You might wonder sometimes if the man you’re with, or that you’re seriously dating, really loves you. Is he falling for you, or is he just going through the motions? It’s alarming to think about but sometimes men do fall into relationships they don’t ultimately want for a number of reasons. For instance:
- Easy to get physically intimate with someone (well duh!)
- They hate being alone
- They want something else besides physical intimacy or love from you
- They think being in a relationship (even one they don’t value) is better than having nothing
- They’re afraid to leave you
- He’s infatuated with your body, but not really connecting mentally or emotionally
And the list goes on. It’s best for you to learn who this man really is and what he wants…and if he actually does love you. Does he even understand love?
It’s up to you to study him and notice the signs. For this blog, let’s consider 9 favorable signs that show he loves you. These are beyond infatuation and beyond just pretending to be in love. If he does any of these amazing things then rest assured what he feels for you is real.
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He always listens to you and remembers details.
A man who doesn’t love you never listens! He’s mainly interested in what you can do for him. But a man that cares deeply for you always wants to know what’s happening in your life. Even better, he remembers details that other men forget. That’s how you know he’s paying attention…and that he loves you that much more than the pretenders.
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To him, your opinions and feelings are always taken into account.
In fact, it’s not just that he “listens” – but he actually values your opinions and feelings on everything. Before he makes decisions he wants your input. He also wants to know what you think about important issues, whether in his life or just in general. He values your wisdom. He wants to know what you feel and how to make you happy.
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He wants to share his life with you, even his hobbies and interests.
When a man falls deeply for a woman, he wants to share everything – way beyond the sexual realm. He wants to share everything, from his mind to his heart, to even his hobbies. You know a guy cares for you if he “opens up” his vault of special information. Most people never ask. And he lets very few people know the real him. This is a good sign!
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If it becomes between you and any other plans, you always win.
Simply put, he values his time with you more than anything else, except maybe work. He would rather hang out with you than go party with his friends. Even better, he lets you know that you’re a priority in his life. He’s no longer interested in being single and free. He’s ready to give part of his entire life to you.
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He knows his future… and you’re in it!
Men that care about a woman always think about the future. If they don’t, it’s not real love. But a man that loves you will think about what needs to happen, what he needs to you, and how to make you happy in the long-run. That’s how much you mean to him. He will give specifics and won’t be shy about telling you.
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He introduces you to his family.
Part of talking about the future involves spending time with family, yours and his. He won’t hide you away from the spotlight. He won’t even expect you to impress people. He will protect you, welcome you, and make you feel comfortable.
He will also want to meet your family. He won’t do so begrudgingly. He will go out of his way to be kind and accommodating.
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He is stable and mature in life.
This one’s important because a man that has an erratic life, and or doesn’t know where he’s going in life, is a dangerous investment. He might tell you that he loves you one week but then experience a change of heart next week – or next year, when his lifestyle changes. Not everyone understands the importance of stability. It’s not just job stability, but life stability. Where he’s going, if he’s serious about a commitment, and if he can follow through on his promises.
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He’s always honest – even to a fault.
A man that’s honest has no secrets and wants no secrets. In fact, you might say he’s honest to a fault. Not in the sense that he hurts your feelings and speaks every weird thought that passes through his head. But in the sense that he’d rather tell you the truth and have that uncomfortable conversation rather than holding things back. He doesn’t want to pretend or suppress. He doesn’t want to ruin the connection you have, which is based on honesty and mutual respect. That is precious!
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He never wants to stay angry – he must work things out.
Finally, if you have a man that genuinely hates upsetting you and “going to bed angry” that’s a great sign. Many guys would stew over an argument for days. They’d rather be “right”, they’d rather win the argument.
A man who truly cares for you would rather end the conflict. He’d rather talk things out. He’d rather compromise than continue to be stubborn. In fact, he’d rather apologize to you, regardless of who was right, than deal with the animosity. He simply loves you too much to go to bed angry. This applies, whether you live together or talk on the phone. The thought of you unhappy won’t leave him alone! He must fix it. That’s a great sign too!
If you sense he genuinely cares about you, and you feel the same way, don’t be afraid to commit and to talk about the future. Let him lead the conversation and let him feel committed to you. Then, talk honestly and sincerely about your needs and wants. Talk about your expectations and communicate. He’s ready to love you and that’s a great thing. Don’t second-guess yourself out of a wonderful relationship that’s within your grasp. It’s real!
The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life
There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…
It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…
But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…
It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…
And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…
Have you figured out what it is yet?
Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…
And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…
Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…
Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…
A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…
And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…
Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…
If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…
I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…
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My name is Matthew Coast and I’ve been teaching in the dating industry on since 2005…
I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women, all over the world…
Get into relationships where they feel loved, seen, and cherished by the men they’re with…
When you click the link this link right here <<
I show you what this 5 word phrase is…
I’ll teach you about why men pull away, how to stop it from happening…
And how to attract the man you want…
Into a relationship where you’re loved and adored and treated like a priority…
No matter how painful things have been in your past…
You can attract a great man and have a great relationship…
Just click the link on your screen and the watch the video right now…
If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…
If you’re tired of giving everything to a relationship and only being taken for granted…
And if you’re ready to have a man see you as a woman that he wants to be with forever…
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