Once you’ve established a romantic relationship with a boyfriend or a crush – and most of all, you know that he’s fallen for you – that’s when the relationship can really progress. By now you’ve probably sent each other goodnight texts that are flirty, fun, and maybe a little romantic.

But once you sleep together, or you know that sex is imminent, then it’s time to give him a little more than flirty text. Now you can send him longer goodnight paragraphs – the sweeping, romantic and heartfelt lines that you know he wants to hear.

Once a guy falls for you, you don’t have to hold back so much in texting or in sending him love notes. The only rule is, keep things positive and try to avoid being too clingy. You can love him, desire him, and cherish his company. But don’t give the impression that you need him or would die without him – anything that dark.

Besides that caution, these love paragraphs can be anything you want. Romantic, sexual, funny or sweet. I’m going to list several options for long paragraphs, including the categories of “before sex” and “after sex”. Notice how after sex happens, it’s about the NOW, the enjoyment. It’s not about commitment or pushing the “serious relationship”. That must come from him. Instead, keep things fun, carefree and most of all, a goodnight theme so he can think of you fondly before he falls asleep.

BEFORE SEX

  1. As I bid you goodnight, I am still amazed at you.  Your intelligence, your wit, your deep inner strength.  It only reminds me how attracted to you I am. How you fit me and we fit each other.  This is one of those rare relationships when I am just as mentally attracted to you as physically.  You’re a dream date and the only man I’m curious about…continue to tickle my curiosity.
  2. You have such a seductive mind.  You know just what to say to turn me on, get me thinking, get me excited.  I want to know more about you. I want to get to know everything about you the way your mind works, the way see the world, and of course the way you love. I wish you a goodnight and many sweet dreams.
  3. I just wanted to wish you a goodnight.  You know you sometimes ask me what we are…what we really mean to each other.  I don’t know how to answer that, except to say that I think about you all the time  I wonder what you’re doing and what you’re thinking throughout the day. I wonder if I cross my mind.  What you would say to me in that moment right before you reached in to kiss me. How could I resist?  You fascinate me. Until tomorrow, my friend.
  4. You are unlike any other man I’ve ever met.  Sometimes I’m amazed at how you make me feel.  The passion you arouse in me that’s so hot sometimes.  Even when you’re pushing my buttons and testing me. I have so much fun talking to you.  I think we have a little too much fun together. Anyway, I’m going to bed.  Don’t pretend as if both we don’t wish we were sleeping together tonight.  There is something so soothing about that idea.  Dream of me, if you’re feeling brave.
  5. Goodnight ___.  You know what I admire about you the most?  It’s how you’re a gentleman on the outside but a rebellious bad boy type on the inside.  You’re a mystery that keeps unraveling the more I get to know you. I like a man who’s easy on the eyes and hard to figure out.

AFTER SEX

  1. I still feel you at night.  Your body still pressed to mine.  Your eyes still gazing into mine. Your hand going through my hair.  I love the way it feels to lose myself when I’m with you. To open my heart to you.  To connect with you on such a deep level.  Goodnight my exotic and mysterious lover.
  2. Damn, so restless at night.  I can’t stop thinking about you.  When I think of you everything seems a little brighter.  The sunshine in the morning. The way the sky looks so blue.  Such a beautiful day makes me think of you…and makes we wonder what you’re thinking.  I hope you have a wonderful day full of new challenges and great rewards. Goodnight, my friend and thank you for putting a big smile on my face.
  3. Not going to lie.  Our first night together was like magic!  I always knew I was attracted to you and damn well knew the feeling was mutual heheh.  But when we connected physically, chemically, it was so amazing. I’ve never felt anything so intense.  You really are a great date! Have a goodnight and have sweet dreams.  You earned it.  I hope you have a little hop in your step tomorrow morning.
  4. I wanted to wish you a goodnight, my goofy friend.  Your text today cracked me up. You always know how to make me laugh.  And yet you always know how to dine me, romance me, and leave me wanting more.  I think what I like most about you is what a fun guy you are. Not a fungi, a fun-guy!  You’re always making me laugh.  Always making me think.  And when you kiss me…hmmm you really blow my mind.  You are such a tease, baby.
  5. I was just taking a bubble bath and thinking of you.  Thinking of how amazing it is to meet someone that you have real chemistry with.  When we’re “together” hehehe I think sparks really start to fly. Goodnight…I might see you later on in dreams.  You still with that sexy smile and bedroom eyes.

As you can see, giving him longer paragraphs is not about writing long poetry or anything too difficult. You simply expand on the original thought, giving more details and more discussion as to how good the relationship makes you feel. Focus on the present and make him long for more intimacy, never quite giving him everything he wants, but rewarding him for his efforts. He will become addicted to your affection and will fall for you in no time!

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

Click here to watch the video now <<

My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…

I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…

When you click the link this link right here <<

I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…

And how to attract the man you want…

Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…

No matter how painful things have been in your past…

You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…

Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…

If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…

If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…

And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…

Click this link to watch my video right now <<

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.