Saying goodnight is another way to say “I love you.”  Of course, in early dating, that’s the one thing you do NOT want to say.  So think of “Goodnight” as a pleasant in between of “I love you!” and “Hey I really enjoy talking to you.”  Best of all, it’s one word.

The problem is everyone says goodnight.  In fact, most people treat “goodnight” like it’s a chore, something you say to family members, or co-workers, or even your followers on Twitter.

That’s why if you like a guy, you’ve got to give him something sweet and memorable, in addition to the goodnight.  He’ll pay close attention to your sweet sentiments and then the “goodnight” will be the emotional moment, the “kiss” right before you both go to sleep.

But what is sweet?  What are you going for when you send a goodnight text to a guy you like?  Maybe it’s your crush and you haven’t even gone out yet.  In that case, it’s an even bigger challenge.  You can have a good text conversation but then you have to close the conversation with a goodnight message.  Maybe it will be the pep talk he needs to ask you out!

Let’s consider then 10 good night messages for friends (who haven’t gone out yet) and then 10 good night messages for a guy who’s already asked you out.  Feel free to borrow or adapt these to your own personal style.

For Your Crush

  1. I enjoy our chats. You always give me something to think about.  I’d like to talk more but I have to get to bed.  Goodnight!
  2. You really understand me. Lately you’ve been my go-to guy for almost everything.  I hope you don’t mind…you just have good instincts and I always need a second opinion.  Good night for now.
  3. I miss you. I really enjoy it when we chat.  Even if it’s just texting.  You always make me laugh and make me think.  Have a good night.
  4. You are so weird but interesting. Lol A conversation with you is like seeing a movie sometimes, I never know what’s going to happen next.  Good night.
  5. Where have you been? You don’t send me flowers anymore.  Lol  Seriously, I enjoyed our chat.  You have a good night and have amazing dreams.
  6. Thanks for all of your help. You know I appreciate your support and friendship.  If I can ever pay it forward for you, do let me know.  Have a good night!
  7. We should have a longer chat about this sometime. I love getting a smart guy’s perspective on stuff like this.  Good night.
  8. Don’t be down on yourself. I wish more guys were like you.  Smart but passionate about stuff.  And always of good character.  That’s what all your friends love about you.
  9. You ought to have a podcast. I like hearing you talk.  You kind of say what everyone’s thinking but can’t articulate.  You also have a good voice for radio.  Anyway, just wanted to wish you good night and leave you with a happy thought for the night.
  10. I wish we could get together more often, with our mutual friends, you know. We have some great conversations. I’m a sucker for a long and funny discussion.  And I’m never disappointed when I talk to you.  Goodnight!

For Your Date

  1. I had fun! It was a great dinner and movie.  Been a long time since I just chilled too.  You made it easy.
  2. You say the sweetest things. Now it’s my turn.  You have such an appealing smile.  And when you’re excited and talking, you’re always the most interesting guy in the room.  Good night.
  3. Thinking about our date. We should do that again sometime.  I have more questions I need to ask you, lol
  4. You’ve been drifting in and out of my mind all day. The least I could do for all your traveling is say goodnight.
  5. Here’s a selfie for you. As you can see, I’m tired.  But wanted to wish you a goodnight.  Have sweet dreams and a brighter tomorrow.
  6. Thanks for keeping me awake today during a long workday. I laughed a little too loud at some of your texts.  Just wanted to say thanks and bid you a good night.
  7. You should really start your own company for sending funny, awesome texts. You are so much fun to talk to, especially on boring nights when nothing’s going on.  If only I didn’t have to go to work tomorrow.  Sigh…Well, goodnight for now.
  8. I like you. Promise to always stay the sweet, hard-working and honest, sometimes bratty guy that you are.
  9. I have to get up early tomorrow but I just wanted to tell you goodnight. Maybe this weekend we can catch up and get away from the corporate world.  Sweet dreams.
  10. I hope you have sweet dreams. Even better, I hope you have the will and desire to achieve your dreams. Because I know you have the talent, my friend.  Don’t give up.  Recharge tonight and be ready tomorrow to conquer the world.

As you can see, there’s no secret to writing sweet goodnight messages.  Just tell him something from the heart.  Keep things upbeat and fun, funny if possible, but always with respect.  When you write the “sweet” part of the message, you should focus on communicating your feelings about him.  You’re not “in love with him”, but do want to reward him for the time he’s spent entertaining you.  Men love to feel appreciated for what they do.

On the other hand, it’s also about showing your positive qualities.  Try to make him realize that you’re not just any ordinary girl.  You’re an extraordinary woman and you have eyes for him.  When you talk, there’s a special connection.  There’s a developing bond that’s much more intense than with anyone else.  It’s about time he notices and takes action!

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

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It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

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Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

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