How to Be a High Value Woman (And Make Him Want to Love You Forever)

Sometimes I hear this from women who are trying to improve their social life: “I understand what high value and feminine means…but I can’t seem to do that.”

Worse yet, some people think that being feminine or very attractive is some genetic gift, or as the French used to call it “je ne sais quoi”. They used to call it the It Factor in early Hollywood.

Well here’s the big secret. No one is born with it. Babies are not born feminine, attractive and successful. They’re babies! We all learn social attitudes and skills that round out our personalities and shape us into individuals.

So can you “learn” how to be a high value woman, the kind of feminine beauty who dates millionaires, young hot cubs, or practically any kind of man you want?

Absolutely. And I’m going to show you five proven ways how to be a high value woman and cultivate those essential qualities of:

• Femininity
• Success
• Empathy
• Intelligence
• Maturity and “maternal qualities” that he likes

Here we go…

1. Don’t try to be “feminine.” Work on becoming gentle, energetic and happy.

These are the qualities that femininity “looks like.” Femininity is not about wearing certain clothes or keeping a perfect posture. Sure, that helps. But ultimately a guy will be more interested in how you come across. Are you “Feminine” in the sense that you are interested in HIM and want to get to know him? Are you a naturally sweet and expressive person?

Do you bring a sense of positive energy to a conversation and can he tell you are happy in life? These are the true qualities of femininity and they are only enhanced when you make an effort to add good posture, good fashion choices and of course, that flirty giggle.

2. Don’t try to be “strong”. Be self-confident instead.

Too many women make the mistake of presenting themselves as so “strong”, they actually come across as overly masculine, which a lot of guys don’t like. The answer is to not alienate men by trying to challenge them, intimidate them or become sexually aggressive. The best thing to do is to BE self-confident.

Learn self-confidence through self-improvement. If your dietary habits and exercise regiment are lacking or nonexistent, start your new lifestyle today. Build a better body, one that you love.

Pamper yourself and create inspiration boards (even on social media if you prefer) that focus on the positive things in life, the stuff that personally inspires you. Visualize a “new you”, in career and life goals. Do those things, even if it’s just one day at a time. Challenge yourself and question NOT your success but the “inner critic” inside you.

The best way to learn self-confidence is not to fake it but to change your lifestyle and get busy doing the things you LOVE doing.

3. Don’t try to be “nice”…work on becoming empathetic and uncompromisingly compassionate.

Hey, I’m with you. “Nice” women don’t get very far. But that doesn’t mean you have to work on being rude, pretentious or difficult. Instead, become the “evolved” version of nice and get in touch with your empathetic side.

You care about people. And because you care about people you care about issues. You care about helping others and being interested in other people’s stories. It’s no coincidence that millionaire guys and terrific men all have a “type.”

And no, it’s not the trophy wife, it’s actually the activist type. The woman who volunteers, who supports causes and who campaigns for the poor and needy. That’s the type of high value woman successful men just love. They don’t want to marry a woman who worships them. They want to impress a woman who does good for the world.

And hey, taking an interest in other people sure makes you a wonderful human being apart from all this dating stuff, so it’s a “nothing to lose” scenario.

4. Don’t try to wow him with your smarts…be a smart conversationalist.

Some women make the mistake of coming across too strong during the first impression. They bombard the guy with hard intelligence, trivia and even argument. But that’s pushing the guy away, even before he can start to feel attracted.

Instead, let your intelligence show in the way you communicate. Let him talk. In fact, let him impress you with his knowledge. Use your intelligence to ask him smart questions. Talk about current events in the world that directly relate to your unique conversation.

The key thing about intelligence is that it’s of no value to anyone unless you can converse about it and start a two-sided conversation with your knowledge. This may require some extra reading but it will always benefit you.

Sometimes emotional intelligence (which is the art of using what you know to make a really interesting and exciting conversation) is even more highly valued than book smarts.

5. Don’t worry too much about being “classy”…project yourself as emotionally stable.

A lot of men might tell you that they like a down-to-earth woman, not a super model or celebrity. That simply means that being classy and perfect is not the priority. Rather, they value emotional maturity and stability in life.

Boys may like mind games and wild and crazy behavior. But honestly, as men we grow up and look for stability. We look for someone we can trust. Some men look for a woman who would make a good mother, if they’re interested in raising a family. The average man usually marries a woman who resembles his mother at least in terms of what we call “core values” (or fundamental beliefs about life).

He wants his future wife to work hard for what SHE wants, love him completely and live an active and full life with him but also apart from him. He also supports her independent goals just as he hopes she will support his. This is a truly equal relationship and it starts with the union of two stable and emotionally mature partners.

These are the five activities to focus on as you get serious about long-term relationships and finding a high-value man that lives up to your expectations. Before you can attract that man you must project high value yourself. Remember these fundamentals will improve your dating odds and lead you into the arms of a man you can really trust and love.

The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life

There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…

It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…

But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…

It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…

And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…

Have you figured out what it is yet?

Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…

And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…

Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…

Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…

A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…

And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…

Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…

If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…

I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…

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My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…

I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…

Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…

When you click the link this link right here <<

I show you what this 5 word phrase is…

I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…

And how to attract the man you want…

Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…

No matter how painful things have been in your past…

You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…

Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…

If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…

If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…

And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…

Click this link to watch my video right now <<

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