In some of our other articles, we discussed the idea of gaslighting (making a partner feel insane or weak, to justify the abuser’s opposing perspective) and how narcissists and sociopaths use these techniques to dominate their partners. However, this does not mean that only these antisocial personalities will ever use these techniques! Sometimes even “nice […]
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Remember the first time you learned what a player was? That super nice and funny guy that every woman seemed to warn you about? What’s wrong with being funny and charming anyway? Why of course… Because he’s a player! His intention is to confuse you, charm you, push you away, pull you back in, and
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Gaslighting refers to tactics of abusive manipulation in a relationship and is actually a colloquial term referring to the film/play Gas Light by George Cukor. While this is a fairly common technique observed in certain groups (i.e. cults, companies, even politics) it is quite a disturbing experience to see your partner behaving in this way
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Building trust is surprisingly difficult in a relationship, even when two people are deeply in love with each other. The reason being, love and commitment is an organism that must be “kept alive.” You can’t take it for granted and assume that your love is so universally powerful that it can survive anything because it
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Making the transition from “Cool Texting Friend” to boyfriend-girlfriend can be intimidating. In fact, we cautioned you in one of our other articles about using too many emojis or saying too many “girly things” that imply love and marriage. Men don’t want to feel pressured or pushed into dating someone. They wanted to feel attraction
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There was a highly influential book in the 1990s called “The Five Love Languages”. In the book, author Gary Chapman explains the theory that every person has a primary love language and a secondary one. In order to enjoy more peaceful and rewarding relationships, both partners need to learn the one’s primary language, since this
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It seems like everyone has a very strong opinion on why men look at women and whether or not they should if they’re in a relationship. On one hand, men say it’s instinctive behavior and probably based on evolution. You know, the whole “spread your seed” theory to guarantee your survival. On the opposite side
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You like him. He’s sweet. Or maybe he’s rugged and intense. You like him, you love him. Sure, you could marry him. But then again, you could marry a lot of different guys and be happy. The real question is, how do you know if this is true love? How do you know if this
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Remember that old song “Bitch”? (Yes hard to believe Meredith Brooks is an oldies favorite now) Well, in it she sings about how much of a bitch she is and how her guy wouldn’t have it any other way. You can probably think of several of your acquaintances, or friends or family, who tend to
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So by now, you’re starting to understand that your guy crush is not serious about you. He never talks to you at length. He seems distant, even when he’s being friendly. He certainly doesn’t make you feel desired or loved. Maybe the two of you just don’t click. The only problem is… He’s still texting
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