This seems to be a common concern for most women I talk to… “When should I let a man kiss me?” Here’s the short answer: Whenever he goes for the kiss. The response I get to this tends to be… “But I won’t kiss him if it’s too soon. I don’t kiss on the first …
This seems to be a general topic of confusion around daters far and wide… “Should I let a man pay for the date?” Here’s my short answer: It depends. Why? Because this topic isn’t completely black or white. Most women’s dating coaches who I know will insist that the man pays for the date, every …
Should I Go Dutch and Split the Check? When Should a Man Pay for the Date? Read More »
Most questions that I get from our community start like this: “How do I get him to…” Or: “How do I make him…” Then just fill in the blank with something like… “Love me, call me, commit to me, be better to me, meet up with me, come back to me, ask me out, want …
How Do I Get Him to Love Me? How Do I Make Him Commit? How Do I Get Him to… Read More »
Another common complaint that I get from women is that they think they intimidate men. Could this be true? Do strong, successful women intimidate men? Does a man somehow feel threatened by a woman who has made her own place in this world? Well, maybe… Let’s look at something very important first… When I first …
The two most common frustrations I get from women are these: “Men are liars!” And… “Men are cheaters!” Sometimes, I get both… “Men are liars and cheaters!” Is this true? Wood is hard. Water is wet. Men are liars and cheaters? Well, maybe… But maybe not… When I was growing up, I decided that I …
Have you ever felt like things were going great with a guy and then, all of a sudden, he stopped calling and pursuing you? Many times, when a woman falls in love with a man, she feels like she needs to show him that she’s interested, as much as possible, for the fear of losing him …
The Biggest Mistake Women Make that Stops Men from Pursuing Them Read More »
A question from someone in our community is… “I’m in a “friend with benefits” type of relationship with a guy… but he acts like he wants something more. How do I know what he wants?” This is a great question… Back in 2006, I was a men’s dating coach. I ran a forum that was …
What if he says he just wants to be casual but acts like he wants a relationship? Read More »
If you are frustrated by a man who is ignoring your calls or is taking you for granted… If you’re sick of taking second place in your relationship and feeling underloved, even lonely… If you want him to cherish and adore you the way you deserve to be cherished and adored… Then you need to …
Why Men Pull Away and What Makes Them Fall in Love Read More »
Let’s say you go on two separate dates with two separate men… to simplify this, we’ll just call them guy1 and guy2. When you go out with guy1, you go out with him for dinner and drinks. He keeps the conversation light and fun. You are having a great time with him. He makes you …
How to inspire him to commit to you without playing games or manipulation… Read More »
Can you remember the feeling of what it is like to fall in love for the first time? For a man, he starts out with an intense feeling of joy. He feels more enthusiastic about his future. He feels like he’s more connected to all of the love in the world, even when she’s not …
A man will commit to you when he continually feels like this… Read More »
