You know the look. When you kiss for the first time and it feels magical. Gradually, you let go of the embrace and hold each other close. And he gazes at you….thinking something.
But what is he thinking? Is he smiling because he enjoyed it? Or is he fake smiling? Is he giving you a pity smile or a patronizing, “Aww, that was cute” kind of smile?” Or is it an even more off-the-wall thought?
How do you know what a man is thinking, especially after something so intimate? Usually, a man says “That was great!” after a wonderful kiss. So how do you know what he’s really thinking if he doesn’t immediately say something?
Relax. You can actually figure out if he enjoyed himself just by studying his gestures, body language, and facial expressions right after the first kiss. Let’s consider a few positive signs that he enjoyed the kiss and is ready for even more connection.
1. He is speechless!
The best sign of a guy enjoying the kiss is when he’s smiling and yet looks completely surprised or speechless. He’s not embarrassed, he’s not disappointed. But he’s just sort of shocked. He’s probably not shocked that you two kissed. Just amazed at how good it was. He doesn’t want to disappoint you with the followup and he’s not an experienced player. That means he’s just wowed by the moment and that’s a great sign.
2. He seemed a little nervous before the kiss and calmer now.
If the guy seemed nervous before and is calmer now after the kiss, that means he was very genuine about wanting to get it right. It doesn’t always means he’s a newbie to kissing. It just means this one was special and he wanted to make sure you remembered it.
3. Eye contact is even more intense afterward.
Easy way to tell if he didn’t like it? Eyes are distracted. He looks away. He looks regretful, maybe darts his eyes around like he’s ashamed of what happened. But on the opposite end, we have Intense Eye Contact! He’s not only looking at you, he’s locked into position, feeling the magnetism you’ve created. That’s a great sign, because you know he wants more and wants to try it again.
4. He stays still, perhaps holding you a little tighter than before.
If he keeps his hands on you and grips your waist a little tighter, that means he’s very interested in keeping the feeling going. He wants more, but at the same time, he doesn’t want to demand anything. It’s up to you…but you can tell by his energy and smile, he’s up for more if you are.
5. He seems a little heated, in temperature or visible sweat.
If his body increases in temperature, it’s probably not the heating system in the house! He gets flushed, temperature rises, things are getting heated, it’s a good sign.
6. He tells you so!
Guys aren’t always so mysterious. Sometimes he will just come out and say that was great! He might resist being too emotional, because he doesn’t want to scare you away. But if he seems exuberant, relieved, and thrilled that the kiss went so well, that’s a good sign that he’s pleased and hopes you feel the same way.
7. He laughs nervously.
A man laughing nervously is a good thing. A harsh and guttural laugh, well, not such a good thing. But usually guys will mirror your shy energy and give you a little giggle to match your own.
True, a confident guy is also a relief. After he kisses you he might lower his voice, look into your eyes and assure you it was a very good kiss. But that’s almost too smooth. The good news is if the guy seems a little nervous or laughing, he is just nuts about you.
8. He’s very flexible and can follow your style of kissing.
If and when you decide to kiss again, you will notice that he is flexible to the way you approach the second kiss. If you’re hot and passionate he follows that note. If you’re shy and timid, he doesn’t push too hard. He wants you to enjoy the kiss and so he takes things slowly, making sure this is what you want, and this is the way you imagined it.
9. He’s always excited to go another round…or save it for another day.
You know you’ve met someone special when he’s completely available to keep kissing for a while (even without needing sex yet) OR he’s also cool with calling it a night. This is actually a test you can use to determine if the guy really likes you and is willing to wait, or if he’s so desperate for sex he’s not even thinking about how you feel about him.
A good man who respects you AND wants you, is strong enough to call it a night, but always eager to please when you decide it’s time.
10. You get the follow up right away!
Finally, if the guy is eager to talk to you or text you the next day (probably the morning) you know he really enjoyed himself, and hopes you felt the same.
Conclusion
Hindsight is 20/20 and usually, guys regret accidental kisses or one night stands if the relationship itself is bad idea. For example, someone taken, a mismatch in age or lifestyle, if their partner is inappropriate as serious date material.
But the good news is that you can measure how he felt about the kiss by his actions in the now. Is he still reaching out to you in the days following? Is he even warmer and friendlier after the kiss?
If he’s feeling awkward and quiet (which sometimes happens), is he still glowing when he looks at you – as if you’re the only thing he’s focused on and he’s slowly falling in love? Does he still find excuses to make contact? If he wants to give you loving attention, your kiss has sealed the deal!
The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life
There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…
It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…
But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…
It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…
And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…
Have you figured out what it is yet?
Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…
And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…
Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…
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