The main problem with the “no contact” rule is that you can’t really gauge how your ex is feeling about it. It’s like performing for an audience that you can’t see or hear. It’s like going to work but having no boss or clients to report to! How in the world do you know if

Jealousy, the green-eyed monster! I really think in terms of dating and winning your ex back, jealousy is a scary, locked and loaded weapon. That means two things: It can work brilliantly and really scare your ex into taking this relationship seriously again. Or it can backfire big time, and you’ll end up hurting your

“But you didn’t have to cut me off Make out like it never happened and that we were nothing And I don’t even need your love But you treat me like a stranger and that feels so rough” Have you ever wondered why an ex would decide to ignore you? Shun you, avoid you, snub

Let’s be honest, when an ex is going through the “hate stage”, where he blames you for ruining his life, it’s impossible to reason with him. The more you try to persuade him, guilt him or beg him for another chance, the more he seems to resent you. You become the “villain” he must resist.

“Only know you’ve been high when you’re feeling low Only hate the road when you’re missing home Only know you love her when you let her go And you let her go” This might very well be the song all men love and emotionally respond to, since it’s about THEM. It’s really about all humankind,

If you and your ex left each other on bad terms, it’s possible that he will lay low and not contact you for a long period of time. Is this a bad sign? Not necessarily. He may think he’s doing the right thing by allowing you to live your life without harassment from him. Or

In other articles on this blog, we talked about the most important factor when it comes to winning back your ex—total detox! Having the inner strength to completely cut him out of your life is the most important factor because it allows you to get back together on YOUR TERMS, not his. Stalking him, keeping

The breakup always feels so final, doesn’t it? Tears are shed. Statements are made that can never be taken back. You move on, your ex moves on. Your life is ready to take another turn… And then a funny thing happens. You can’t stop thinking about him. He can’t stop talking to you, courting your