Did you know that many millennials are seriously getting into astrology? That’s what trends are showing and it makes perfect sense because these distinct astrological signs are very much a representation of all the people you tend to meet in life.
There’s something about astrology that feels very truthful. Not only are people surprised by the accuracy of their horoscopes or psychic readings, but very often the study of astrology can help a person figure out what’s going on in their mind and heart.
The study of constellations, planetary movements is not necessarily a miracle faith. Rather, it’s about how we as individuals can weave together our past, present, and future and learn something about human nature. Take the subject of compatible signs.
In studying the 12 signs of the zodiac, we see that there are personality types that complement each other, while others are sure to clash. Learning what Zodiac signs go well together in relationships may help you figure some important things out about how you approach dating and how you get along with basic archetypes of men.
Zodiac Signs and Compatibility
Let’s consider first a Zodiac signs compatibility chart with a summary to make sure we all remember who is who. But what we’re going to do differently is rank them according to how “easy to deal with” they are, and then count down to the most difficult sign to crack.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22) – The Crab
Cancer is the Crab and a Water sign that can travel into the ocean or shore, meaning symbolically, he can travel back and forth between deeply emotional or material worlds. He is intuitive and family-oriented but can be defensive and protective of what he loves.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20) – The Bull
Taurus is a stubborn earth sign when it comes to following his instincts. But remember also Taurus is a lover of nature, a gentle soul that loves to be pampered and relax in a simple and sensual environment. Sometimes that’s a great way to unwind!
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21) – The Archer
Sagittarius seems like the free loving hippie type and yes, he is a world traveler on a quest for knowledge. But he’s also a Fire sign and oftentimes hard to keep up with. No wonder he’s oftentimes represented as a centaur.
Libra (September 23 – October 22) – The Scales of Justice
Libra is an Air sign that, as the symbol suggests, desires and creates balance. He’s downright obsessed with justice and an almost mathematical sense of quality. Even in emotional areas, Libra is a little too book smart.
Aries (March 21 – April 19) – The Ram
Aries is #1 by nature! This fire sign loves to compete and is very ambitious in life. He jumps into battle and challenges and is used to always winning! Aquarius is everyone’s first choice to lead because of his progressive values and revolutionary personality.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
Pisces is the most intuitive of the signs, meaning not just sympathetic but also very empathetic. He is a Water sign and represented by fish swimming in opposite currents. This well symbolizes Pisces’ journey of both fantasy and reality. His sensitivity to everything around him is a strength and weakness.
Leo (July 23 – August 22) – The Lion
Leo is the king of passion, drama, and the most attention-seeking fire sign. Leo is surprisingly loyal to those he loves, even for all of his power and glory. But he’s also a needy type who will get bored fast if he doesn’t feel appreciated.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22) – The Maiden
Virgo is a very busy Earth sign and is the hardest work guy on the zodiac. Why? He’s not just logical and practical about everything he does but methodical and maybe even obsessive. He’s definitely a perfectionist and materialist but his diligence defines his character.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 21) – Scorpion
Scorpio is a Water sign that projects and collects all that is tough and “stinging” when it comes to deal with people. Scorpio’s emotional approach and sometimes esoteric wisdom earn him a reputation as a difficult guy. But his courage and attractiveness characterize him.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 19) – Sea Goat
Capricorn is an Earth sign and despite his intellectual prowess, remains a slave to his own ambition. He is not just hard working but persevering, dedicated, and infinitely patient. To Capricorn time means nothing. It’s all about reaching the goal.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20) – The Twins
Gemini, represented by the Twins, is a restless Air sign who’s also on the mysterious side. He is the type of guy so curious and excited to tackle life that he would just as well clone two versions of himself. But he can also so be disorganized.
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18) – Water Bearer
Aquarius is an Air sign and while enthusiastic and yet collected, can also be sensitive and reluctant to fall into any neat category. Aquarius is an optimist but eccentric and oftentimes willing to work alone.
Which Zodiacs Are Soulmates
There is no perfect match when it comes to learning what zodiac signs are compatible. Relationships don’t succeed or fail by the stars. Success or failure depends on both partners’ commitment to each other and their willingness to work through their unique challenges.
Still, the temperament of some signs suggests better than average compatibility. Consider a few natural pairings.
Leo and Sagittarius are naturally, almost gut-level attracted to each other. Leo loves to show off and back up his grand personality with stupendous knowledge. That is just what Sagittarius seeks. Together, their love is quite the spectacle and they seem to play off each other’s sexy personality…and inspire huge fits of jealousy for that matter!
Capricorn and Taurus are a nice balance. Capricorn is a tireless worker, but Taurus is the sensual and relaxed partner that Capricorn needs to come down from all that ambition. Their chemistry is natural and their mutual respect is very romantic.
Scorpio and Cancer are both highly emotional signs and yet together they work well together, bringing the best emotions out of each other. Cancer understands Scorpio in ways that other signs can’t. The passion and the sensual nature of their personalities make them fall in love intensely and form a family relatively quickly.
Aquarius and Gemini get along well because both welcome change and growth. Aquarius and Gemini also share values, love their freedom, and welcome new experiences – great for a long term-relationship.
Aries and Libra get along surprisingly well, and especially in determining which zodiac is good in bed. They both have energy and both take initiative, which works wonders for libido. Along the way, Libra can actually awaken Aries and open their mind a little bit.
Virgo is so serious about work he can use some grounding and that’s where Taurus comes in. Though Taurus can be stubborn like Virgo, Virgo really needs someone reliable who’s also willing to take a break and smell the roses.
Pisces can get along with several signs, but given the high empathy and sensitivity, he’s actually very good for Scorpio, who can’t get along with some of the other signs. Scorpio desires to be understood and that’s what Pisces does – feels the joy and pain of his lover.
What Zodiac Signs Go Well Together
Remember though that half the fun is seeing what chemistry develops between an opposite sign, and working through those issues to create a lifelong match. While there are attractions between certain signs, all relationships are possible.
It’s also true that some signs are incompatible and naturally annoy each other. Generally speaking, Leo doesn’t like Scorpio because they’re both too self-involved. Pisces can’t deal with Sagittarius’ restless nature. Cancer feels threatened by Aries and Libra. Gemini’s scatterbrain drives Virgo crazy. Taurus is too focused on the now to keep up with Aquarius. And surprisingly, as faithful as Capricorn is, he doesn’t think Aries is that great of a leader.
But again, nothing is set in stone. It’s all about how determined you are to make the relationship work.
What Sign am I Most Compatible With?
In figuring out your best match it’s important understand your own self and how your sign or personality type tends to see the world. Think of it like this:
Aries wants someone strong and independent.
Taurus demands loyalty.
Gemini wants someone who can keep up with his racing mind.
Cancer needs stability and family.
Leo wants attention and adoration.
Virgo needs a partner that loves his workhorse approach to life.
Libra wants the opposite of balance – extremes!
Scorpio wants a soulmate who understands.
Sagittarius wants knowledge and adventure in life.
Capricorn wants to build something amazing with a partner and reach the highest goals.
Aquarius admires weirdness and open-ended thinking.
Pisces needs romance and wants back the same intensity of feeling that he gives.
The Most Compatible Zodiac Signs for You
Zodiac signs, relationships, and even other personality tests are only helpful for analyzing your situation. There is no destiny in life, other than what you and your partner decide you want…or are not willing to fight to keep!
Knowing about the temperaments of all these signs will help you learn your partner faster and understand his perspective in a brand new way. And understanding each other, and communicating with each other, that’s what falling in love is all about.
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