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The more you learn about dating and the male mind, as a woman, the more you realize that if you want to get together with the guy you really want, you DO have to be more assertive. You have to be strategic. And most of all, you must have the self-confidence to go after what […]

Here’s another misconception I hear a lot: “He lost interest in me, and once a guy loses interest, there’s no sense in trying anymore.” Whoever said that I wonder? Was that a rule in some book somewhere? Or was that just some person’s opinion, based on a couple of bad relationships – which almost everyone

One of the biggest misconceptions about men out there that I still hear is that “men always chase.” You know, men are just animals and can’t wait to chase women, date women, and try their hardest just to get a kiss. Well, wait a minute. Is that a myth? Don’t we all know some guy

It feels terrible when you realize that your boyfriend (or even a husband) is taking advantage of you, using you, or taking you for granted in some other way. It’s especially crushing to learn this because we tend to make excuses for the person we love. We don’t want to believe the worst about them.

Don’t you just hate it when your crush says, “I never knew you felt that way!” We hate those words because in the back of our mind we’re always thinking, “Yes, you did!” We were so sure. Or at least, we hoped. But sometimes it’s good practice to take a step back, use hindsight, and

I’m sure we’ve all heard by now that men are complicated, or sneaky, or just impossible to figure out. A lot of people believe this, and some of these complaints come from males and females, believe it or not. But I’ve never subscribed to that philosophy. I think some people (of all genders) are “complicated”

Sometimes it seems like men speak a different language. You know, their native language, and then another secret guy language, where they say one thing, but actually mean something else. And no, I don’t mean lying! I’m sure there are some guys out there with lying eyes, but this is something else. This is more

What are the signs that a man values you? How do you know if a man is really into you? You know, actually in love with you and not just stringing you along for a little bit of excitement and romance? Easy answer: he doesn’t just like you. He doesn’t just say he loves you.

Guys can be confusing, no doubt. And just when you think he’s not into you, you find out later (usually much too late!) that he was kind of into you. That sucks! Wouldn’t it be much better if you could know when a guy is interested in you and when he’s just being nice? Well,