How to Make a Man Miss You

How to Make a Man Miss You

So has this happened to you before?  Things are going so well…your man is head over heels in love.  Sex is good, relationship is progressive…

And then all of a sudden communication problems come up.  He begins to become distant.  He gets defensive and argues.  Anakin, you’re breaking my heart!  You get the picture.

Don’t believe whatever excuse he gives you.  Chance are, the problem is simple.  He’s feeling like less of a man because you’re dominating the relationship and abandoning the feminine charms that got him to notice you in the first place.

But you still hold the power.  Always remember that.

Your next goal is to give him the gift of missing you.  A man will always take for granted a woman who volunteers too much time, who sacrifices too much, who tries too hard to keep the man so “happy”.  She ends up controlling his every move and he resents it.

But the woman who acts like this never gives a man the chance to fully appreciate her.

By letting him live more independently.  Letting him feel free.

Once a man learns that the woman he thinks he loves doesn’t want to control him or stifle his work or fun, he begins to realize that he wants to be with her.  He doesn’t “need” her but wants her company.  He craves her company.  That’s what brings him closer, rather than sending him farther away.

So let’s discuss 5 different things you can do to make sure he misses you—and misses you with a purpose.  Namely, that he realizes life without you just isn’t as much fun.

For the best results, try giving him some space before he begins to become defensive and talks about breaking up.  But even if it’s gone way passed that, and he’s rejected you, you can still use some of these techniques to make him miss you.

1. Stop calling, stop texting, just stop!

I know, your natural instinct is to help him, nurture him and figure out what the problem is when he’s acting weird.  But this is male behavior and it’s driving him in the opposite direction.  You instincts are to communicate more, but what he ultimately wants is to communicate less.  He wants to feel something and the best way to do that is to give him the gift of missing you.

Let him feel a little blue and realize he was happier when you were together.  This means, cut him off completely.  No spying, no commenting or social media-liking him.  Just cut the communication off completely.  Your silence will speak volumes and he will usually initiate contact again, within a few weeks or months.

2. Always leave him wanting more.

Your first instinct is probably to talk all night and fall in love with his charming voice all over again, right?  Wrong move.  Besides calling too soon or calling too much, the next mistake a woman makes is to talk too much rather than ending the conversation a little sooner than usual.  In fact, if you really want him to miss you end the conversation first and don’t let it drag on until you get back that intimacy you lost.  He doesn’t deserve that intimacy, not right now.

Keep him waiting and wanting it, and give him something to look forward to.

3. Bring back the mystery and suspense.

If it seems like he’s getting bored, all this really means is that he wants more mystery, more games, more fun.  Maybe he hasn’t matured into wanting a Serious Adult Relationship yet.  If that’s the case, don’t try to persuade him or “sell him” on this S.A.R.  Give him more of the fun and positive associations he is enjoying.

This might be as simple as not sharing everything you’re thinking or feeling and avoiding telling him everything that he might want to know…or even what he asks.  Be unpredictable.  Rather than let him get used to your routine, challenge him with new activities and don’t let him become comfortable in your presence.  Remind him this is a date and anything can happen!

4. Say NO!

Guys do it…and dammit, women should be able to do it too.  In other words, don’t always be available for him by constantly saying “YES” or “OK”.  He wants his space so that means he does NOT get privileges of calling you or asking you to go out when he feels the whim.  He has to earn back that “high priority” status.  Make other plans so that he will start to remember how you used to be available for him, but now you’ve moved on and are keeping busy.

And for the best results, be busy.  Don’t be playing games and hiding behind a phone.  Go out with your friends and have fun again, away from your man.  Do something good for the community or take up a new hobby.  Being unavailable some of the time is going to make you feel better and drive him a little crazy.

Oh yeah and one more sneaky move…post about all your new adventures on social media, where you KNOW he’s stalking you.  Let him see how much fun you’re having without him by posting plenty of photos.

5. Move on with your life…it’s the only way to ensure he puts the brakes on and says “wait!”

Lastly, replace his presence with somebody / something else!  If you need a date for the big show then bring a friend or a new guy that seems interesting.  It’s not really a jealousy game…it’s just called moving on with your life.  If you miss doing things with him on Saturday night, take up a new hobby that keeps you busy.

You’re letting him know that things have come to this, a turning point.  Either you’re going to stay friends (without benefits!) or you’re going to get back together.  But he has to know that it’s not going to work both ways.  You’re not going to “wait for him” and sit idly by as time moves on.  You should move on and if he really wants you in his life, he will initiate contact and let you know that he misses you.

Never underestimate the power of absence.  I know most people quote “absence makes the heart grow fonder”…but maybe the singer Passenger who sang the hit song “Let Her Go” makes a better point.  It’s good to be missed.

‘Cause you only need the light when it’s burning low

Only miss the sun when it starts to snow

Only know you love her when you let her go

Only know you’ve been high when you’re feeling low

Only hate the road when you’re missing home

Only know you love her when you let her go

What Men Look For In “The One”

Have you ever done everything you could to make a man feel like you’re the right woman for him only to still have him leave you?

That’s because being “everything a man wants” isn’t what makes him FEEL like you’re the right one for him.

In fact, the actual attempts of “being everything” for a man is exactly what he doesn’t want from a woman…

Because “being everything” is exactly what he wants to be for a woman…

It’s a masculine way to act and will always result in a man pulling away, losing interest, and disappearing on you…

Instead, he’s looking for almost exactly the opposite.

I explain everything in this video I made for you…

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If you want a man to feel like you’re “the one” for him, you need to understand and show him this one thing…

Otherwise, he’ll feel like he should continue looking for a woman who has it.

Click here to let me show you what it is <<

 

 

 

 

 

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