyfriend should be postponing these more intimate kisses until you’re ready.

11. The Shoulder Kiss
A man kissing you on your shoulder or back usually indicates a strong emotional bond. It’s a love kiss, a move of safety, protection and assurance. He’s thanking you, trusting you and appreciating you without words, but with a romantic kiss.

Yes, paying attention to how he kisses you is an insight into his mind. How does he feel about the relationship? Is he attracted to you? Is he attracted but emotionally distant? Does he really love you?

How he kisses you can tell you if he loves, appreciates, and adores you.

Lastly, remember that eye contact is important. Not necessarily during the kiss (since we tend to close our eyes) but after and before. A man making love to you with his eyes is one of defining moments of an intimate relationship. Love is about the emotional nuances. If you can discern his thoughts and feelings, you can better determine which relationships have the most potential for true commitment.

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

Click here to watch the video now <<

My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…

I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…

When you click the link this link right here <<

I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…

And how to attract the man you want…

Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…

No matter how painful things have been in your past…

You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…

Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…

If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…

If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…

And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…

Click this link to watch my video right now <<

How To Let Him Know He Should Kiss You

Kissing Tips for a Passionate Kiss

It kind of sucks but it’s true…sometimes a man really evaluates your relationship potential on the kiss. Maybe he thinks it has something to do with chemistry or genetic compatibility, or whatever. The point is, he’s wrong. All it really means, when you have a really great kiss, is that (A) the guy knows how to kiss, (B) the woman knows how to kiss and (C) the moment is reasonably good. (You know, in that you’re not stuck in a sewage plant or a McDonald’s as a first date)

That means if you want a man to fairly evaluate your full relationship potential, don’t go into the first kiss improvising or thinking it’ll come natural. Give him what he wants: a really good kiss that shows him you are not just a good match—you’re also a sexy, feisty lover that will keep him happy!

Here are six tips on how to make a passionate kiss, even if it’s the first time.

1. Make sure the texture of your lips is perfect.

We often don’t think about texture but the guy does! He’s anticipating very soft lips, so if he kisses your lips and they’re cracked, rough or dry, he may be disappointed. Easy fix? Using a good lip balm. Keep your lips soft and smooth throughout the way. Remember also that wearing too much lipstick may be a mistake since it leaves little red kisses all over your man’s face. That’s kind of a gamble…some men don’t like that, others do. Aim to be soft, not ultra-red.

2. Make sure your breath is fresh and yummy…not like Taco Tuesday.

I know that it’s almost unromantic to suggest that fresh breath is a necessity and that romance is spontaneous. But believe me…if you want the kiss to be perfect and to be passionate, then it can’t be too distracting because of a strong and pungent taste. Carry around mints or breath-spray in anticipation of a possible kiss. Don’t just brush your teeth hours in advance, make sure you’re up-to-the-minute prepare.

He won’t really think about your minty-fresh breath…he’ll be thinking about the quality of a kiss! But if you just ate at Long John Silver’s, well, obviously he’ll be distracted.

In addition to mints, keeping well hydrated with water is another way to naturally get rid of that after-dinner taste.

3. Be a confident “follower” when you kiss.

The most important part of creating the passionate kiss is to let the man lead. Why? It’s more like a dance than it is a commentary on male and female roles. Only one person can lead and the other person follows. Even if the guy is shy, you should let him make the first move.
When a man kisses you first, he reemphasizes in his mind that he’s interested in you and that this kiss is what he wants. If you approach him too soon, you might challenge his ego.

However, just because you’re letting him lead doesn’t mean that he isn’t expecting something back. When a man kisses you he wants to see feminine confidence. As in, this is something you’ve been dying to do! This is something you want. This something you already know how to do, and you’ve been anticipating kissing him for a long time.

This does require confidence. No hesitation, or giggling or even a blank stare. Be “in the moment” and take pleasure in this intimate experience. Look him in the eye and express to him how you feel without words.

