Today, I’m going to share with you why men don’t commit. But first, I have to tell you something very important about men and commitment…
If you’re anything like many of the women I’ve worked with, it may be hard for you to believe what I’m about to tell you.
However, rest assured that it is the absolute truth.
I think it’s important that you not only hear this but that you hear it from a man…
As you may know, I used to be a MEN’S dating coach… I worked with thousands of men in their dating lives.
I talked with many of them about their deepest frustrations about dating and questioned them about what they REALLY want in a relationship.
Here’s what I found…
The overwhelming majority of men… not ALL men… but MOST of them…
Most men want a committed relationship.
Most men want to find that one special woman that fills his heart with love and then take her off the dating market and commit to her forever.
Millions of men get married each year in America alone…
And while your experiences with men may tell you something different, there’s a second part to this that’s even more important (and possibly more shocking and hard to hear) than the first.
Here it is:
If a man tells you that he just wants something casual or that he doesn’t want to commit to you…
It isn’t because he only wants something casual…
And it isn’t because he doesn’t want a committed relationship…
He’s saying this simply because he doesn’t feel like YOU are someone he could commit himself to…
While that may sting a bit, this is actually good news!
Why?
Because there’s a lot that you can do to make a man feel like you’re the type of woman he wants to commit to.
And if you fall into the trap of believing that all men are afraid to commit, you won’t trust what a man is saying if he tells you he wants to commit to you…
And you won’t be open to discovering how to unlock a man’s commitment.
So if the majority of men want a commitment, then…
Why do so many men seem so afraid to commit?
For a lot of men, commitment is risky…
We live in a day and age when record numbers of couples are getting divorced.
Many of us grew up in broken homes or with angry parents who were unhappy and fighting all the time.
We’ve seen our guy friends get divorced and lose half their money that they worked so hard to make…
Or we’ve seen them work really hard to support a wife and family only to be taken for granted.
We’ve seen (and some of us have been) kids getting raised by one parent, fighting to make ends meet.
Just like many of the women in our community have been betrayed by men, a lot of men have been betrayed by women.
I could go on and on…
The point is that men have lots of reasons to be afraid of commitment and marriage… with the wrong woman.
That’s why if you want him to commit to you, you have to show him that you’re different…
You have to show him that you’re someone he commit himself to…
A woman who is safe for him to fall in love with and be with forever…
If you don’t show him these things, he’ll tell you that he’s just looking for something casual…
Or he’ll try to avoid the topic all together.
How to Show a Man You’re the Perfect Woman for Him
If you’ve spent very much time trying to be the perfect woman for a man then you know it’s exhausting…
You end up feeling like you’ll never be enough for him.
That’s because what you think the perfect woman is for a man isn’t what makes him FEEL like you’re the perfect woman for him.
There’s one very specific difference between women who men want to marry and the ones men only want sex from… can you guess what that is?
I created a video that explains exactly what the difference is.
Click here to watch the video <<
When you have this one specific thing, it’s like you flip a switch in a man’s mind that makes him pursue you for a long-term, committed relationship.
But if you don’t have this one specific thing, you end up blurring into the sea of all the other women out there and he’ll only end up watching a sexual relationship with you.
I want you to have the man and the relationship that you’ve always wanted.
That’s why I want you to watch this video…
Click here to watch the video now <<
