Don’t you hate it when a texting relationship ends? Maybe there was a guy you liked and you flirted via text for a while, but eventually things cooled off.
Or maybe you have an ex that occasionally sends you messages, but miss the closeness that you used to have.
Hey, there’s a solution for that. Rather than lament about the way things used to be, try reigniting his interest in you! If you write texts that are fun, humorous, interesting and interactive, he will look forward to more of your texts.
The challenge is in coming up with amazing texts, right? Not really. You don’t have to be a “meme lord” just to keep his attention. Texting should be about good conversation, even if it’s brief. If you want him to “miss you”, your main motivation is to be a friend, not an entertainer.
Here are some sample texts you can use to grab his attention, make him feel something, and get him to miss you. Keep sending him good messages, spaced a few days apart, and then measure his response to see if you should keep it up, decrease the number of messages, or increase them.
- I was just visiting that museum downtown we used to enjoy. Reminded me of my love of art!
- You have always been a chivalrous knight. Keep up the good habits.
- Good luck with your big assignment tomorrow. All your friends are rooting for you!
- Have fun going out this weekend. You deserve a good time!
- Go (His favorite Super Bowl Team)
- I still smile when I think of you. It’s a testament to your good character and great sense of humor!
- Your eyes continue to haunt me. So seductive and mysterious. You’ve always had a very handsome face.
- You are unique because of your intelligence and great conversation. Always perfectly balanced. Don’t ever stop growing in knowledge – it’s one of your best features.
- We should have more “we shouldn’t be doing this” moments in our lives.
- Just got out of the shower and was thinking about what you said. Not that I was thinking of you IN the shower, lol.
- You have a good moral character as well as a confident, sexy persona. That’s what women find attractive.
- I don’t think people realize how kind you are. How you really try to help people, even when others are not looking. That’s what I always thought was so cool about you.
- Hey! Hope you had fun today. Going out with a friend tonight. Talk to you later.
- You got to be careful with that smile. You make girls horny. Er, so I’ve heard from others!
- Sorry if you’re having a lousy day. But even when life sucks, you still bring so much sunshine and happiness to others. Remember that.
- You’ve been appearing in a couple of dreams lately. But I think it’s like an evil version of you!
- I’m not actually flirting with you…I’m just really nice and chatty with all hot guys, lol.
- Back when we were together, I liked you for the cool stuff you did. But I fell in love with you for all the little stuff I bet you didn’t even notice.
- I’ve been going hiking on the weekends. It’s so invigorating. If you ever want to come along, I’ll show you why it’s awesome.
- Is there a real life you and the fantasy you? I wonder sometimes which is which.
- Did you know caffeine is an aphrodisiac? Now I know why you guys are always inviting us for coffee!
- All my girlfriends talk about is how great of a guy you are. I’m like, girl then YOU go out with him!
- What would you think if I decided to get a girlfriend?
- Work is stressful. Ugh, I need a wind-down routine. Can you think of any ways to de-stress?
- I told one of my friends a weird fantasy fetish thing I have and they freaked out. Lol I wonder, is it weird or is it just them?
- I saw something the other day and I thought of you. I bought it too, because it was cheap hahaha. I’ll have to show you next time we bump into each other.
- I wish more guys “got me” like you do. We have a similar personality and a dark sense of humor. It makes me appreciate what a cool guy you are and always easy to talk to.
- I read a quiz question the other day and I couldn’t answer it. Why don’t you tell me. If you could have three wishes what would they be?
- What’s the one thing on your sexual bucket list no one else knows?
- Enough with your weird signals! Just make laugh. Send me more memes, baby.r
- You know as much time you’ve put into liking my instagram pictures, I think we could arrange a phone call once in a while. (wink)
- What’s the most interesting thing you’ve ever eaten? I had a new experience myself.
- Ooh! Every time you send a text I get a little tingle. And sometimes I have to tinkle!
- What does it mean when a guy asks you to come see his terrarium? Is that a signal or a red flag?
- I don’t watch scary movies anymore. Part of the fun was actually cuddling up to you during the scary parts. (Wink)
Feel free to use these sample texts or adapt them to your own circumstances. Keep your interactions simple and sincere. Share what makes you laugh. Ask questions. Take an interest in his life. As always, don’t manipulate him into feeling a commitment to you. Give him his freedom and enjoy your own freedom. If he misses you, he will try extra hard to keep your attention.
He will start to see you as a reliable friend, someone he misses and someone he has grown very fond of over the years.
Related Reading
- 7 Irresistible Texts to Make Him Miss You Like Crazy
- How to Make a Guy Miss You Over Text
- Do This When He Doesn’t Text Back To Make Him Miss You
- What You Text vs. What He Hears
The Right Text Changes Everything
What you text him matters more than you think.
The right message at the right moment can pull him closer, fast.
I made a short video showing the exact texts that make a man chase you, open up, and commit.
