Have you ever been in a situation where your guy-crush is talking to you frequently, being completely honest, and maybe even becoming attached to all that friendly chatter?
That’s great…the only problem is you may have inadvertently friend-zoned yourself!
What gives? Isn’t the point of a guy falling for you to engage him in conversation? If you’re having all these deep talks, why in the world would he friend-zone you?
There are plenty of women out there who can attest to this—if you’re such a good buddy to a guy, but without sexual tension, you’re at a high-risk of becoming friend-zoned. The prize is, of course, your guy-crush saying he’s not attracted to you, but he does still appreciate all the free therapy sessions.
Cold! So how do you prevent being friend-zoned?
If you started the relationship on a positive note (you sensed some mutual attraction) then it’s not too late to jump out of that friend-zone and start flirting.
The Flirty Questions to Ask a Guy
Here are 15 flirty questions to accompany those deep questions about life…
1. What do you like best about me, physically?
If you sense he’s growing addicted to conversation but not actually paying attention to your physical beauty, remind him of that! Sometimes guys need to be reminded you’re not a good therapist-friend but a very attractive woman who’s taking an interest in him.
2. What’s the shortest relationship you’ve ever had? OR When did your last relationship end?
These are minimally invasive questions that don’t feel so “friendly” in context. They are trespassing into private/dating territory. He will definitely sense you are interested in him and not just talking about day to day issues.
3. What does your perfect girl look like?
Get him to describe his perfect girlfriend in detail and realize that you are, in fact, his physical type. If he admits he likes a particular fashion or look, very subtly try to dress that way. Just don’t make it too obvious!
4. What is your perfect girlfriend like?
A hypothetical question that gets him to list actual qualities that he’s attracted to, and which presumably you have. This may open his mind to seeing you in a new light, realizing you may be the perfect girlfriend.
5. What’s the perfect kiss like? OR Are you intimated by girls making the first move?
These lines are bold, but they will definitely break you out of that friend-zone. Discussing a kiss, and making him describe the perfect kiss, is a seductive move. It forces him to FEEL that kiss and associate it with you. An alternate approach would be asking him how he feels about girls making the first move. Then he will either tell you that he prefers to make the first move or will tell you he doesn’t mind either way. Once again, you put the idea into his head and now he has to deal with it!
6. So are you a romantic type or a dirty talker?
This is a great flirty question to ask a guy because it dares him to share a little TMI about his bedroom preferences. Now you’ve opened the floodgates, assuming of course he says (as most guys would) “a little of both.”
7. What do you wear to bed?
How can a guy not be a little hot under the color if you ask him to share intimate details of his dressing and undressing routine?
8. What are you turn ons / turn offs?
This is a direct question and one that he will instantly get a vibe from. Why would you want to know unless you plan to use these tips some day? He gets that and immediately knows you’re not content to be just a friend.
9. You really are so cute / sexy.
Another direct approach and unbecoming of friendship, since you’re reminding him that you find him attractive—not just a buddy.
10. What is your idea of the best date ever?
Why not do some research and get it straight from the stud’s mouth? What does he like and if you do go on a date at some point, you can make sure it matches perfectly.
11. Where do you like to be kissed?
This line is golden and drives him out of the friend-zone faster than most drivers zoom past a yellow light! This line is downright dangerous-flirty but it will definitely let him know what’s on your mind.
12. Where do you like to see tats on a girl’s body?
Now you’re just torturing him! Getting him to admit his tattoo preferences is a kinky conversation that blurs the line between friends and lovers.
13. What is your hottest erotic fantasy of all time? Yeah that one!
Try using this on your platonic friend at Jason’s Deli. Guess what? Friendship over! Well, this line is definitely going to tax any polite friendship and make the guy wonder just how much you’re going to mind-screw him before he calls you out on this mutual attraction.
14. Define Love.
Now that’s a loaded question! Everyone has an idea on what love is and if you establish trust with them, they’re just dying to share their opinion. Don’t make this so obvious but mention it off-handedly, such as after a conversation about a sister or relative getting married. The “event” will be on his mind and so it won’t feel too much like a clingy commitment talk.
