Aquarius, born between January 21 to February 20, is a very unique person, one that is often fiercely independent and yet influential in the way they affect people around them. Aquarius is also difficult to categorize as a “type” because each Aquarius is unique. In general, Aquarius welcomes change and also has a progressive view of helping others and transforming the world for the better. Whereas some people might consider being kind a worthy goal, since that’s how you bring positive attention back to yourself, there is something altruistic about an Aquarius.
If you’re interested in dating an Aquarius man, you are truly setting your goals high – and more power to you! Aquarius may be brave but he’s not just a warrior. He’s also smart, analytical, intelligent, respectful and very sincere in what he does. Aquarius is also a natural born leader because he is resolute about what he wants to do and is always willing to take action when the time calls for it.
The fact that Aquarius is so smart and action-oriented explains why he doesn’t tend to jump mindlessly into relationships. That’s a recipe for disaster! He prefers to see the big picture and to continue climbing the ladder of success and changing the world for the better in all his decisions. If an uneven relationship will prevent that from happening, he will avoid pursuing it. Even the threat of an unhappy relationship will slow him down and take stock of it before moving forward.
This is not a flaw. Aquarius may seem aloof but is actually just avoiding impulsive thinking. He sees himself as high value or more specifically, values his life and his goals more than an unpredictable relationship. He does prioritize the people in his life according to all factors and sometimes his friends and potential love interests will feel left out.
Now that you know how Aquarius thinks let’s talk about ways to appeal to him and increase your value in his eyes – so that he will learn to make you a higher priority.
- Be flexible but be busy.
Aquarius will always be driven and focused in his own goals so there’s no sense trying to stop him. This requires that you become more flexible so that you can let him be the man he wants to be. At the same time, you don’t want to be so flexible that you put everything you want on hold trying to please him.
Learn to be more independent in your own right. Not only will it remind him that you’re a high value woman with your own responsibilities, but it will actually attract him more. Ultimately, Aquarius relates to people who think like him. He will only fall for someone that understands what it’s like to have a duty to help others and one who also takes pride and honor in doing that.
- Be visible.
If you want to get Aquarius’ attention, the love of the work is not always enough. You do have to be visible and you should be reasonably successful in life. You’re a woman who follows a career path and knows how your life is going to turn out. If you do this in a way that’s linear and traditional, you’ll have no problem with visibility. Attention, money and exposure are the reward of a hard worker invested in success. Aquarius almost always dates someone on his “level” so to speak, someone at a comparable place in life and always looking upward to the next challenge.
- Be intelligent and open-minded.
Aquarius is both. He’s smart and well-read but that only ensures that he keeps an open-mind, since wandering is sometimes the way to find new opportunities. He is an experimenter of sorts. He is committed to take a singular path and yet is adaptable in the way he reaches that goal. He thinks outside the box and is not easily shocked at new idea concepts or even dangerous ideas.
Of course, Aquarius is not all business. He is very flirty, well read, and intelligent and makes for a great date. The more you match him, the more electrifying the sexual tension. Unlike a Pisces or a Cancer, Aquarius won’t necessarily avoid sex just because he hasn’t fallen for you yet. Aquarius isn’t interested in “conquest” but is up for some mutual fun. You might have to be careful about sleeping with him too soon and losing his attention. Be sure to impress him with your opinions, belief, career and lifestyle well before sex happens.
- Be mysterious and a little unpredictable.
The best way to keep Aquarius’ attention is to cultivate the quality of mystery. Be a little unpredictable and a little quirky. Don’t volunteer information but make him work for it, with that talkative and charming wit that he’s known for. This keeps his attention, long after the thrill of sex is gone. He wants to see his own best qualities reflected in you. That’s what really brings the two of you together – your matched lifestyle and similar personality traits.
Finally, remember that Aquarius will always be true to his honor and responsibility. That doesn’t always mean you will be “second place” to his career, but sometimes it might. Are you strong enough to live with a man who might be distracted? Are you willing to work with him on commitment, not pressuring him, but being truly supportive?
He wants to see you as the rock in his life, someone who is not jealous or constantly engaged in drama so that you can wrestle away his attention. It will never be a relationship with a Virgo or a Cancer – someone who needs you constantly and must control you in some way. Aquarius will be unconventional in all things, including love.
But as you probably know by now, Aquarius is quite a catch. He’s determined to succeed, artistic, confident, charming and beautiful in everything he does. Prepare for him and if you do “catch him” relish in your victory! He is one in a million.
The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life
There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…
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