4. Slow it down and LINGER, no rushing.

Your intent is not to be fast and rough, or thirsty and psychosexual! Rather, keep things slow and romantic. Sometimes if you’re nervous your instinct might be to rush things forward but that’s not what a first romantic kiss feels like. No tongues, no grabbing him with your hands, and no aggressive face bobbing or anything like that.

Press your lips to his as he approaches you and kiss him – just once at first. Don’t let it go too soon. Linger there a few seconds and close your eyes. Next, you can slowly stop the kiss and return your face backward but NOT so far that you’re telling your partner to stop.

Stay close to him, almost touching but not quite, giving him the option to kiss you again. Lingering there lets him feel the sexual tension and may motivate him to go in for another one.

5. Open your lips (slightly) as you tilt your head (slightly).

The next stage to develop passion is to vary the position of your lips and face. Open your slips slightly at first then vary the openness as your partner does the same. Experiment with more or less open lips throughout the kiss. Tilt your head in the opposite direction he is tilting for a better angle. Remembering to keep your lips open will minimize over-drooling, which is another common complaint with men. Kisses should be only slightly wet. Leave just a small peck of moisture, enough so that it will dry up within a few minutes.

6. Use your tongue to explore, not to attack!

Finally, when it comes time to use the tongue or French Kiss, be careful not to invade your partner’s mouth too soon. Instead, be slow to bring the tongue out. Then, when you do, slowly linger and explore your partner’s mouth with your tongue. Let his tongue meet yours and enjoy the sensation of your tongues meeting. This isn’t a contest and there’s no need to tongue-wrestle! Once again, keep things slow and lingering, since this is what a man will associate as a beautiful romantic moment.

In another blog, we’ll discuss how to French Kiss like a pro, but for now take home this simple lesson: very few things great in life come by accident. If you want a perfect first kiss you do have to do a little work for it.

Fortunately, it’s always worth the wait because a good first kiss will be celebrated for years on end with a guy who really likes you.

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

Click here to watch the video now <<

My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…

I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…

When you click the link this link right here <<

I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…

And how to attract the man you want…

Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…

No matter how painful things have been in your past…

You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…

Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…

If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…

If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…

And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…

Click this link to watch my video right now <<

3 Naughty Phrases that Drive Men Wild

How to Make Out with a Guy and Blow His Mind

Making out and necking are perhaps the least appreciated parts of sex. Everyone enjoys the first kiss. The foreplay is intense and the sex is awesome…

But what about the make out session? It’s unfortunately the most rushed part of any encounter. But like the kiss, and the French kiss, the slower the pacing of a make out session with your date, the more pleasurable and memorable it will be for him.

Let’s consider nine tips on how to make that moment AFTER a good kiss just as exciting as what follows.

1. Keep things natural and real.

Don’t end the make out session because you’re nervous or want to escape the scene. It’s okay to blush, fidget or swoon a little bit because you’re experiencing sexual tension. Most men are not turned off by this. They’re flattered! Now this gives him the opportunity to be stronger and more confident. He will want to relax you, calm you and take things slow. Part of keeping things natural means observing his movements and then complementing them. Lean in to kiss him when he goes to kiss you. If he slows down, slow down with him and smile at him, letting him know you’re ready.

2. Touch him generously during a make out session.

By now you’ve experimented with platonic touching and now it’s time to fire it up a notch. Men love to be touched while kissing and necking. Petting refers to cuddling, caressing and embracing in a sexual way. Wrap your arms around him while kissing. Stroke his chest or his arm. You could even touch his knee area or thigh, letting him know just how much you crave his body. Which brings us to #3…

3. Tease him. Relentlessly.

The real “art” of seduction and the key to a perfect make out session is to tease him more than anything. Don’t rush into foreplay, which is honest-to-goodness sex. You’re not ready to grab his penis or shove your chest in his face. Right now he wants to be teased. Even if that’s not what he asks for, believe me, that’s what he wants! So think more about long kisses and then a slow gradual release. Think about kissing and licking his neck, waiting for him to peak and then stopping. Look him in the eye as you kiss him again, starting over and then stopping again, right as you give him a taste of what’s to come in foreplay.

