It’s very difficult to express love sometimes, isn’t it? It’s difficult to feel, at least in the beginning when you’re dealing with issues of trust or recovering from trauma. But love actually comes easy when you finally meet someone that matches you and that earns your trust over time.
Once you do meet a man you like, it’s a great feeling to love – to express yourself and show affection after being lonely for so long.
Sometimes the hard part, however, is expressing love. It might not come natural to you at all, especially if you’ve always had trouble expressing emotion. Being vulnerable with someone else requires trust, confidence and to a degree, a sense of inner peace. You love this man and when you express yourself with him, you’re not afraid of rejection. You’re not guarded, thinking he’s going to betray you.
You love him implicitly and he loves you back. That’s the joy of expressing yourself, without inhibition. It’s freeing. It’s cathartic. It’s an amazing feeling.
Now the challenge is thinking of something romantic to say!
Need a few pointers for writing some LONGER love paragraphs that go beyond cheesy one-liners? That’s what we’re going to discuss.
Let’s first review some things not to do, to avoid making your messages painful to read
• Don’t be wordy
• Make sure the sentences don’t go on too long
• Don’t be ridiculously over-the-top with promises or comparisons
• Give details, but don’t hyper-focus on details
• Don’t try to be poetic
Seems kind of easy, now that we’ve listed all the don’ts! Less pressure, less emphasis on being brilliant or perfect.
What you want to do is be emotionally honest. Emotionally naked, you might even call it. You want to express how you feel and give details on just why exactly you love him so much.
Let’s consider five longer “I love you” paragraphs.
1. Friends & More
You know before I met you, I didn’t know if I could ever love anyone. But you changed my mind. You showed me something special, something that felt so real. It was just like the way people fall in love at the movies. I felt that same passion, that same hurt, just from the idea of losing you. I wished that kind of love could be real. Then you showed me it was. Now I feel it every day when I’m with you. I love you. I love the way you feel next to me, the way you hug me, the way you touch my face right before we kiss. I love everything about you.
2. Together
I enjoy being with you in body and in spirit. Just the thought of you makes me feel so safe, like I’m all wrapped up in your arms. I no longer feel alone at night. I don’t feel that longing to be loved anymore, because I know you love me. And every time I look at you, it feels like we’re united in soul and spirit. I feel you in my heart, even when we separate. I’m so grateful to have met a man who loves me for me and who feels like we belong together.
3. Watching
I just love watching as you walk into a room. Your eyes locked onto mine. The way you find me and then deny me a smile…just to get my attention. Then you give me the sexiest smile and you let me know that our connection is so real. The way you watch me makes me feel beautiful. At peace. Just knowing you’re coming to meet me gives me a feeling of home, like we’re always going to be together. Like we’re in love until the end of time. You’re my home. And you’ll always be watching over me.
4. Passion
You sir, have lit a fire in my heart. In my body. Every day I feel it when I think about you, I feel the passion grow. I want all of you. Your everything. The stuff we talk about, the stuff we never talk about, the stuff you’re too afraid to even tell me. I just want all of you. I love how you always keep surprising me. Just when I think I’m used to loving you, you do something new that’s amazing. You can always make me laugh, make me think and make me feel safe. I love you.
5. Forever
You’ve always been the one for me. You’ve been the easiest person to talk to and the only one I feel comfortable with when spilling my secrets. I love talking to you first thing in the morning. And I love saying goodnight before bed. You are always there, in my mind. When something wonderful happens, I want to tell you. When something bad happens, you’re always there to make me feel better. You show me love, comfort, protection and friendship. You’re not just my best friend in life, you’re my true love. Life is so much more enjoyable now that I’ve met you. I just wanted you to know how happy I am now…and forever.
As you can see, it’s all about the heart. Express what you feel, what you see, what you hear and what you enjoy about your partner.
Is there such a thing as sharing too much? No, but with one note of caution. Don’t approach your love as if it’s something you need or that you’ll die if you don’t have it. That doesn’t make anyone feel good. Instead, approach it from a point of strength. Loving him makes you STRONGER. It makes you even happier than you already are.
Engage all five senses. Remind him not only how much you care for him, but also how you appreciate the specific things he does for you. Remind him that he’s attractive to other women and that you value him above all other men. You admire his character. You both are wonderful people and the fact that your lives have come together should be celebrated. Express yourself in simple but passionate ways. That’s what he wants and that will always keep him coming back to you for more love.
The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life
There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…
It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…
But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…
It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…
And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…
Have you figured out what it is yet?
Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…
And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…
Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…
Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…
A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…
And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…
Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…
If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…
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