Do you ever feel awkward when it comes to attraction, romance, and even (gulp) sex? How do those naturally seductive women do it? Is there an art to flirting? Should you start memorizing the best adult zingers of Mae West?

Believe it or not, flirting is pretty simple. Whether you want to flirt with your boyfriend or show some cutesy attention to your crush, it’s easy to convey how you feel.

The most basic way of understanding the language of flirting is to break it down by sense.

When you want to flirt, you flirt visually. That means stronger and more personal eye contact, smiles, and positive facial expressions.

That also means you alter your voice, giving it more of a romantic and sensual tone. Then, once you’re more confident you can be flirty in conversation.

Then there’s the all-important sense of touch. You can actually convey a lot of feeling and even secret thoughts by the way you touch a person.

In this article, we’re going to discuss touch specifically. Namely, ways you can touch a man to turn him on, either as a crush, or even as a partner. Let’s consider each move one at a time.

Now most of us know by now touching a man’s shoulder or forearm does get his attention. But it’s also possible these basic moves can send mixed messages. Because platonic friends do touch each other on the shoulder every so often. If you really want to get his attention and turn him on then try these touches on for size:

1. Touch his softer spots.

Use your fingers gently and touch the “softer” points of his body, like his finger pads, palms, or the soft skin around his jawbone. Just a little touch on soft spots can quickly get his attention.

2. Get close to his ear and give him a touch and whisper.

The ears are another soft spot location on a guy, especially around the inside where the sensation receptors are located. Ears are also highly sensitive to sound when you’re up close. Make sounds with your voice, lips, or tongue near his ear to give him a thrill. It will either turn your boyfriend on or turn a casual friend into a crush!

3. Touch his ribs.

A man’s ribs are not only a ticklish spot, but also a section of thinner skin, which means it’s a very tender area. Touching him softly here produces more than the usual attention and arousal, since more blood is flowing to that section, increasing sensitivity. Simply touching a guy’s ribs in passing or “platonically” sends a strong message.

4. Touch his neck.

The neck is such a tender area (including the back, front and sides) that some men may actually be defensive about being touched by strangers. If a guy likes you and lets you touch him there, then he’s probably very sensitive and easily aroused by the touch of fingers or lips. He might really enjoy necking or simply touching his parts of his neck while you kiss.

5. Touch his hair or run your fingers through it.

Guys with hair love it when women touch their head or play with their hair, not the least of why is because of all the sensitive nerve endings on the scalp. Not only touch and feel his hair but pull it just a little bit to add more heat when you’re making out.

6. Touch his beard (or chin).

Guys with beards love how they look and probably groom their facial fairly often so why not give that adorable wookiee some loving attention? Touch his chin and his beard treating it like you would a full head of hair.

7. Hug him and touch his lower back.

This works even if you’re not dating yet. Just hug him innocently and then use the opportunity to wrap your arms around the small of his back. The small of the back is actually a major nerve center and bottom of the spinal cord directly stimulates the groin. No wonder guys get all fresh when they get a massage!

8. Tickle him!

If you have a playful relationship then tickling him just a little bit will give him a kinesthetic thrill. Tickle him where you know he’s sensitive, like under his arms, his feet or under the knee caps. Don’t overdo it but know a little goes a long way. Stimulate his laughter and he might start to feel feisty.

9. Get him to touch your skin.

On the other hand, if you can encourage him to touch your skin you will get double the pleasure. First, from experiencing his soft touch and second, from giving him the thrill of touching you. Encourage him to hug you or put his hand on your elbow or shoulder, letting him know it’s okay. If he’s shy he probably won’t touch you without first getting the signals, but is probably thinking about it!

10. Inner thigh, knee, or stomach

Maybe the sexiest way you can touch a guy without actually grabbing his crotch or kissing him on the lips is by focusing on his lap section. This includes his knees, thighs, or even the stomach area, especially right below his belly button where he’s most sensitive.

Let’s be honest even if you touch a man here “platonically” he will still get the hint. It’s a very sexy touch and indicates you’re interested in him. This is probably the best way to get out of the friend-zone fast, if you think your feelings are mutual. It’s just the ‘go-ahead’ he needs to be a little bolder.

Who says it’s hard for women to flirt with men? With just these touches you can communicate your interest in a guy and welcome him over for a deeper conversation.

Women very often do flirt with the guys they like. Maybe they’re more subtle than guys when they flirt, but they do it frequently and YOU can learn to do it too, even if you just remember the basics.

Flirting is a science, not as much an “art” as they keep telling you. It involves making a connection in sight, showing how you feel with sound, and then turning him on with just a touch.

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

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