Have you and the guy you like been flirting for a while? Are your texts getting more personal and more exciting as each day passes? Maybe it’s time to take things to a new level.
Wishing your crush goodnight shouldn’t be a simple goodbye message. It’s better to leave him with a thought. This goodnight-message can be deep, funny, sweet, sexy, or romantic. There’s no hard rule on what it should be…just remember to always keep things positive, upbeat, and fun. Avoid texting anything that might paint you in a bad light, like clingy, depressing, controlling or any other negative quality.
Should you talk about love or being in love with him? I think a general rule of thumb here is to make sure he says it first – and then you can come up with more loving and romantic quotes. If the guy is just a crush right now, (and is not committed to you) then you DON’T want to “sell” yourself or try to push him into dating you. Love and a serious relationship has to be his idea. That way, he will always be enthusiastic about chasing you and being a romantic date.
Besides that caution, you can let your imagination run loose. Here are some examples of goodnight texts that most guys will find funny, sexy, or interesting. The key here is to leave him wanting more…eager to chat with you tomorrow!
- Goodnight to the most interesting man I know. Sleep well, my friend.
- I want to hear your voice before I go to sleep. Just a few sweet words.
- Sleep tight. You need to relax. I’ll sing you a lullaby.
- Hope this text doesn’t wake. I just wanted to wish you a goodnight and many wonderful dreams.
- I’m falling asleep now…and you’re the last thing on my mind. Maybe I’ll have an interesting dream about you.
- I wonder what it would feel like to wake up beside you?
- I like this friendship of ours is going. Send me a text tomorrow morning. I want to think of you as soon as I wake up.
- Goodnight, handsome. You look your best when you smile and in good spirits.
- Cheer up and have a good night’s sleep. You have a good thing going. You’re also smart and handsome. You probably have no idea how many girls have a crush on you.
- Haven’t been able to sleep all night! I think it’s because we didn’t get to talk today. I’ve become addicted to your soothing voice.
- Such a cold night! I wish we could snuggle under the blankets while you wish me a good night.
- Just remember on this special night, of all the billions of people on earth, only one is on my mind. That’s you. You’re that amazing.
- All i need to have a long and deep sleep is a pillow and your hypnotic and sexy voice.
- Hmmmm I woke up in the middle of the night randomly. Feeling restless. So I’ll just use this moment to text you and say ‘Wish you were here with me.’ (smile)
- Knowing you has made me a happier person. Thank you for always cheering me up and have a goodnight!
- Sometimes if I’m bored and if you’re busy I reread our chats. You have some really funny one liners. Oh well goodnight. Be a good boy, tomorrow, you troublemaker.
- I going to sleep with you over text. It’s not in person but it still feels so nice.
- I wonder if we’re looking at the exact same star tonight? Think of that as you go to sleep. And dream of me.
- Sleep well. I want to wear you out tomorrow. By texting of course! What did you think I meant? (Smile)
- You! You stinker. You’re the one who causes me to have sleepless nights with your witty banter. You’re the one who makes me clutch my pillow at night, thinking it’s your chest. You’re the reason I can’t fall asleep until I get a sexy “goodnight” message.
- I’ll bet after you go to sleep tonight you’re going to wake up even more handsome and debonair. Goodnight till then!
- Hey this is me sending you a goodnight text that will melt your heart. Just imagine I said something very seductive, show how much I like you. Goodnight, goofy.
- You are the only guy that makes me feel nervous. You know that butterflies in the stomach feeling. It’s because I actually care what you think of me. And it feels good to confess that. Goodnight, my good friend/
- My favorite song is _____. It makes me think of you, oddly enough. Figure that one out.
- You make me smile. I can’t even read your texts without people around me asking smiling and blushing. Is that funny to you? Yeah I’ll bet. Goodnight, you tease.
- I wish you here with me. You always make me feel better, make me calm and centered. Sometimes I think of what it feels like to be your pillow.
- You made me laugh today then you made me feel good about myself. Thank you. If today were a book I’d dedicate it to you! Goodnight, my hero.
Sending creative and heartfelt goodnight texts is one of the best stages in the early relationship. You can ask questions, share romantic thoughts, share deep thoughts, make him laugh, and really get to know each other in an intimate way.
You might even find it easier to text him a romantic goodnight message than talking to him in person. When you text him, you can say almost anything without being self-conscious. Meanwhile, his imagination fills in the blanks. Before you know it, you both feel vulnerable. You both have this intimacy between you even though you might still be shy in person. That will only help to increase the sexual tension when you do meet in person.
What matters is that you’re connecting in a meaningful way…and this will advance the relationship quickly. Send him great goodnight messages and he will fall for you in no time.
Related Reading
- Sweet Good Morning Text for Him
- Funny Ways to Say Goodnight Over Text
- 30 Funny Good Morning Texts for Him
- What You Text vs. What He Hears
The Right Text Changes Everything
What you text him matters more than you think.
The right message at the right moment can pull him closer, fast.
I made a short video showing the exact texts that make a man chase you, open up, and commit.
