I always tell people that falling in love with someone who’s emotionally unavailable is like climbing Mount Everest. It’s like eating a six-pound hamburger. It’s like trying to sell a car to an Amish person. It’s like walking on Mars. It’s like trying to outdo Guinness Book of World Records holder, Steve Sansweet for the […]
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As a man familiar with both male and female dating strategies, I can honestly say the expression “I don’t need this!” is one of the most clever defenses against rejection I’ve ever seen. And it’s remarkably simple too. The guy wants to chase the girl, right? He tries his best to entertain her. She gives
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Before we ask the provocative question of “Are you smothering your man?” let’s start with a simpler question. What is “smothering” and why does it bother men so much? You’ve probably heard the term “smothering” before, as well as all the clichés like “I need some space!” or “I need some time apart!” or even
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Here’s a little secret to pass on. Cute doesn’t actually mean cute, as in reruns of Full House or baby sloths. In terms of dating, cute means “innocently sexy.” And believe it or not, this is what most guys want. The character of the exotic femme fatale, or the “ball-busting bitch”, is a fantasy but
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Here’s the truth: not knowing whether you’re feeling infatuation or love can be downright SCARY. When the feelings first develop, all you feel is attraction and confusion. Maybe you feel yourself become a little obsessed with him, stalking his social media page, or even gazing at some of his photos. You start to fantasize, both
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Have you ever seen that show Catfish on MTV? I admit, I’ve seen a few episodes and have come to admire Nev and Max if for no other reason, their very laid back and affable nature. Nev seems like much too nice a guy to actually lecture anyone, unlike say, Joey, Tommy or Clark from
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A well-known singer once said, “Tonight the light of love is in your eyes, but will you love me tomorrow?” It’s something we all worry about from time to time. Whether this moment, as wonderful as it is, is really going to last forever. How could it? Isn’t the point of life that everything is
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I’ve known people who have said, word for word, “I have great love for him. But I’m not in love with him.” Or sometimes they rationalize a bit more and say something like, “Of course I love him. I care about him very much. But I don’t feel passion anymore.” And some of these statements
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Let’s say life as we know it was a lot like Disney Cartoons. That means you’re a Disney Princess (the Mulan variety, as opposed to the Snow White type!) and you have to choose an eligible bachelor from among all of Disney’s plethora of character. Now some of these guys are bad news right away.
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The idea of sacrificing everything you have and trusting a man whole-heartedly is more than a little intimidating. It takes a great leap of faith. It’s even more intimidating when you have something to lose. Maybe you’re thinking of breaking up with a so-so boyfriend for a mysterious and romantic stranger who seems to like
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