Let’s make one point about introverts right now.
They are oftentimes not the stereotypical “loser” or “nerd” that our culture has labeled them. Rich men are oftentimes introverted. Confident men, even public speakers, can be privately introverted off stage. Some of your favorite actors, musicians, and politicians might even be awkward when it comes to finding real love.
After all, singing about love for an audience is far different than experiencing real love in your own personal life.
That said, it can be very difficult to read introverts since, in many ways, they do the opposite of what most extroverted people do in romance.
They avoid expressing how they feel. They avoid taking big chances. They prefer intelligent and logical courtship as opposed to dramatic gestures of love. They don’t like to be rejected and of course, making a woman feel “uncomfortable” is something they would never want to do.
Now that said…
Introverts DO give signals. They are looking for love and they do communicate in courtship. They are not completely muted, like say, Stevens from Remains of the Day. (And if you get that nerd reference award yourself 100 points!)
But their behaviors are subtle. And they are oftentimes of the “blink and you missed it” variety. It’s actually quite common for a woman to say, after an introvert flirts with her, “I had no idea you felt that way about me!”
So if you like an introvert, or suspect one might have feelings for you, it’s about time you analyze the introvert’s flirting style. Learning how he communicates will help you to be more aware of the (very) subtle signals he gives out.
Here are seven signals from the flirtatious introvert that you might have missed.
1. He makes an effort to be around you as much as possible.
He might not chase you overtly, but if you notice he’s always around you and always finds a way to be near you, that’s a pretty loud (introverted) message.
When an introvert doesn’t like you, he will avoid you. He will literally duck into closets to avoid a conversation with someone he doesn’t like. The fact that he finds you to be a relaxing and exciting presence in his life is a very good sign.
2. Introverts are kind of like “peaceful stalkers”.
That means he’s not going to go psycho on you, but he probably WILL like all your photos on social media and he will remember the minutia of your life that you share with him (or on your public page). Don’t think of him as a stalker, but more like a very attentive boyfriend in the making.
He doesn’t quite feel comfortable with outspoken romance, so instead, he begins the long and consistent process of being your friend.
3. They make weird conversation on social media messaging.
Introverts do try to speak their feelings…they’re just so shy about admitting attraction that sometimes the message gets lost in translation. They might say things that seem weird to you, confusing, or anti-climactic.
But keep in mind, that his goal is to simply engage you in a text conversation, even if the conversation is lacking. It’s a goal for him, even if it’s a small one. As long as he keeps you talking, he hopes the dynamic will improve.
4. He opens up to you.
This is perhaps the most blatant sign because by nature introverts DO NOT open up to strangers or even their best bro friends. They usually have to be coddled and encouraged to spill their guts.
That means that if an introverted guy starts telling you how he feels about existence, his romantic life, his work, his dreams, etc, there is a very good chance he’s trying to bond with you.
Otherwise, he would just awkwardly say nothing and enjoy the silence, right? That’s a pretty clear sign that an introvert does NOT like you.
5. He behaves in an uncharacteristic way.
Introverts typically plan their lives on a fixed routine and a conservative way of behaving and speaking. If he’s taking chances, or acting very opposite of his shy instincts, then rest assured it’s all because of you.
Whether it’s making eye contact unexpectedly, or doing something showy and dramatic, or simply treating you differently (usually more protectively) than he does everyone else, take that as a good sign.
6. He shares something deeply personal about himself.
Artists who are introverts will always find ways to subtlety brag about their work. If he’s not an artist, then he might open up to you about the art he admires, the music, movies, books, and cultural icons who he finds inspiring.
This will be the most emotion you see out of him because typically introverts will struggle with self-expression. When he wants to confess what’s in his heart, he turns to creativity to get those thoughts out. Either his own or people he admires.
Pay close attention to the little things he says and shares because they are glimpses into how he really feels about life and perhaps about you.
7. He will go the distance, like any other guy.
The only thing an introvert does have in common with a handsome extrovert is his dedication to pleasing a woman that he likes.
So if you “test” an introvert, by asking him for a favor, or chatting with him all night long, or doing something that requires his time investment, he will not disappoint. He may actually surprise you in how earnest and how selfless he can be when it comes to being a good friend.
Unlike a womanizing type, introverts will not get bored of you and will remain your friend to the end. He will be a valiant knight for you if you so wish it or will stay patient if he senses you’re not ready to pursue a romance. But he will always be there for you, perhaps in ways that other men fail to live up to expectations.
Take your time with an introvert and test him gradually – over a reasonable amount of time. Act too soon or too dramatically and you might scare him away. But if you respond to his little signals and draw him out, he will eventually respond and might even surprise you with a dramatic gesture of traditional romance.
The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life
There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…
It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…
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It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…
And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…
Have you figured out what it is yet?
Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…
And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…
Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…
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