This is a brilliant strategy because it makes him desire foreplay. It makes him want to progress to a new step, or a new “boundary”, rather than just lunging into it. (And if you head into foreplay or sex too fast, he may even get cold feet)

4. Take time out to compliment him.

Just as effective as the tease is the intense, breathless compliment. Tell him what you’re most attracted to, such as the way he kisses, or his handsome face, or deep soulful eyes. If you can say it in a natural, “breathless” tone of voice it’ll be even better and more exciting for him.

As the making out continues, add a little sighing and moaning into the mix to send him into maximum overdrive. Use his name in the heat of the moment if you really want to see him excited!

5. Put the necking back into necking!

Necking is too often seen as a prelude to breast foreplay. Men may not realize the potential of the neck, but now you do! You can drive a man crazy by focusing more loving attention on his neck. Not only speaking of his Adam’s apple, and his nape, but even that area in between his ear and his shoulder. This tendon is very sensitive and will really make him come alive in a make out session if you give him some gentle nibbles and kisses.

6. Encourage plenty of hair pulling!

Slightly tight hair pulling activates your man’s nerve endings underneath the skin, leading to a more intense feeling. Don’t over use this technique but do use it, right as your passionate kisses reach a peak of anticipation. He might try to pull your hair and when he does, take him close and kiss him with all your gusto.

7. Flaunt the body you know he wants, even if it’s just a sneak peak.

Don’t assume you’re ready for full blown sex yet (and if there’s a doubt, don’t do it!). But just because this is a make out session only doesn’t mean teasing is out of the equation. Treat him to a flash of skin since you know that’s what he’s fantasizing about. Don’t hide your cleavage if he’s getting hot and heavy with kisses. Let him stare at your breasts or your legs. Just because you’re delaying actual sex and foreplay until a later date doesn’t mean you can leave him with a sexy image in his mind’s eye.

If you’re really feeling feisty you might unbutton a couple of buttons so that your bra shows, or lift your skirt just to give him a hint of your panties. This is, after all, a make out session and not a respectable formal “date”!

But as always, stop him from going all the way to foreplay—even if he begs! The tease is one way to keep him interested for the long-term.

8. Allow him a mini-grope.

When it comes to light petting and foreplay, many women feel that a little grope is reasonable, since that’s what he’s thinking about and that’s what he wants the most. By depriving him completely, you’re sending him the message of “No, you don’t approve!”. But by letting him touch your breasts or butt for just a few seconds, you’re sending him the message, “I like this too…but now isn’t the right time.”

In short, if he wants all of you “unlimited” then he has to pursue you harder and more persistently. He’s working harder for your intimacy and trust and that’s what he wants.

9. Finally, tantalize him with an erotic finger suck.

The finger-suck is a pre-foreplay move that’s very underrated. Most guys will focus on the obvious blow-job connotations and rightly so. But did you know that if you tongue the webbed area at the base of his fingers, and lick your way up, you’ll actually stimulate a very sensitive erogenous zone?

As you can see, a great make out session is not about rushing into something, but delaying giving him what he wants. He loves the tease and is willing to work for what he desires the most.

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

Click here to watch the video now <<

My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…

I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…

When you click the link this link right here <<

I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…

And how to attract the man you want…

Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…

No matter how painful things have been in your past…

You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…

Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…

If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…

If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…

And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…

Click this link to watch my video right now <<

6 Signs that He’s Falling in Love with You

How to Kiss Someone and Make Them Beg for More

One of the most intimidating feelings in the world has got to be the “Oh no…we’re kissing! Now what?”

This is a moment a lot of us can relate to. You’ve had your eye on someone for a while. A moment finally happens (maybe you even try some of our “Get him to kiss you” strategies. Now that you are kissing, you’re feeling a little shy or hesitant. What does he like? What if you do it wrong? What if he has all these great expectations of you and you disappoint him?

Sadly, some guys do measure a relationship’s full potential based on one kiss. There is good news though—when it comes to kissing, most guys like the same thing! Whether they’re shy guys, experienced and extroverted guys, or even billionaire playboy types, all men respond well to the “perfect kiss”. So let’s discuss what a perfect kiss feels like and then share eight tips on how to make them beg for another and another!

