Matthew Coast

The idea might seem strange to you – that a man could destroy a relationship with just one sentence. You might think “Shouldn’t I be bigger than that?” After all, you want to encourage a man to share his honest thoughts and feelings, right? So what if he expresses a viewpoint that’s challenging or different […]

When a man falls out of love, it usually doesn’t come as a surprise. Maybe you’ve sensed it for a while. You knew something was wrong. He has been acting differently around you and seems emotionally distant. Sometimes all that’s needed to confirm your feelings is the admission – to get him to say the

We use the expression “soulmate” a lot today. It’s a very romantic notion, the idea of having a soulmate. Colloquially speaking, a soulmate is someone who understands you, maybe even someone that you’re destined to be with because they match you so well. But what is a soulmate, at least by the classic definition? According

Whoever came up with the saying, “This feels too good to be true” probably dated one too many players! What does that word mean, anyway? A player? We’ve all heard it and we sort of get what it means, but it’s still kind of hard to define. Especially someone innocent, someone who’s inexperienced. Try to

One of the most often heard rules in dating is that “men chase women”. More specifically, we hear this: if a man truly wants you, he will pursue you. But is it true? One of the mantras we hear very often is “If he doesn’t love you enough, then dump him. There is someone else

We’ve all been there. We get tired of all the dating games, the clubs, and the Tinder apps. We just want to fall in love and find a committed relationship. You find someone you like and the relationship progresses. Great! Things start to look up… But then wham! You get the speech, the one where

If you’ve ever thought to yourself, “Why is he so upset? Did I say the wrong thing?” then rest assured, it’s NOT just paranoia. It means you take your relationship seriously. You don’t want to lose him. You know he’s a great guy and maybe he’s a little sensitive sometimes. If you notice then that

Ever heard that song “Let Her Go” by Passenger? It’s popular on YouTube and is all about heartbreak and letting someone go – only to realize it was a mistake later on. That happens a lot in relationships and with both men and women. Men get so wrapped up in old heartache they oftentimes take

I’ve both talked to people that say this and read articles that suggest this somewhat radical idea. Namely, that if two people are bound to be together they will eventually find their way back – even if they have to break up and date other people for a while. It’s a wonderfully idealistic viewpoint. It’s

There’s something very enticing about a man you can’t have, isn’t there? Let’s not be dishonest about it. While we all know what’s right or wrong, sometimes the idea of something “unavailable” seems exciting. Maybe it’s the fantasy that you want. Or the element of taboo, something that’s dangerous…but it’s a danger that also ignites