Look, I get it. From figuring out how to make the first move kissing a guy to asking a guy for a kiss indirectly, it can all be very nerve wracking. Add in most women’s secret desire to get a guy to kiss them first, and we are really deep in the trenches.
If you are reading this, chances are you want to express your desire to be kissed. So, how do you get him to kiss you?
You know this, but I feel inclined to mention it–it is important to read the signs. Some men might be interested, but are not quite ready to engage in physical acts of intimacy; others might be shy and are waiting for you to make the first move. Some men might simply be waiting for the green light.
Be observant of any signs he is throwing your way that signify his reciprocated interest in you. Is he holding eye contact? Is he flirting with you? If he is reciprocating your interest, chances are that he would be open to kissing you.
If the feeling is not mutual, however, there is nothing you can do to get him to kiss you. No one likes to feel rejected, but remember to respect his wishes if he does not want to take it any further.
Confidence is attractive, and this goes both ways. If a man came up to you and carried himself with confidence, you would most likely be into it! Now, imagine being the woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to make it known–this is one sure way to get a guy to kiss you.
Confidence isn’t an act you can just put on; it is the result of believing in your worth and in yourself. You are beautiful, one-of-a-kind, and truly magnetic. Believe these things yourself, and those qualities will radiate.
And hey–confidence comes in many different shades. You might hold his gaze and speak flirtatiously to him, or you might outright ask him for a kiss. There is no right or wrong answer here.
Find the Right Time
Timing really is everything. If your man is stressed or busy, asking him for a kiss probably wouldn’t be smart. Sure, he might respond positively, but he wouldn’t fully be present.
Find the right moment at the end of a nice date or halfway through a movie. The more intimate the setting, the better.
You are reading this for a reason–you don’t want to play the long game that comes with throwing hints back and forth. If you have read the signs, feel confident, and have found the perfect moment, go ahead and ask him to kiss you.
It could be as simple as saying, “I’d really like for you to kiss me right now,” or as short and sweet as asking, “Kiss me?”
Whatever verbiage you decide to use, keep it fun and lighthearted. There is no need to make it serious. Remember, you are two people with a mutual interest in one another. Let it be fun!
The first kiss can be daunting, but it doesn’t have to be. Set aside the games for a moment and be honest about what you want–I’m sure you’ll be pleasantly surprised.