Is the guy you’re seeing attracted to who you are beyond the physical attraction?
Right now we live in the world of the “hookup culture.” More than ever before, men and women are settling for casual, friend with benefits “situationships” where there’s no plan of having any type of real relationship together.
So how do you know if the guy you’re seeing is attractually attracted to who you are or just is interested in something physical?
Here are the signs…
1. He wants to get to know your mind
Do you laugh together and generally enjoy each other?
You know there’s emotional attraction when he wants to spend time getting to know you, who you are, and what makes you tick.
You feel comfortable spending time together without needing to “do” anything.
This is a huge sign that he’s emotionally attracted.
He wants to hang out, spend time together, and get to know the real you.
2. He introduces you to his friends
Have you met any of his friends yet?
Remember this… a relationship where a man hides you, where you’re his “dirty little secret” is not a relationship worth being in.
You’re worth more than that.
If he really likes you, more than just physical attraction, he’ll want to show you off to his friends and eventually his family.
Why? Because he’s proud of you. He thinks you’re awesome because you are.
That’s what you want.
My suggestion is that you don’t settle for anything less.
3. He takes you out during the day
Do you meet up outside of just nightly activities?
You’re worth more than just being a booty call.
If a guy is emotionally attracted to you, he’ll want to spend time with you even when it’s not convenient to hookup.
He’ll be happy to let other people see that you’re with each other.
That means he’s happy to be with you during the day.
You can actually test this. If he normally just wants to hang out with you at night, suggest meeting up during the day for a walk in the park or going to an event and see what his reaction is.
If he’s interested, that’s good news. If he’s not, he’s just not feeling it.
4. He wants to talk to you for long periods of time
Do you have long conversations with each other?
Maybe he’ll stay on the phone with you for hours. Maybe he’ll text you all the time. Maybe he’ll just love hanging out and chatting about the world and life with you.
Either way, he doesn’t want the conversation to end. He wants to know everything there is to know about you and what you think about life.
This is a huge sign that he cares about more than just the physical.
5. He wants to do a variety of different activities with you
If a man just wants to hook up with you, he’ll take you to a bar to get some drinks over and over until you are comfortable and ready for intimacy.
If he thinks of you as more than that, he’ll want to spend time doing a variety of different activities with you.
He’ll want to show you his life and what his interests are.
He’ll want to get into your world and find out what you’re all about.
Men who are interested emotionally in you will want to engage with you in a number of different activities because he cares about merging your lives together and seeing how they fit.
This is a great sign that he’s looking for something more.
6. He remembers important things about you
Does he remember important dates or things about you?
A man who is emotionally attracted will remember small things about you…
It might be that you have an important meeting at work or a song you really loved came up.
He’ll find little things about who you are, what you’re doing, and what you like and he’ll remember them.
This shows that he really cares about you as a person.
And THAT is what you want.
7. He does small, romantic gestures
Does he do little things that are romantic?
If he’s not interested emotionally, he’ll try to avoid doing anything romantic and keep things as casual as he possibly can.
However, if he starts doing romantic gestures, you know there’s something else going on with him.
Things like opening up doors, having you walk on the inside of the sidewalk, giving you notes, or saying sweet things to you all show that he’s got a strong emotional attraction.
And you are worth that to him!
8. He wants to talk to you for seemingly no reason
I sometimes get women who will ask me, “this guy just reached out and just said, ‘hi.’ What does that mean? What does he want?”
The answer is that he wants to be connected to you.
If a guy isn’t emotionally connected to you, he’ll reach out for one reason and one reason only… to meet for a hookup.
If he is emotionally connected to you, he’ll want to stay connected to you.
This usually looks like sending you messages just to say “hi” or to update you about what he’s doing.
Don’t get weird about it. He likes you.
9. He cares about your general wellbeing
Does your man check in with you just to see how you’re doing?
A guy who is only interested in the physical will seem like he’s a bit self-absorbed.
He’s not overly concerned about what’s going on with you, how you’re feeling, what you like and don’t like.
But if he’s emotionally attracted, he’ll want to check in with you just to make sure that you’re doing well.
Could you really just ‘press a button’ and make him obsess over you?
The answer might surprise you…
After all, we all grow up with dreams of our Prince Charming.
(Or Princess, depending on your desires)
But I find that the women I meet sometimes settle for “just ok” men five… ten… even twenty years into a relationship.
(God forbid after a divorce or an affair!)
That’s why I was BLOWN AWAY when I found science that PROVES you can make any man OBSESSED with you…
(you can read about it, yourself. Just click here: https://commitmentconnection.com/the-obsession-formula/ )
… And… as I read the studies… I became even more surprised by the results they promised.For example:
* One study where researchers showed you how to prevent + reunite separated couples – In this same study, they showed how to talk with a man so he no longer wants to leave you… How to touch him so his jealousy just melts away… How to text and call to win back your ex…
* Another study where a certain kind of love helped your man let “the little things” go – In this same study, they showed how to make him stop trying to “fix” you or your relationship… how to naturally coax him to stop picking on you… even how to make a hurt man forgive you, after an affair…
* Another study where this same kind of love even helped with anxiety and depression — in both you and him! In this same study, they showed how to make any man excited to see how… how to make just your smile lift his spirits… and how to touch him so he feels better about himself…
Study after study… more than one thousand, in total… which proved a certain kind of love can make any man truly obsess over you.
I was so blown away by this science, I boiled it all down, for you. You can read my small summary, right here:
Talk soon,
Matthew Coast