15. How would you seduce me? OR How would you make a girl fall for you?
This is a clever and almost hypnotic technique to use when asking flirty questions to your guy…
Asking “How would you?” is basically inducing him to demonstrate his sexy, manly personality on you and so he will FEEL the very emotion he is pretending to display. This line is a bit edgy and does require a reasonable time investment. As in, you’re friends discussing life in a bar or restaurant and then he rants about relationships. And so you ask him, “How would you go about charming a woman, anyway?” It’s such a brilliant line because it’s unexpected and plays upon his oblivious nature. Great way to break out the friend zone!
Use any of these lines to shake up a friendly relationship and watch carefully how he reacts. He may just need a little boost to turn this mutual respect into full blown desire!
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Talk soon,
Matthew Coast
P.S. You’ll be the first thing he thinks about in the morning…
And the last thing he thinks about before going to bed…
So I’m writing this email with no actual hope. Jus kinda expressing my self. So I read all I do mean ALL emails. I constantly read in hopes one day I will read my answer. However I must not be understanding correctly because I read something then I Execute it and I don’t get the result that I read I was going to get. So I recently read this email how to not be stuck in the friend zone tried it. Unfortunately it went completely south I couldn’t help it but I panic and shed a tear. Is not all bad. Work is going great, no family drama drama currently. I just always tend to always have 2 out of 3 check marks.
He’s not the one.
Can a relationship be saved after 23 years of Infidelity and a mistress and divorce.? Seperated 4 years. Or is it a waste of time?
where is the relationship at all!?
Waste of time
Why on earth would you want to continue that pain ??
Maybe ask yourself why do you think that is all you deserve???
Is this what you grey up believing that love is supposed to hurt and disrespect?
The only relationship you need here is you. Stand up find your inner self worth you will answer your own question.
Sounds like my life! No one can answer that question except you! When it starts to take a toll on your health it’s time to move on! Marriage does not need to be this hard you can find love again healthy love! Wish you luck it been a rough road I left after 25 years I’m happier everyday look better people say wow you look so healthy! He was sucking the life out of me and I never even knew it!
Addictive love with a broken promise – devastatingly heartbroken…
never easy.
This is real cause it seemingly works
I agree
I’m in a relationship of 24 years I’m sick of the lies and cheating on both parts
Love is blind
Love is hard out here.
I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong but I seem to not have any luck finding someone who just wants to have a meaningful relationship like I can find sex but that’s not just what I want I want everything to do with a relationship and more please help with some tips of dos and donts thanks
I had the perfect relationship 30+ yrs ago. But it was ripped apart by someone drugging me. Long story short we decided to be just friends that lasted about 10 years. Nether of us wanted to deceive our SO. I have been singel for a long time and I’m in bad health, as in terminal. But it is one of those things 2 to 20 years. Yea truly limbo. So he is recently divorced. And he is not your typical guy. He has to sort threw all the last 30 years and refined his self. He has 3 other women texting him. One who lives next door.
I have been done so increadable wrong by my ex’s. I raised my kids alone because I did not want them to get hurt. But this man would never hurt anyone. I know soonet or later I’m going to be 100% at the mercy of whoever I’m with. So I had just told everyone I would rather die alone than put someone threw watching me die. But the real reason is I can’t trust men. But I could trust him. He says he has to figure everything out of find his reset button . can you help me?
Maybe try and be honest and tell him how much you care about him and respect him, you never know, you say he is a worth while person to have in your life any way. Try to feed this connection and see.You always have something to offer I wish you well❤ Annamaria
I’m in a relationship with a fantastic man. Yes we met on line but Just frirnds.thats all we wanted well one day we realized we had serious feelings and were afraid to say what we felt but he said he loved me and yes I blurted out me to and I have never had someone love me like this. We will meet for the first time in 4 weeks and yes we are planning a future. After 3 failed marriages God has given us a great future.
Amen
I am 38 no Kids never married .im lonely and im wantingg so bad to find love and have a family before its to late.everytime i get my heart broken because i put my all on the table how can i hold bak and still be myself