I think some of the foremost questions on the minds of women who love Sagittarius men is: “How can I get him to chase me?” or “How to get him to chase you again?
Good question because Sagittarius is very friendly, attractive, and intelligent. And yet, he is a positive and strong person in such a way that doesn’t alienate people. He’s easy to get to know…
And yet at times, hard to attract, difficult to connect with, and definitely hard to marry! How can you get a Sagittarius man to chase you? The answer lies in analyzing his character and his nature.
Let’s consider first who he is and what he responds to and then we’ll discuss how to make a guy chase you using male psychology along with a few other specific strategies.
Who is Sagittarius?
Sagittarius is the sign born between November 22 and December 21. He is by nature independent and strong-willed and to an extent, someone who goes his own way in life. He oftentimes travels away from the pack and this makes him a good leader, though not always a social animal. Above all, he goes after what he wants and doesn’t care much about what other people think.
Because of these qualities, Sagittarius tends to be a traveler, explorer, and learner. They are known to be generous, kind and spirited in everything they do. Creative and enthusiastic, he will usually excel in his career and sometimes end up a CEO because enthusiasm and dedication are indeed marvelous qualities.
Again, a great guy to get to know, but actually connecting with him? That’s where the challenge lies. Mister Sagittarius can be obnoxious to some women because he is very blunt at times, tends to be self-absorbed, and can oftentimes lack tact, especially when communicating what he wants. It’s not necessarily that he doesn’t care, it’s just that he is so driven in other matters (like work, like adventuring) that he can come across as careless. Mister Sagittarius also has the tendency to walk away from relationships that no longer suit him so be you definitely have to be tough, confident and determined if you want to build a relationship with such a free spirit.
How to Get a Free Spirit to Chase You
- Mirror his own good qualities – honesty, adventure, and independence.
For starters, Sagittarius will be most attracted to women who think like him. He admires honesty, a sense of adventure and an independent nature. Project those qualities. Women who are clingy, homebodies and too readily available won’t hold his interest.
Don’t fake these qualities – live them! Get out more, do things on your own, go places – endear yourself to him and his lifestyle. He will sense your independent streak and love of adventure. When it comes to honesty, there’s no need to hide the truth or make things up, not to him.
- Appeal to his love of mystery.
Always be honest, even blunt, since he admires that. But when it comes to sharing “everything”, try to keep things moving slow. Don’t tell him too much too soon. Don’t sleep with him too soon. Don’t commit to him too soon since that eliminates the challenge and the joy of discovery.
Give him a little bit of information at a time. In fact, it’s better to find things in common and enjoy your shared interest (like hiking or traveling somewhere) and then discuss details about yourself later on, after he’s intrigued and really wants to know. Give him SOME of what he wants but cultivate an air of mystery. Don’t volunteer information he hasn’t asked for and don’t give him predictable answers. Surprise him.
- Don’t be too “safe” – challenge him.
Sagittarius is not easily intimidated so don’t worry about scaring him away by showing your true self to him as your friendship progresses. Don’t be “safe”, instead appeal to his sense of learning and adventure. Share your opinions and your intelligence. Become his “adventure” in romance by giving him what he wants and yet challenging him with new perspectives.
- Keep busy – it makes you more interesting to him.
Sagittarius IS very busy so staying just as busy in your own life will only emphasize to him that he has to work to keep in touch with you. It’s important that you don’t come across as “too interested” or too available in the beginning since HE wants to be the one to chase you. Even if you chased him first, you can still get him to chase you after you chased him by following these rules. He wants your mystery and loves the adventure of winning you.
You want to give the impression that you’re interested in him WHEN he comes around and actually puts forth the effort to get your attention. He will be charmed when he notices that you are not very easy to get hold of – proving to him that you’re just as big an adventurer as he is.
- Keep things positive and spirited!
Instead of focusing your efforts on “keeping him”, spend more time projecting positive energy when you’re around him. Give him good associations and let him come to know you as a calm and stable presence in his life. He wants someone to keep up with him, if and when he’s ready to settle down and try a close relationship. Be active like him, be kind and flirty, grateful for when you do get the chance to hang out – and with no obligations or strings attached Keep your adventurous spirit.
Remember that Sagittarius does get a lot of offers and most women do the opposite of what we just shared. They throw themselves at him, try to get him to commit, and underestimate his free spirit.
Sagittarius admires stability so trying to win him over with negative emotions or manipulation will never work. In fact, he can sometimes be aloof when it comes to ending relationships sensitively. Don’t get mixed up with a guy who is honest to a fault if you can’t deal with his truth. Instead, learn to be stronger, tougher, and more independent on your own. Not only does it attract him more, but it also makes you happier in the long run. Think like him and you will find the key to his heart.
The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life
There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…
It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…
But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…
It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…
And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…
Have you figured out what it is yet?
Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…
And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…
Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…
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