When you kiss someone for the first time, you like to assume the other person is enjoying it as much as you are. If you’re attracted to him, and he’s attracted to you, the first kiss should be the culmination of your romance!

Or at least that’s what romantic movies have always taught us. But in reality, sometimes kisses go wrong and then it’s up to us to find how to improve kissing technique.

But before you “correct it”, you have to know how your partner feels about the kiss. Is there something specific that you do that he doesn’t like? Or would he prefer a different approach to kissing? What if he thinks the kiss is perfect and he wants you to keep doing the same thing?

No need to overanalyze it. Let’s just consider the most common signs that show your soon-to-be-boyfriend enjoys the kiss. Most guys can’t fake enthusiasm or pleasure. If you notice any of these positive signs, that means he likes kissing you and it’s time to give him more of what he wants.

1. He slows things down.

The first sign of a good kiss is the man’s willingness…no, more like, his inability to rush through the kiss. He is so focused on the kiss, he slows things down. He takes his time. Hours seem to pass because that’s how much he’s enjoying it. He doesn’t need sex right now. Kissing you is all that matters for now, at this moment. He’s in no rush because he knows the first kiss with you is a once-in-a-lifetime moment to cherish.

2. He can’t keep his hands off of you.

Not only do his hands roam during the kiss, but you’ll notice he’s also very touchy-feely before and after the kiss happens. Touching is the most obvious sign that he’s attracted to you and really into the kiss. All touching counts too, whether it’s touching your elbow or arm, hands, face, or clothing.

3. Eye contact is electrifying!

Eye contact grows more intense as the passion increases. What starts as cautious, back and forth glancing soon becomes addicting, powerful and an almost hypnotic gaze. You can’t look away even if you feel nervous, because you’re both feeling that energy, that yearning for intimacy, that begs for more.

4. Flirting is constant – almost effortless.

Before and after the kiss, flirting becomes almost effortless and reckless to a fault. You’re so into each other you lose your inhibitions. You tease each other, challenge each other, poke buttons sometimes, and test each other. Whereas in early flirting, you have to be careful and try to be witty…

When you’re both turned on, flirting comes more natural to you. You feel it, you come up with zingers and quotes faster. You’re both living in the moment. Which brings us to the next point…

5. He is very vocal.

Before and after the kiss, guys usually start chattering away. He might be nervous at first, but after the first kiss, (and if he’s still turned on) he will make small talk with you. He might also giggle, whisper, and compliment you on your kissing technique.

In fact, after the first kiss, he usually stops joking and starts becoming more suave, romantic, and debonair. His voice may lower in pitch but he enjoys talking to you in this more intimate way and his loquacious nature just makes the follow-up kiss even better.

6. He mirrors your posture and energy.

If he is mirroring your energy level and the way you hold yourself, he is “in sync” with you. That’s a good sign, because the first sign of sexual incompatibility is mismatched energy. He doesn’t seem to follow your train of thought. One of you has much less energy and enthusiasm. One or both of you just don’t seem to have a strong attraction that you should.

But when you are a good match and you have that magical first kiss, you become even more in sync. He starts to breathe at your pace, moves at your speed, matches your body language, and even speak in a similar voice. This mirroring effect helps you to bond closer together.

7. He starts paying attention to your perfume.

He talks about your perfume, your scent, and can’t help but take a subtle whiff when you’re close together. Now that’s he mentally and physically stimulated, his senses are heightened and he notices more things about you. This is a vivid memory he will remember for the ages…and he’s very likely to let you know, by telling you what he feels.

8. He seems really turned on.

Er, following the same thought, it’s not uncommon for a woman to feel or see how turned on her partner is after a good kiss. You might notice his “bulge” down below, or perhaps just see the look on his face. His pupils might dilate, or he may tilt his head and give you a more sweet or sexy look.

9. He can’t wait until your next date.

Finally, don’t underestimate the obvious. If he wants to follow up on this kiss and go out again, or maybe even kiss again, the first kiss was a success! If you’ve already told him you have to go, then he might be excited to arrange another date. Presumably, another date and an opportunity to kiss to your heart’s content!

In the end, it’s all about his interest level following the kiss. Obviously, you can tell if he’s disappointed, intimidated, or offended. He will back away and want to avoid any further intimacy. But if he’s quiet, calm, and yet still gazing at you, it’s almost always a good sign.

He may be recovering from the intensity of the kiss, maybe even surprised at how good it was. If he’s eager to see you again, or start kissing again when the time is right, that’s a good sign.

The goal is to keep piquing his interest so that he comes back for more!

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

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