There was a fascinating article over at Rerules a few months ago that told the story of the “madly in love” female archetype. It was an interesting perspective because it pinpointed an issue that is often ignored in relationship coaching. That is, the woman who comes across as needy and overly attached but who actually […]
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One of the most common problems I encounter in life coaching and giving dating advice is when women “come on too strong” and seem to push men away without realizing it. Or maybe they’re called “too intense” or even too needy. It’s somewhat of a cliche to say this, and it’s true that men are
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If you were to make a list of “must have” characteristics of the perfect man, what would you write down? If you haven’t done so already, I’d suggest you do it, if for no other reason than curiosity. Go ahead and make a list of MUST HAVE qualities that you want to see. He should
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What is “old school love” anyway? Are we talking old school love like in Back to the Future (“Hey you! Get your damn hands off her!”) or more like old school romance like Hepburn and Tracy? What is new school romance, for that matter? I mean, we can sort of imagine what it is, but
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Have you ever read a dating strategy book for women and just thought to yourself, “I don’t get it!” Why are women so mean to men? Isn’t there such a thing as a nice guy? Maybe you even thought, “That’s fine for other women…but my man is different. We don’t play games. We just love
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Many women buy into the philosophy that you shouldn’t spoil your man…the more you thank him and ask him nicely, the more he’ll resent you. But if you put him to work and keep playing hard to get that this will endear him to you. As usual, the truth is a little more complicated than
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Let’s play devil’s advocate for a moment and entertain the idea of “real” soul mates. The belief is that your soul mate is predetermined for you, that the name of your true love has already been chosen. That you’re a perfect match and that you complete each other. You can’t even complete your mission in
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What’s the first thing that comes to mind when you think of the Ideal Man? If your instincts say, “rich and good looking!”, then don’t feel too bad. While some people try to claim that money and looks are superficial qualities, the truth is that they are simply evidence of a lifestyle, nothing more or
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Some women are just masterminds at attracting men. They always seem to have five guys chasing them at once and just have a certain je ne sais quoi when it comes to dating. They’re never alone and even when they’re in a relationship guys just chase after them like they can’t control themselves. Why? Are
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Have you ever envied other women who knew how to flirt with guys – and make it look so easy – while you just awkwardly sat still and tried not to spill anything on yourself? Hey, it happens to the best of us. Not everyone is a “natural” flirt. It’s a skill that’s not taught
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