1. Make sure your mouth, lips and nose are prepared!

While many dismiss this first step, it’s very much a concern if you’re kissing someone for the first time. Men are expecting fresh breath and soft lips. You can prepare in advance by brushing, keeping hydrated and sucking on a mint prior to the kiss. Lip balm can keep your lips from being too dry or cracking. Lastly, learn to breathe through your nose for longer sessions of kissing without having to break it up for air!

2. Slow it down and learn to linger.

Too many people rush through the kiss, either because they think they want to fast-forward to sex, or because maybe deep down they’re nervous about it. But kissing is fun! Don’t ever think that your partner will get bored if you slow things down. Slowing your kiss down allows you to experiment with different lip combinations and rhythms. For instance, kissing his upper lip or lower lip. You can even use your teeth to gently nibble on his lip when things get intense.

3. Use your hands.

Kissing is a lip-thing right? Actually, the strongest emotions we feel during a kiss come from other parts of the body that you use while kissing. One of the best ways to stimulate your partner’s lust is to use your hands. All you have to do is wrap your arms around his waist, or his neck or shoulders. You can even put your hands on his face or head if you really want to make the kiss intense. Some girls really like the sensation of running their fingers through a man’s hair. You can pull him closer to you or push him farther away (right before bringing him back for more!) Some adventurous women even use their fingernails.

It’s safe to say that if you want to make the kiss special, use your imagination and make the kiss more than just a “lip-service” activity.

4. Think outside the lips too.

Sure, it’s fun to experiment with a variety of lip kisses. But as the kiss grows more intense, you have every reason to experiment with face kisses and neck kisses. You can use your lips, teeth or your tongue to explore all the contours of his face. Don’t forget his chin, his cheeks, his neck and even his ears! One of the sexiest sensations a man has is a woman nibbling his earlobe and whispering sweet nothings to him.

5. Master the French kiss by applying what you learned about lip kisses to your tongue.

French kisses are great but sometimes we over-use them, thinking that more (and faster) tongue is better. On the contrary, French kisses work better when you very slowly introduce the tongue and when you start with just the tip. Explore his tongue and let him explore yours. Gently suck on his tongue and let him do the same. As time passes, massage his tongue and start a rhythm of movement. Then, switch that rhythm up for a more intense sensation.

6. Try to aim for this special G-spot of the mouth!

Maybe G-spot is over-selling it, but that’s what a lot of people call this very small area inside the mouth that has extra nerve endings, and when licked, gets your guy excited and begging for more. This area is the roof of his mouth, which you can reach by flicking your tongue. This is yet another example of using your tongue in a variety of ways rather than just wrestling with the other tongue.

7. Hum while you kiss.

It may not occur to you to make noise during an intense kiss but that’s the exact stimulation your guy needs to keep things going. While there’s nothing wrong with silence during an intense kiss, it feels much sexier to him and you when you hum. Humming not only shows you’re excited but it also causes your mouth to vibrate, which for many is yet another pleasurable sensation. You can also vary the sensation by changing the power, pitch and pace of your gumming. Higher pitches have faster vibrations whereas lower pitches have slower ones.

8. Remember the after-kiss care.

Good kissing is an intense experience so make sure you give him the right attitude afterward to boost his confidence. End the kiss slowly then look him in the eyes. Smile and keep your arms around him and your body is close proximity to his. While it might feel natural to giggle, he will be even more mesmerized if you can stay in that “sexual” state, letting him know you want more and you’re entirely comfortable with him in an intimate setting.

The secret to kissing intensely and make him want more is to simultaneously let him take the lead, (since men love to play the dashing hero) while being a very supportive follower and complementing his own kissing techniques. It’s easy to learn, very fun to practice, and very much an in-the-moment sort of thing. Let him feel your intense emotions in every kiss!

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

Click here to watch the video now <<

My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…

I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…

When you click the link this link right here <<

I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…

And how to attract the man you want…

Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…

No matter how painful things have been in your past…

You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…

Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…

If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…

If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…

And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…

Click this link to watch my video right now <<