Who came up with the whole idea of begging to get your ex back, anyway? It seems like a strange thing to do, at least from a scientific point of view. In the animal kingdom for example, begging is not really common at all. Usually the male courts the attention of the female. They mate, […]

By now you probably understand that begging, pleading and making dramatic gestures does NOT impress your ex. It seems as if the harder you try to please him, the more you push him away. Why does this happen? What is it about men that resents kindness and love? Let’s consider this issue one point at

What are some mistakes women make trying to get their ex back? It could be argued that the single worst piece of advice ever given was, “Just follow your heart!” I know, that sounds very unromantic. But let’s face it, as many happy ending love stories we’ve heard about that started with the phrase “Follow

Words are powerful. They can be used to seduce, to persuade, to injure and to inspire. If you really want to “persuade” someone to see your point of view then what you’re actually doing is making him feel an emotion. That’s what makes people take action, and in the case of breakups and romance, THAT’S

All is fair in love and war…or so the poets say. But then again, poets are not always known for their ethical behavior! This is a question I get asked quite a bit. Is it fair to steal your ex from his new girlfriend? And…exactly how does a girl do that, anyway? You know, just

How to make your ex obsess over you? Is it possible? Have you ever heard of method acting? It’s an interesting experiment, apart from being a career choice. When we “method act” we take on the perspective of another person, in order to gain new insight into what we feel about other people. Whether you

We often talk about how to win your ex’s attention back, how to text and tease him, and how to make him obsess over you. Maybe it feels like a victory when he actually feels attracted to you again and wants to take you to bed. Sure, it feels wonderful to have him interested in

I remember having a conversation with an old friend of mine right after she broke up with her boyfriend. It was one of the saddest statements I’ve ever heard. And she said it right after I tried to convince her to give him time alone and let him have his privacy. She said: “But if