Why You Should Try the Reverse Cowgirl Position

Reverse cowgirl is about as wild as it sounds and it actually predates wild Texas-style sex by centuries, perhaps millennia. The colloquial “cowgirl” refers to a woman straddling a man while he lies on his back or sits down. From this position, intercourse is easy, though the “cowgirl” takes on most of the work. Reverse cowgirl refers to the same basic position but with a twist—facing away from the man and turning towards his feet.

The reverse missionary position is about as old as sexual history since this position has visual representation dating back as far as 79 B.C. The reverse missionary has multiple references in the 1800s and 1900s, by the likes of fine painters (and horny fellows all around) Mihaly Zichy and Edouard-Henri Avril. Long story short, it didn’t take a team of scientists to discover just how much fun it was to ride a guy cowgirl style. Guys always knew it was fun!

So let’s list 10 advantages of reverse cowgirl and illustrate just how awesome this position is for couples. If you haven’t tried it yet, start experimenting…you will blow his mind!

1. Guys love the scenery.

If you’re concerned that your boyfriend will miss your boobs, don’t worry. Most guys really love the sight of bouncing cheeks just as much. Men really don’t have to decide whether they like breasts, legs or a butt the most —they can enjoy them all. Reverse cowgirl gives him plenty of fondling time for the booty, not to mention the erotic thrill that comes from spreading the cheeks and seeing the anus. Guys really do love this even if they’re not into anal sex. They love the feeling of breaking all these taboos.

2. It’s a very confident position – you feel in total control.

If you’re shy you might not believe it—but once you experience reverse cowgirl you will be amazed at how confident you feel. Your guy is loving it, moaning and fighting off orgasm. You’re showing him your butt and owning the moment, riding or straddling him mercilessly. It’s hot!

Even if you do feel shy about your body, you get to face away from him, and let him hyper focus on the one area where everyone looks equally good. Butts are butts, men love them!

Best of all, you don’t have to worry about looking into his eyes for a few minutes. A lot of women become self-conscious when they’re having sex and staring into their lover’s face. This position gives you a break from that extreme intimacy and just lets you experience hot lovemaking in a raw and exciting way. It almost feels like just hard, fast sex. Sex for the sake of sex. It’s a great release and something you will both enjoy for the variety.

3. You get to control the tempo, pace and power. You call the shots and you decide when you both come.

Many women prefer woman-on-top positions because it’s better for orgasming. A woman knows her own body and can better create a sustainable rhythm that pleases her while also controlling the man’s orgasm until she’s ready.

4. You get deeper penetration.

Reverse cowgirl allows for deeper penetration, which is pleasurable for you and extra tight for him. A lot of couples are really amazed at how different it feels despite being so similar to regular woman-on-top. The different angle will give you both new sensations. You have to try it!

5. Better chance of hitting the G-spot.

Many women find G-spot fingering to be awkward or not as intense. They prefer penetration, although it’s almost impossible to reach the G-spot with a missionary position. Enter the reverse cowgirl! This position gives you better access to the G-spot because he’s entering you at a curved angle.

6. You can give yourself a “secret” clitoral orgasm.

It’s not really much of a secret, but hey, since you’re turned around and facing the opposite direction you can finger your clitoris as you ride him and double your orgasm—without him even knowing. This is perfect since it will coincide with vaginal penetration and G-spot stimulation.

7. Great for working out and letting him take the night off.

All right, we’re not saying that reverse cowgirl should be done every night! But it’s a good treat to give a man who’s really working hard for you and deserves something special. You do all the work while you burn calories. He gets to lie back and enjoy the view. Some nights he gets to be the one working hard, other nights, he gets to be on the receiving end. That’s good negotiation!

8. It’s easy to slide right into doggy style.

This is a great sexual “segue” into another position, like doggy style or side by side. You can transition from one position into another, which may be great for helping the both of you last longer to build anticipation.

9. You get more options when determining your riding style.

You can decide whether to lean back and stretch backward onto your partner’s chest or lean forward, touching his knees. You can easily change from slow rocking or a medium rolling motion. You can even try faster straddling or bouncing. Just be careful to protect his shaft and know how deep inside you he is before you come back down.

10. You get a break since you don’t have to support his weight on top of you.

Not only does this make it an ideal position for larger men (who are a bit heavy to take in missionary) but it’s also a great position for a pregnant woman, who won’t be able to tolerate the hard pressure of a man’s body on top of her abdomen. In many ways, it is the easiest sex position, in terms of safety and gentleness given to both lovers.

While reverse cowgirl feels great it’s a somewhat addictive position, given all the orgasms you get and the male adulation you earn for doing it right. Be sure to try a variety of other positions so you can keep your sex life varied and unpredictable. Ride a cowboy (in reverse) and see what you think!

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