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I’ve often heard that in dating, people have to work against their instincts. In other words, all of our instincts are off-base and are bound to have the reverse effect than intended. I think this might be true, at least in some cases. Usually, this is true in cases of subconscious resistance. When a person […]

Isn’t it an awful feeling when he doesn’t text back? Or even worse, when he starts to text back and maybe you see those little dot dot dots…but he never seems to finish his thought! Then he loses interest or just never sends the message. Well, I guess that’s more of a Facebook thing, but

There seems to be a lot of rules about texting times. We hear a lot of “Never do this” and “Always do this within a few days or hours.” Makes you wonder who decided on all these rules? Was there some event that happened three hundred years ago, regarding male suitors sending too many handwritten

Texting a new hottie is exciting! The first few moments, when you realize that your attraction is mutual and you have a new buddy to share your thoughts with is an amazing feeling. Those first few exchanges are so thrilling and you seem very compatible. But over time, the conversation seems to lag. He seems

When a guy likes you, he goes full speed ahead. He might text you multiple times a day or look for excuses to call you. And that’s a great feeling when it happens. Guess what? You start to feel good. You start to get comfortable with him. You assume just saying whatever comes to mind

One of the best lessons you will ever learn for texting a guy is this: your goal is to graduate from texting into a real relationship! That’s right, one that involves phone calls, in-person dates, and someday, when the time is right, in-person sex and commitment! Or, if you’re in a long-distance relationship, maybe the

One of the most confusing twists that might happen in a casual flirting situation is that after a lot of good conversation, he just suddenly drops out. Not like disappearing or ghosting entirely. More like he always seems tired or bored, or just not that into you. Maybe his replies are short. His comments are

Are you trying to draw your crush out in a text conversation? Do you notice he’s kind of distant lately? Maybe he’s giving one-word replies. Or he’s just being polite and leaving the same comments. Nothing seems to bring this guy to life! In that case, it’s time to try something different. One problem I’ve

If a handsome and witty guy seems too good to be true, is he really too good to be true? It doesn’t necessarily mean he’s lying or cheating or anything weird is going on. But…there is still a good possibility that you’re his “backup” girl rather than the girl he really wants. In that case,